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brewdy_reader's review against another edition
dark
emotional
hopeful
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Contemporary Fiction • LitFic • Coming of Age
Published • 31 January 2023
Once again the cover fooled me… non spoiler alert: this is not a romance 😂 although that does not mean I’m sorry I read it — and there are a couple of steamy bits.
Maame is a moving coming of age novel as well as a story of grief, life, and love (including platonic love), as told from the perspective of Maddie, a 25-year old second generation Ghanian immigrant living in London. It reads like it could have been a memoir and indeed in the afterword the author indicates she took much inspiration from her own life.
This is a character driven story that explores themes of assimilation, racism, sexuality, micro-aggressions, online dating, infidelity, belonging, and family. Many of the characters made me want to scream, especially the well-meaning ones.
I drew many parallels between Maddie’s life and my own, in the parental expectations, attempts to fit into the dominant culture, societal expectations, and immigrant experience. I think I would have related even more when I was in my 20s- 30s, when I was more naive and less cynical of human nature.
For a large part of the book I felt sad and depressed, so although the story ultimately ends with redemption and hope, I would recommend saving this for a time when you have the mental capacity to sit with some trauma. This is a story that you won’t be able to put down and that you’ll think about long after you’re done.
This novel had been sitting on my shelf for too long after I bought it for the gorgeous floral cover. @bakers.bookends incentivized me to start this, although it was @tiques.tbr who I buddy read it with!
TW: Depression, Death of Parent, Sexual Trauma
Published • 31 January 2023
Once again the cover fooled me… non spoiler alert: this is not a romance 😂 although that does not mean I’m sorry I read it — and there are a couple of steamy bits.
Maame is a moving coming of age novel as well as a story of grief, life, and love (including platonic love), as told from the perspective of Maddie, a 25-year old second generation Ghanian immigrant living in London. It reads like it could have been a memoir and indeed in the afterword the author indicates she took much inspiration from her own life.
This is a character driven story that explores themes of assimilation, racism, sexuality, micro-aggressions, online dating, infidelity, belonging, and family. Many of the characters made me want to scream, especially the well-meaning ones.
I drew many parallels between Maddie’s life and my own, in the parental expectations, attempts to fit into the dominant culture, societal expectations, and immigrant experience. I think I would have related even more when I was in my 20s- 30s, when I was more naive and less cynical of human nature.
For a large part of the book I felt sad and depressed, so although the story ultimately ends with redemption and hope, I would recommend saving this for a time when you have the mental capacity to sit with some trauma. This is a story that you won’t be able to put down and that you’ll think about long after you’re done.
This novel had been sitting on my shelf for too long after I bought it for the gorgeous floral cover. @bakers.bookends incentivized me to start this, although it was @tiques.tbr who I buddy read it with!
TW: Depression, Death of Parent, Sexual Trauma
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content, Death of parent, and Abandonment
amalas_bookstop's review against another edition
adventurous
emotional
funny
hopeful
inspiring
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
This book is a coming of age story of a young Ghanaian woman in her 20s living in London. Throughout the story she tackles work related race stressors, relationships, grief, family, moving out for the first time and finding a voice.
I can hardly believe this is Jessica George’s debut novel. The way she was able to capture grief had me in tears (and I do not cry easy). After reading her forward I realized her dad is no longer with us. Which totally explains how she was able to have Maddie tap into that grief.
I loved how she was able to explain complex topics like love and culture. It was very relatable and her characters felt so real.
If you are looking for a realistic black woman version of a coming of age story, this is it!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual content, Grief, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Moderate: Cursing
Minor: Drug use, Infidelity, Suicidal thoughts, and Alcohol
teacupsandfirereads's review against another edition
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
I'm on the fence if I loved this one. It told a realistic story, the responsibilities of caring for a sick parent and not getting to "grow up" in time. I found the main character believable, but I struggled to connect with her. I found for broaching such a dense topic, this book just skimmed the surface level. I wanted more substance to it, and didn't feel I got what I wanted. Take my review with a grain of salt. It is still worth reading.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness, Terminal illness, and Grief
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Racism, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Minor: Infidelity, Sexual assault, Suicide, and Toxic relationship
mdavis26's review against another edition
3.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Chronic illness, Fatphobia, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicide, Grief, Death of parent, and Abandonment
alybarnett02's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
5.0
See trigger warnings! The “Tragedy strikes” was really heavy for me. But so so good, I cried and reflected on my own similar experience. And how those hard things we go through shapes us. Shows such personal growth. I could definitely relate to Maddie when I was that age. Being in London as a black woman, along with her challenges in dating white men. Whew!! Say it for the people in the back! Such good topics!
This was hard to read after Maddie’s dad died. Mostly the process of her grief, and talking to him at her nightly prayer. Wow. I cried. I lost my mother in law and slowly coming on her birthday while reading this. I felt Maddie’s pain. Most people around that age don’t understand what it’s like. But, everything from her talking to her dad, knowing he isn’t in pain, and can be free was so beautiful. And so true for all of our loved ones. It was the reminder I needed. And ending that part with her dad responding? My heart yall. Whatever your religion is, it’s insane, and it might not seem real. But your loved ones can tell you, “its okay”.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content, Terminal illness, Grief, and Death of parent
Moderate: Toxic relationship and Abandonment
cmhillner's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
An enjoyable read but found the tone uneven and odd. The main character is difficult too like at times but always relatable.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Mental illness, Racism, Death of parent, and Abandonment
michelles_books9's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Chronic illness, Death, Grief, Death of parent, and Abandonment
aerialwhitney's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
sad
tense
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.5
Content Warnings
Moderate: Chronic illness, Racism, Grief, Death of parent, Gaslighting, and Abandonment
fkshg8465's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I did not enjoy reading this book, but when I was done, I felt full and satisfied.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Terminal illness, Grief, Death of parent, and Abandonment
sophs_mood_reading's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Maame: Woman; the responsible one.
When a nickname becomes a life burden. This is what life is for Maddie. The youngest child and only daughter of a family in London. Her mother flees to Ghana for years at a time, her brother is too busy and her father has Parkinson’s and relies on her for his care.
But is this all life is for Maddie, can she change, does she want to change, she better google it.
This novel is about the beautiful self discovery of a 25 year old woman who’s family put to much on her and others around her take advantage of her.
I loved how her story unfolded, life forced her to change and question her life choices, her mental state and who she wants to be, all with the help of a google search.
This was a beautiful insight into family dynamics, mental illness, discrimination and found family.
At first I got annoyed by Maddie’s googling every question she had and talking out loud to herself but as the book continued I realised why she did it and why it was needed.
Highly recommend this read but there are some triggers so be kind to yourself.
When a nickname becomes a life burden. This is what life is for Maddie. The youngest child and only daughter of a family in London. Her mother flees to Ghana for years at a time, her brother is too busy and her father has Parkinson’s and relies on her for his care.
But is this all life is for Maddie, can she change, does she want to change, she better google it.
This novel is about the beautiful self discovery of a 25 year old woman who’s family put to much on her and others around her take advantage of her.
I loved how her story unfolded, life forced her to change and question her life choices, her mental state and who she wants to be, all with the help of a google search.
This was a beautiful insight into family dynamics, mental illness, discrimination and found family.
At first I got annoyed by Maddie’s googling every question she had and talking out loud to herself but as the book continued I realised why she did it and why it was needed.
Highly recommend this read but there are some triggers so be kind to yourself.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Drug use, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Grief, Death of parent, Gaslighting, and Abandonment