emily_journals's review against another edition

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challenging emotional informative inspiring reflective medium-paced
I don't give star ratings to memoirs, I don't feel that I have the right to quantify the quality of someone's life experiences. 

The essays in this book are very informative and I think encapsulate the feelings that commonly relate to existing in our society as a fat person. I also really admire the author for writing about her own internalized fat phobia as a fat person and how much of a struggle it can be to try to overcome that. The essays in this book outline the difficulties of existing as a fat, Black woman ranging in settings and issues, covering growing up in school, dealing with medical professionals, portrayal in pop culture, and more.

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kaitrates's review against another edition

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challenging informative reflective slow-paced

3.0

I'm glad this book exists and that I read it. It ties together many disparate threads in a way that feels cohesive. It looks at the issues it tackles (namely: fatphobia, racism, and ableism and their intersection) on multiple levels and with plenty of personal and societal examples (both research and media). 

And also...

I found myself increasingly frustrated by it, wanting more depth from many chapters (especially the one on COVID), and wishing that its discussion of chronic illness was positioned alongside fatness and Blackness in the marketing and discussions of the book.

One thing that I appreciated AND was very hard to read was when Dionne shone a light on where her internalised fatphobia shows/showed up. This is SO very real and I feel like you don't often see this written about when its the reality for many of us. Sharing this part of her story plainly was very powerful and very hard.

I've noticed for myself and other reviews that part of me wanted more of a self-help book....more lessons to take away. And while there were some, no step by step process was outlined. I'm investigating this desire within myself and tracing its roots 

Overall, I'm grateful to feel less alone and to have synthesised many different bits of information and experience I haveā€”even as it made for challenging and very triggering reading, at times.



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nanimao's review against another edition

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informative reflective medium-paced

3.0

Contains really explicit sexual content, fertility struggles, mental health struggles and chronic illness. 

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emmas_bookshelf's review against another edition

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hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced

5.0

Withholding my review until Harper Collins negotiates with the union 

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