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beefbourguignon's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, and Toxic relationship
ems_book_shelf's review against another edition
5.0
Recommending this book a million times over
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, Bullying, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Toxic relationship, Mental illness, and Panic attacks/disorders
Minor: Blood, Sexual assault, and Abandonment
mapauacero's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Emotional abuse
hollyrebecca's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Sexual content, and Domestic abuse
Moderate: Body shaming, Drug use, Bullying, Chronic illness, and Alcohol
drgnhrt968's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, and Toxic relationship
applesodaperson's review against another edition
4.5
Also a random thought I had is that it is
Overall, the descriptions of abuse in this book were just very impactful and hard to read, due to how bad it makes you feel for Carmen. I think this is an amazing book, and Machado is an incredible author.
Read a borrowed copy from a friend.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Sexual content
frozenheartv's review against another edition
5.0
🌕🌕🌕🌕🌕
“Putting language to something for which you have no language is no easy feat.” – Carmen Maria Machado
“The trouble with letting other people see you at your worst isn’t that they’ll remember; it’s that you’ll remember.” – Carmen Maria Machado
“Queer folks fail each other too.” – Carmen Maria Machado
“…you can be hurt by people who look just like you. Not only can it happen, it probably will, because the world is full of hurt people who hurt people.” – Carmen Maria Machado
🧠 My thoughts
If I want to describe this book in 1 word it’s definitely “Wow”. Domestic abuse has been a hot topic that many people look into and write about but this book stands out due to its creative and fantastic writing style. The prose was beautiful, poetic, and lyrical which made me feel like I was reading a fictional book but “unfortunately”, the story was real.
First of all, I have to comment on the incredible writing style. I felt that the way the author used the third-person narration was so smart. It made me feel like she might have overcome the trauma and now she was telling us her own story, detached (not completely) from it to give us an objective view of the Dream House. The chapters were bite-sized and that made the story fragmented like memories, like her heart, clear but also unclear, damaged but also already mended.
By inserting some educational chapters, I felt that I had a better understanding of not only her life story but also the issues related to the LGBTQAI+ community. The author raised a very valid point that domestic abuse (of queer or not queer) is very ambiguous. How much psychological torment a person has to suffer to be considered as abuse, for everyone to realize it and help them?
The only drawback I saw was that jumping from the informative chapters to other ones too abruptly made it sometimes just a bit hard to follow.
👍 What I like
- Creative writing style and gripping narration
- Educational and informative
- Powerful and memorable
👎 What I don't like
- Sometimes the informative chapters jump too abruptly back and forth to the author’s own story ones makes it a bit hard to follow.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, and Toxic relationship
laur_astor's review against another edition
Graphic: Bullying, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Sexual content and Homophobia
quirkydrinkerofink's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Emotional abuse and Gaslighting
Minor: Body shaming and Homophobia
cor_luz's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, and Domestic abuse