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A Court of Silver Flames by Sarah J. Maas

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meghansarmiento97's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark emotional mysterious sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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midnacine's review against another edition

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adventurous dark tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

I'm not gonna get into a whole detailed essay with this book. Read my previous reviews of this series for context.

It's no secret I hate Rhys and reading from Feyre's perspective, so this book was so refreshing in that I could almost forget they existed. Almost.

Overall, I loved the journey Nesta and Cassian went through. As someone who struggles with mental health, I think Nesta's healing was handled beautifully. I loved seeing her realize her love for Cassian and find friendship in Gwyn and Emerie when she thought she didn't deserve it.

Two big things I didn't like: Feyre's pregnancy and the fact that Nesta sacrificed her power because of it.

I love that we see Nesta coming to terms with the truth that she doesn't wanna be a cruel, ruthless queen. I even love that she makes sacrifices for family members who didn't see what she was going through- I think it really brought her story full circle. However, I hate that there was no other way for Feyre to have survived the pregnancy. For a world in which magic is abundant, you'd think they'd have figured out how to perform a C-section correctly.

It gets an extra half star over the other books literally only because Spicy Cassian and I didn't have to read Feyre saying "my mate" over two hundred times.

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planetshelf's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

Maas mentions bones and toes far too often.

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abbybiegs's review

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adventurous dark emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

OH??? MY???? GODDDDDD??????????? i am so unwell. i am CRYINGGGGG in the airport right now. the ending of this book makes me want to scream and cry with joy like i have no words for what to put here. this is genuinely one of the best books i’ve ever read. at first, i was a little nervous because the main focus wasn’t on feyre and rhys, it was on feyre’s firey sister who i never really liked UNTIL NOWWWW. nesta was such a baddie and i absolutely adored her development throughout this whole book. i cannot count on the fingers of both hands of mine the amount of times i slapped my hand to my mouth out of surprise due to a plot twist, or a sad moment, or a feisty comment by nesta. sarah j. maas put her whole soul into this book and we LOVE HER FOR ITTTT!!! i felt every single emotion possible in this book, which was such a pleasant surprise considering my original biases going into it! absolute 100/10 recommend and READ THIS ASAP AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOUR THOUGHTS AREEEEE!!!!!

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daisycantread24's review

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adventurous emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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delliomellidom's review

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adventurous emotional inspiring tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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thebankofbooks's review

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emotional funny inspiring sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

There’s not really much of a plot aside from Nesta’s character growth, but it’s such a beautiful book. It’s the most emotionally raw of the series, and it also happens to be the ~spiciest~.

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reading_ray's review

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DNF - 12%
The only thing I liked was the map.

I could not get past the first 5 or so chapters. How Sarah had the Inner Circle leave Nesta on her own to deal with her PTSD and get mad at her for not getting better is so aggravating. Mental illnesses, for most people, don't get any better without help. Her family should have reached out sooner, not when they were embarrassed by her behavior.
They didn't reach out because they were concerned for her but embarrassed when she spent their money. Which I feel the need to point out, they have been paying everything for her for a year. I also find it unbelievable that none of the Inner Circle are sympathetic towards Nesta with her PTSD. The fact that the Inner Circle can't relate to her PTSD after having gone through what they did in the first three books and what others are said to have gone through before is completely unrealistic.
There were also better ways to get Nesta up to the mountains. The Inner Circle didn't need to trick her out of her house, steal all of her things, condemn her building, and give her an ultimatum where both options are threatening to her life(go to a place that is known for its misogyny or to a place where Fae are hated).
On a final note, A Court of Wings and Ruin had an ending. There was not hint of another book, besides it being listed on Goodreads. This reeks of an author only continuing a series for more money. I know authors get their money but I feel that if an author is going to continue to write about a world different characters should be the focus of the story. Yes in the first three ACoTaR books it was about Feyre and Rhysand and this was about Nesta and Cassian, but Nesta and Cassian also had important roles in the first three books.

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challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

Someone said to me, “If you weren’t already a SJM fan, this isn’t going to be the book to change your mind.” Well this book actually Unmade (capital U on purpose) me a SJM stan. I have seen a lot of reviews applauding Sarah J. Maas for how she wrote about the topic of mental illness, and I’m going to have to disagree with this point of view and offer another POV.

As someone with mental illness and a bit of trauma, I hated reading this book. I really felt unheard the entire time and like SJM was doing those with trauma a huge disservice. I am one of the few who has liked Nesta from the beginning, and I saw the trauma she held onto. It made me feel seen. I even felt alienated when I defended her before ACOSF was released, so I was really hoping this would be her swan song, her redemption arc. Some would say she was redeemed, but at what price?

