rmh1711's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Moderate: Murder, Death, Gun violence, and Suicide
Minor: Death of parent, Abortion, Pregnancy, Car accident, Drug use, and Cancer
justreads93's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Ableism, Mass/school shootings, Toxic friendship, Homophobia, Toxic relationship, Violence, Car accident, Grief, Gun violence, Racism, Sexism, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Body horror, Sexual assault, Death, Misogyny, and Murder
Moderate: Cancer and Classism
actualresultsmayvary's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Spoiler
I am writing the body of this review before giving a star rating because I am yet to sort out my thoughts.
On the whole I really enjoyed reading this book and I enjoyed the writing style and the switching perspectives and timelines. I particularly loved the part of the book told in the second person from Marx's perspective whilst he was in a coma.
However, from about halfway through the book I found Sadie and then Sam quite unlikeable. Their justifications for huge fallings out were either based on easily resolved miscommunication (a trope which I can't bear) or on things which were ultimately just silly. They then seemed to make up (often after years of not talking) for again quite trivial reasons. I also found that there were sometimes small inconsistencies with the descriptions of events and whilst I am willing to write that off as an intentional decision to show that Sadie and Sam perceived things differently, I don't think it was well done.
I liked that Sadie's relationship with Dov felt realistic but I feel he was given too much of a redemption arc for a man who was essential a predator who abused her for years.
I think overall this is just a book that was overhyped for me personally, it was good but not brilliant.
Moderate: Murder and Emotional abuse
fictionaladventures's review
- Loveable characters? No
2.0
Graphic: Murder, Death, Suicide, Gun violence, Injury/injury detail, and Infidelity
Moderate: Sexual content
rachelmaria's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I didn't find the characters particularly likeable, but I was definitely invested in their success and shared in their heartache. I feel sorry for books that have this much hype, as I always find they can never live up to the expectation, but I'm glad I read this.
Moderate: Suicide and Murder
lyssachap's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Spoiler
you work at Unfair GamesI loved this book, I loved Sam and Sadie and Marx and Ant and Simon and Dong Hyun and Anna Lee and their stories.
The world around them is so well-written its like this happened. This is real. These are real people outside of the book and enmeshed into the real world that all of us live in. You live a whole life with these people in 397 pages.
I adored this book and its unlike anything I have read before.
Graphic: Sexual violence and Suicide
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Murder, and Gun violence
Minor: Pregnancy, Abortion, and Vomit
sandyclare's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Suicide, Physical abuse, Gun violence, Murder, and Emotional abuse
Minor: Sexual content
annoyedhumanoid's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Spoiler
"'Zweisamkeit' is the feeling of being alone even when you're with other people." Simon turned to look in his husband's eyes. "Before I met you, I felt this constantly. I felt it with my family, my friends, and every boyfriend I ever had. I felt it so often that I thought this was the nature of living. To be alive was to accept that you were fundamentally alone." Simon's eyes were moist. "I know I'm impossible, and I know you don't care about German words or marriage. All | can say is, I love you and thank you for marrying me anyway."
Ant raised his glass. "Zweisamkeit," he said.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Grief, Gun violence, Suicide, Violence, Death, Murder, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Drug use, Injury/injury detail, Sexism, Car accident, Hate crime, Death of parent, Religious bigotry, Sexual violence, Vomit, Abortion, Blood, Medical content, Mental illness, and Racism
Minor: Antisemitism, Alcohol, Cultural appropriation, Cursing, Gore, Homophobia, Infidelity, Pregnancy, Cancer, Classism, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, and Terminal illness
sarzad's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Mass/school shootings, Murder, Physical abuse, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Violence, Suicide, Medical trauma, Misogyny, Toxic friendship, Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Injury/injury detail, and Car accident
Moderate: Xenophobia, Sexual content, Drug use, and Vomit
Spoiler
there is a mass shootingcatching5tars's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Gaslighting, Mass/school shootings, Car accident, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Murder, Medical content, Hate crime, Gun violence, and Grief
Minor: Suicide