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Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown
17 reviews
chamomiledaydreams's review against another edition
5.0
Additionally, it explains the concept of chrononormativity to demonstrate how society expects everyone to reach certain milestones at specific points in their lives. Queer people challenge this concept for many reasons. For instance, a closeted lesbian might not be able to date and explore her sexuality until well into her twenties, while her straight peers have likely been at this for over a decade. Similarly, but even more queerly, asexual people often never hit these milestones at all, especially if they are averse to sex and romance.
Sherronda J. Brown also discusses the conflicting sexual stereotypes that apply to Black aces. They talk about the history of anti-Black racism and how hypersexuality remains a Black stereotype to this day, which can make it especially difficult for Black aces to be believed or for their asexual identities to be legible to others.
I have identified as ace for over a decade now, and I am thrilled that ace scholarship such as this book exists. It validates many of my own experiences at the same time that it opens my mind to concepts and trends that I was not previously aware of. I would recommend this book to anyone interested in thinking more critically about asexuality and treating it like you would any other identity in queer studies. I wish I had been assigned texts like this when I was in school!
Moderate: Sexism, Colonisation, Racism, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Acephobia/Arophobia, Slavery, and Rape
Minor: Police brutality
peachani's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Racism and Slavery
Moderate: Medical trauma and Body shaming
Minor: Rape, Dysphoria, Racial slurs, Sexual harassment, Religious bigotry, Ableism, and Sexual assault
workingdaley's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny, Rape, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Racism
Moderate: Sexual assault, Sexism, Fatphobia, Medical trauma, Sexual violence, Slavery, Sexual harassment, and Domestic abuse
Minor: Biphobia, Homophobia, Religious bigotry, Violence, Death, Emotional abuse, Lesbophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Ableism, Hate crime, Body shaming, Physical abuse, Colonisation, and Transphobia
maddramaqueen's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Sexual violence, Racism, Medical trauma, Misogyny, Sexism, Rape, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Body shaming, Homophobia, Slavery, Outing, Physical abuse, and Colonisation
Minor: Dysphoria, Fatphobia, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, Ableism, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Biphobia, Classism, Bullying, Cultural appropriation, Lesbophobia, Alcohol, Pandemic/Epidemic, Abortion, Panic attacks/disorders, Police brutality, Religious bigotry, and Transphobia
kaynova's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Sexual assault, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Racism
Moderate: Forced institutionalization, Misogyny, and Homophobia
reading_rainbeau's review against another edition
4.25
Moderate: Sexual assault, Racism, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Slavery
lanid's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Racism, Sexual harassment, and Sexual assault
leweylibrary's review against another edition
4.5
That being said, a lot did still resonate with me, and I saw myself in a lot of parts. But by far the most valuable part of this book is how it connects asexuality and compulsive sexuality in our society and cultures is connected to all of the other massive, systemic issues of our world, including white supremacy, cisgender, patriarchy, heteronormative, colonialism, etc. I had never made this connection, but the more this book spelled it out, he more undeniable it became. This also went a long way in reassuring me that asexuality is a queer identity and that it belongs in the LGBTQIA+ acronym and larger culture and world. I'm not a fake queer for having this identity. It's weirdly comforting to know that this part of my identity, especially when paired with my childfree identity, are so terrifying to the "normal" culture. *Punches fist into air triumphantly* All of this made the dryness well worth it.
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia, Gaslighting, and Homophobia
Moderate: Medical trauma, Sexual assault, Misogyny, and Religious bigotry
jackieines's review against another edition
2.5
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia, Slavery, Racism, and Sexual assault
kylieqrada's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Racism, Slavery, and Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Rape, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence
Minor: Homophobia, Lesbophobia, and Biphobia