She brought a lot of hurt and disapproval upon herself. I get that, and I guarantee that most people who have trauma do the same. You know what we should do for those who are acting out of trauma and hurt? Create a safe space for them to come to us. Do you know what we shouldn’t do? Ignore it on the grounds of “just letting them get it out of their system” until it gets too bad and inconvenient for us. Then put our foot down and do the most extreme thing ever like locking them away on the mountainside with one person whom they blame for a lot of their problems. We shouldn’t threaten them with complete exile from the only land they have left because of the trauma you brought on them yourself.

Everything that the inner circle did for her was brought on by their own anger and impatience with her. They locked her up there and then continued to meet without her and discuss her in such an ugly and negative way that would have brought her to her knees if she had known. Feyre was allowed a lot more room and grace when she had to transition into being Fae as opposed to human. And if your response to that is, “yeah but she handled it a lot better” I would remind you that everyone processes trauma differently.

The absolute horrendous negative self-talk that Nesta had throughout the whole book was very, VERY triggering with someone who struggles with this on the daily. Her self-talk is a great example of what can spiral when you have a complete shit support system around you, and I don’t believe that self-talk evolved over her transformation. I don’t believe it benefited the story at all but to show how much her toxic relationship with the inner circle negatively affected her perception of herself and her mental health in general. However, I do not think that was Sarah J. Maas’ intention. I think it was supposed to shed some light on mental illness, but it was just so triggering and did nothing but bring up my own trauma and exhaust me mentally. I know this wasn’t everyone else’s experience, but it is important to shed some light on this POV. I don’t think SJM understands or has as much right to write about trauma and healing as most readers give her credit for. I think she caused a lot of damage with this book, and that is what we aren’t recognizing.

Even when Nesta finally gets her moment and proves she is not some damsel in distress that needs the whole privileged inner circle to save her from, she is quickly pulled into Feyre’s moment. And this was unjustly done just by the writing by SJM. She could not give the reader who relates to Nesta a moment to feel her triumph, to feel her joy and power. She could not let us castaways believe that our moments are coming. We too can come away from our trauma and change everything people doubted about us. Then she saves the day again, but SJM makes sure to acknowledge that her work will remain a secret. Sure, she earned her place in the inner circle but somehow I feel like they are all quicker to remember her misdoings than her resurrection.

Mentally this book destroyed me, and I feel like it didn’t have to. It did not have to bring up my trauma, my self-doubt, and my negative self-talk. It did not have to be this miserable reading experience. I have said it once during this review, and I will say it again: Sarah was irresponsible with this one. She was disrespectful with how she wrote about a character with obvious trauma and mental illness, and you will not convince me otherwise. In fact I hope this review served to show another POV. I do not want to ruin anyone else’s experience with this book; in fact I hope no one else has the experience I had with this book. I don’t think that will be the case though, so if you felt any of this while reading you are not alone.

I also thought SJM was careless with the topic of sexual assault, and I want to make sure I acknowledge how triggering this book is if you are triggered by sexual assault or rape. There are several times when it is written graphically, and I didn’t find that necessary. There is also a lot of graphic sexual content with consent that I just felt could be triggering as well. @graciouslyrooted talks about this a lot in her review. Thank you, Brooke, for your transparency with this. If you have any sexual trauma in your past, even the consensual sex scenes could be triggering.

I am a huge Cassian fan, but SJM did him dirty in this book. I felt like he took advantage of Nesta during a time when she was most vulnerable and should have been recovering. But then she centered Cassian as the one who was being hurt by Nesta. Their sexual relationship had me rolling my eyes with disapproval the whole time. It was like the fandom said, “More steam! More smut!” And Sarah was like okay I’ll put it everywhere even when it completely disrupts the healing that Nesta should be experiencing, even when it completely takes away from the actual plot. It was exhausting. And also can we get Sarah J. Maas a thesaurus? Every sexual encounter used the same few words and terms; there was nothing new!

After this experience, I think it is safe to say that I:

Do NOT regret quitting the Throne of Glass series after two books.
Will NOT be continuing with this series.
Am seriously questioning whether I was correct in loving House of Earth and Blood so much or if the rest of the Crescent City series is going to let me down as much as this book did.

