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Ein wenig Leben by Hanya Yanagihara

melj_'s review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Oh my goodness, my heart ❤️ I will never forget this story, I will never forget these characters 

ajclarkk's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

Woof

andieboba's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

For the longest time, I had such a hate/hate relationship with this book - it's taken me months to finish. Months to listen to the endless amounts of trauma one individual can go through, let alone the repercussions that has on a friend group, and the attending branches of said group.

But today I listened to the last 8 hours nearly without pausing, and I see now the truth of this story.

Yes, there is copious amounts of trauma, that to a point almost feel like - how could one even think this up to do to a character, let alone let them survive it?

But then it sits with you, and it sits with you, and it fucking sits with you. And it asks you so heavily to look between the scars and the apologies and the hospital visits for those brief flashes of happiness.  The mundane, neatly domestic moments that truthfully most people ignore but in this case we're forced to look at harder all for the sake of searching for a light at the end of the tunnel.

The light is brief, flavored by lime and sun-tanned skin and summers spent outside and it BURNS. You sit there listening, reading, waiting for the inevitable reminder that life is brutal, and vicious, and has claws and before you know it the claws swipe at you, knock you off your feet, and have you sobbing as though you've been struck. 

And the crazy thing is? It's worth it. All of the hurt and the pain and the "how is this possible?" 

All for the happy parts. Because friendship and the bonds of it, or rather friendship and the remainders of it-whether lost to time or other painful things make life worth it, and so too does this book become worth it. 

So read it and rip your heart out. Read it and weep, and weep and weep. But know that you'll come out of it looking for the mundane memories of your life. The Lispenard Streets of your youth. The art pieces of /your/ personal gallery. Read it, and learn what it means to be human despite the multifaceted way being human means to be flawed and loved because of it. 

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3.0

Long but good. I was into it until the last two sections. I wasn’t a fan of Jude and Willem being a couple. I wish the book had stayed more about wholesome friendships. Perhaps if Jude’s sex life with Willem was written with some smut, i think that would’ve made it better. Jude and sex only seemed like a negative and made his character feel more weird and alien-like.

Idk if I’m dumb but it was unclear why jude had all these illnesses.

My biggest problem is that it seemed like this book was just a collection of really bad events. It didn’t seem like it was written with an outline and a clear ending. Everything was too random. There were no parts of the story that tied together or an ‘aha’ moment. I think an attempt was made with the recurring memories of Lispenard St. Worth the read and overall I’m glad I stepped outside of my usual genre.

derbuecherfreundj's review against another edition

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emotional sad

5.0

ruthielin's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

Incredible story.

anadegreiff's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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3.0

*3.5. Sad as hell. Writing is stellar but ending kind of felt like it was blow after blow for no reason. Would recommend though.

pansadita's review against another edition

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Hanya Yanagihara apresenta a história de Jude como uma tragédia grega: inevitável. A autora busca - com, sinceramente, sucesso - fazer com que o leitor chegue ao fim do livro acreditando que não havia outra forma para que ele acabasse, que o personagem não tinha escolha, explorando, como já comentou em diversas entrevistas, a ideia determinista de que o ambiente é capaz de danificar uma pessoa para além da possibilidade de cura. Como no Axioma da Igualdade, x = x. Ao longo do livro, acreditei, erroneamente, que as muitas vezes em que Jude fala que não tem opção quanto a seus comportamentos eram apenas uma representação das crenças trazidas pelo vício na autoflagelação, mas pesquisando após terminar, percebi que eram, na verdade, exatamente o que a autora buscava passar com a história: a impotência humana frente ao trauma.

Não concordo com os muitos que alegam que esse livro nunca deveria ter sido escrito. “Uma Vida Pequena” é um livro de ótima escrita, personagens realistas e cativantes e acredito que algum dia, provavelmente, será considerado um clássico do início do século XXI. Yanagihara teve sucesso na sua tentativa de escrever uma história maximalista e melodramática, minha questão é que, além disso, ele é manipulativo. No alto de suas 700 páginas, tive a sensação de que estava assistindo uma espécie de deus praticando experimentos com a sua criação, mas a criação era um personagem que eu tinha aprendido a amar.

A experiência de leitura te coloca não nos sapatos do Jude, mas sim nos do Willem, Harold, Andy, JB, Malcom, todos que, como nós, eram espectadores obtusos do sofrimento do protagonista. Você vê Andy atendendo Jude múltiplas vezes com a ameaça da internação gritando com a página para que ele finalmente faça seu trabalho e force o Jude a aceitar o tratamento; e quando isso, finalmente, acontece, é em vão. Você assiste Willem, por anos, perguntando sobre o passado de Jude e entende, completamente, quando ele pensa que não quer ouvir mais nada quando ele, enfim, lhe conta sua história, porque esse é, também, o sentimento do leitor - nos primeiros capítulos, você sabe que algo terrível aconteceu, imagina o que foi e, ainda assim, tem uma sede voyeurística de descobrir de fato; e quando isso acontece, as descrições são, obviamente, horripilantes, desconfortáveis e exaustivas tanto em conteúdo quanto em quantidade.

A questão que tem me assombrado desde o fim da leitura e que, eu imagino, continuará me assombrando por meses é: valeu a pena? O amor, a amizade, a felicidade, a vulnerabilidade dessa história compensam o sofrimento da leitura? Eu faria a escolha de abrir esse livro de novo? Não sei. Sei apenas que não o recomendaria para ninguém, mas aprecio que ele tenha sido escrito e fico feliz que ele tenha encontrado pessoas que o amaram tanto; e acredito que, querendo ou não, levarei Jude St. Francis e Willem Ragnasson comigo onde quer que eu vá.

messenger_g's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0