megnut's review against another edition

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5.0

These essays weave together aspects of identity with specia  characteristics of sea creatures. 
I really enjoyed these metaphorical journeys... and will definitely listen again. 

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abbeyreads13's review against another edition

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5.0

I adored this book, picked up after a user I follow recommended it on Booktok. In eleven stories, Sabrina Imbler draws beautiful connections between their life and those tragedies — and wonders — of the ocean and its sea creatures. I felt deeply moved by the queer experiences described in this book, heartbroken by the history illuminated of human’s overconsumption leading to the extinction and struggles of sea dwellers, and inspired to learn, read and do more in cultivating my own immersed connection with the ocean. Really loved this book. Do check content warnings though.

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dreareads_'s review against another edition

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4.5

There is so much about this book to love. I love the way Sabrina is so open and honest about their life, identity, and existence. Each essay provides us with a glimpse to their story, a story that is intertwined with a love for sea creatures and science that only Sabrina can blend together. By portraying their life through sea creatures, Sabrina opened the door for strangers to walk in and see a world that is both familiar and strange. Of all the essays I must say that my favorites were definitely "If You Flush A Goldfish" and "We Swarm". Two essays that felt both deeply personal and universal at the same time.

The only reason I do not give this book 5 stars is because there were a couple of essays where the chosen sea creatures and scientific discussions did not easily blend with the story that Sabrina was presenting at the time. 

Regardless, I cannot help but love a book where I learn a lot and feel even more. 

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ambert's review against another edition

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4.5

 I'll be honest, when I first saw this book as one of the nominees for Goodread's book of the year I thought that it was a book that would follow sea creatures as they interact in the ocean. Almost like a food chain, going deeper into the sea as time goes on.
I have never been happier to be wrong about a book's topic.
This is an incredibly poignant memoir for those who don't quite know who they are, but know they are getting there. Each essay is an examination of an amazing sea creature and their unique social or morphological attributes, intertwined with experiences from the author's life. 
My favorite of the essays has to be 'My Mother and the Starving Octopus', where Imbler connects an extraordinary Mother Octopus who stands vigil over her eggs for an astonishing 53 months, and how her mother's body image affects how Imbler sees herself. VERY relatable. 

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eicart_reads's review against another edition

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4.25

Engrossing, thoughtful essays that combine fascinating stories about sea creatures with reflections on the author's life as a queer, biracial person. The parallels that they draw are creative and compelling. I inhaled this on audio, read by the author.


CW:
I did not realize that this would contain so much material about the author, so I would not have considered content warnings. But there are some major ones: dieting, body shaming (by self and others), drug use, alcohol use, blacking out from alcohol use, non-consensual sex (inability to recall consent in some cases -- because blacking out from alcohol use), underage non-consensual sex.

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I've read over 100 books so far this year and this stands out as one of the very best. It was beautiful, powerful, honest, and informative. I love learning about animals, and the way the author wove all these fascinating facts about sea creatures into their own experiences with race, gender, sexuality, body image, and relationships (romantic and family) was just so creative and thought-provoking.

This book had me near tears several times with the tenderness the author uses when speaking of the LGBTQIA+ community and their own self, and at a few of the sadder animal stories as well. It's emotional without feeling manipulative.

I enjoyed the audio version because it felt really impactful to hear the author's experience in their own voice, and also, there's a sort of wry humor in their voice in certain parts. They're a great narrator as well as a great writer! It sounds like the physical and ebook versions might have illustrations, though, so if you're one of those people who can read and listen at the same time, do that! Otherwise, it seems like all options are good options.

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chefboyavi's review against another edition

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4.75

Sabrina Imbler is uniquely qualified for this particular craft: to view their life through a kaleidoscope of sea creatures. It’s informative, heartbreaking, and resonant and it will make you want to dive into the ocean (or visit your local aquarium). 

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4.5

an absolute stunner. perspective and experience are critical and beautiful, and i feel so lucky––though "lucky" doesn't feel nearly like strong enough a word––to have been able to bear witness to imbler's.

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30something_reads's review against another edition

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5.0

* I updated this to 5 stars because I cannot stop thinking about it* 

This was such a great mix of science and memoir. I loved the scientific tidbits on the various species discussed and thoroughly enjoyed reading through these essays and the connections that the author makes to their life. 

Some of the essays resonated more that others. I am still tickled by the authors Petco anecdote and observations of the feral goldfish. The stories of the starving octopus and sturgeon were really thoughtful pieces regarding the authors relationships with their mother and grandmother. I had to set the book down for a few days after the Sand Striker essay. (Not because it was bad... it was, in fact, <i>too good</i> and very haunting.) And the essay "We Swarm" discussing Salps and finding joy in queer community made my heart swell.

Would absolutely recommend. I will definitely be looking into Imbler's other works. 

TWs: rape, sexual assault, eating disorders, body dysmorphia, coming out, transphobia, racism, gender dysphoria, substance abuse,

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