If you think that sentencing someone to isolation while angrily discussing their well being and toting that as “taking care of them” is acceptable, you may have read this book. But let me just clarify that if you have experienced trauma in your life, you deserve better than this. You deserve a support system that wants your healing for your sake and not because they are exasperated with you. You are seen, and you are appreciated no matter where you may be in your healing. Please consider this review when recommending this book to others. If you know they have experienced trauma, severe depression, and/or sexual assault in their lives please give a content warning or just don’t recommend it. This is not a book to be sweepingly recommending to all audiences.

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adventurous challenging slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.0

So. It took me two dang weeks but I finally finished this massive tome of a book. And I have some thoughts.

Oooh boy, do I have some thoughts.

This book is not good, folks. It’s not good. I’ve read almost every SJM book (except CC and Catwoman) and this was hands down the worst.

In short, the pacing is way off, the plot is absolutely RIDDLED with holes, the sex is transactional and empty, the vast majority of it makes NO sense, and SJM’s toxic masculinity problem seems to be in overdrive in this one.

In long.

Maas books have always had problematic elements - in this series it seems to be more pronounced than in Throne of Glass, to me. But usually they’re such a fun, addictive read that I kind of just let that stuff fly for the sake of a bit of escapism. But never have I read a book of hers that was just SO poorly plotted. The Maas magic was just missing in this one.

The first 200 pages, I was pretty into it. Sure, it was slow and character focused, but I was enjoying being back in the world and seeing where things would go with Nesta. Granted, the entire premise on which this book hinges - Nesta being sent to the House of Wind - is incredibly stupid and makes no sense. Okay, she’s depressed and traumatised and (most important apparently, even though Rhys and Feyre are absolutely crapping money) costing them money (how rude of her to need to like, exist, in this place she never bloody asked to be in the first place) - so is their solution is to isolate her in what is essentially a prison and force her to do physical labour. ON WHAT PLANET is this an acceptable way of dealing with someone with PTSD and trauma?? By taking away all sense of her own agency?? I literally CANNOT with this entire thing, and given that’s the whole premise of the book, I probably should have known it wouldn’t go well, but hey, I guess I’m a sucker for punishment.

Okay, but then we spend like 600 - YES, SIX HUN.DRED. - pages in the House of Wind, training and going to the library and being rutted like a damn animal by Cassian. Six hundred pages people, in which VERY little actually happens. And yes, I know the stans are all like “it’s characterrrr developmentttttt” - firstly.. not really. Secondly, it’s BORING. The entire middle 50%, I was struggling to make myself pick the thing up, and just wanted to push through the dang thing so that I could have a fully rounded opinion on it.

Lets talk about the sex. I grant you that I personally do not like sex scenes in books in general. Just not my thing. But it’s not necessarily in and of itself going to make me think badly of a book. I’m more than capable of skim reading for my own comfort, I accept that other people enjoy it and that’s fine. But the vast majority of the sexual content in this book was very transactional and devoid of any kind of connection or emotion. I guess some people like that but it was very much not to my taste at all. People are really out here swooning over a guy who has never heard of the most basic of aftercare. There’s a quote I saw on IG, that said “when you’ve spent your life in the basement, it’s easy to mistake the first floor for the penthouse. Raise your vision.” Cassian isn’t the penthouse people. He’s like the first step out of the basement. (The basement being Rhys ohhhhh yes I said it). You can have a “just sex” type arrangement with someone and still give a modicum of care for their wellbeing afterwards. I HATED how it was all like “oh Nesta never asked him to stay”, as if that was her bad. It kind of reminds me of when you’re like “I”m sick of cleaning your pee off the toilet seat” and dude’s like “oh, you should have asked me.” No no, I shouldn’t need to ASK you to clean up your own damn urine. You should know to do that because you’re a grown ass adult. That’s how I feel about Cassian pissing off the moment he’s spilled his “seed” (gag) every time. “She never asked him” to stay or even just give her a hug or a gentle word after… okay, she shouldn’t have to ask. Can we normalise aftercare please??

I have to also add that I decided to really give one of these sex scenes a decent read to see if I could get into it like others do.... and I just ended up laughing and rolling my eyes. Multiple times a day I have that “silken balls” bit come into my mind and I crack up laughing. His “silken balls” whacked into her and that made her come lmaooooooo omg I just can’t. Don’t get me started on “her drenched entrance” GAG. Or the fact that Cassian’s “cock” is mentioned about a million times, but for her we get “her sex” or “her pleasure”. IT’S A CLITORIS SARAH, YOU CAN SAY IT. We do get the C word one time - so we can call it such a crass word, but not just like… vagina?

Okay, next let’s talk about the fact that darling beloved Rhys is a grade A abuser. Rhys showed us exactly who he is in the first book, where he’s absolutely awful. Then, when he’s winning the girl in the next two books, he softens his edges, and both the fans and Feyre fall for it hook, line and sinker. Now he’s got the girl, he lets go and becomes his true, toxic self again - this is CLASSIC abuser 101 tactics right here. This is what they do. Sure we see Feyre standing up for herself against him, but he still spends the entire book being moody, possessive, aggressive, NOT INFORMING FEYRE ABOUT HER OWN HEALTH what the ACTUAL fork, I cannot with how mad I am about that bit. He keeps her in a protective magical forcefield to the extent that she can only hug or kiss her friends when he deigns to let it down. COME ON PEOPLE. I would GENUINELY like the next book to be about how Feyre escapes from yet another abusive relationship. I was mad with her in the beginning for the whole “punish Nesta” plan, but by the end all I could see was a woman under the thumb of an abusive man. I actually like Feyre more now, and I want better for her.

Now I need to get to the plot holes. Even though SJM’s other books have always had problems, they’ve always had a pretty zippy, addictive plot to see you through. I am genuinely shocked at how much of this book makes absolutely NO sense. I repeatedly felt like the author wanted characters to be in a certain situation, and therefore had to manipulate the plot to make it happen, even though it actually made zero sense and the reasonings given were flimsy. As mentioned before, sending Nesta to the prison/House was a pretty abysmal premise to begin with. The thing with

Feyre’s baby having wings is NONSENSICAL, I cannot deal with how much it does not make sense and is clearly just there to add drama. Rhys doesn’t have real wings and Feyre is Fae, and somehow she manages to conceive an Illyrian baby. The explanation given is that she shapeshifted into Illyrian form while they were having sex, but somehow a) she can’t just shift back to have the baby because *reasons*, and most importantly b) RHYS DIDN’T THINK TO MAYBE MENTION that maybe they shouldn’t have unprotected sex while she’s Illyrian because an Illyrian baby would KILL HER??

This entire plot point is STUPID.

Then when Nesta is the ONLY dang one who tells Feyre the truth about

HER OWN BODY AND LIFE, she gets punished by being forced to hike in the wilderness for days on end under a heavy pack. WHAT THE FORK???

And somehow this physical torture ends up being some kind of healing process for Nesta, which is just so weird and stupid. If I were her, I would have told all these dickheads to go get f**ked, honestly.

I feel like this entire book is that person who hears about your mental health problems and says “have you tried yoga??” The whole way through the book, I kept thinking - really, these 500 year old beings haven’t invented psychotherapy? AND THEN the absolute KICKER…. right at the end, we find out that

THERE WAS A THERAPIST AT THE HOUSE THE WHOLE TIME omggggggggg what the actual fork people, I cannot dealllllll??? Gwyn says that she did talk therapy with a priestess therapist. NO ONE THOUGHT TO MAYBE SEND THE GIRL WITH MAJOR PTSD AND DEPRESSION TO THE THERAPIST???? No no, we’ll just make you fight and run up and down a staircase. What the FORKKKKKKKK????

Now, in the last 200 pages, the plot picked up, and was actually page turning and exciting. BUT it still made no sense and was littered with problems.

The three girls being thrown into the Blood Rite was obviously contrived because it would make for a fun plot, but it made no sense at all. Secondly, the Blood Rite itself makes no sense at all. All of their best warriors are literally being slaughtered by each other, how in the world does that make sense?? It’s kind of addressed at one point but not satisfactorily. Thirdly, hugely powerful and wonderful Rhys is so dang powerful but he can’t get the girls out of the Rite because *reasons*. Because it’s a “rule” that if they’re rescued, they and their rescuer will be killed. A rule by WHOM?? Big powerful High Lord Rhys can’t overcome this random rule by *gestures vaguely* someone?? That makes no sense.

Fourthly, and very importantly - Cassian is Illyrian. Azriel is Illyrian. Clearly, not all Illyrian males are complete trash. And yet, I’m somehow supposed to feel awesome and empowered about Nesta absolutely slaughtering swathes of them in a blood bath?? Yay, go you, you can kill innocent people thrust into the same situation as you… girl power?

I’ve probably ranted enough now, so I won’t get into how much I hate the entire “mates” concept. Or how it makes no sense that

this magical “mates” decider, whatever it is, would pick a Fae and an Illyrian to be mates, given that they wouldn’t be able to have babies without killing the woman wtf??? I could also get into how these female fantasy writers seem to struggle so much with letting a woman not just be powerful, but KEEP her power. Aelin loses her power in the end. Alina in the Grishaverse loses her power so that she can live her quiet little life without making darling Mal uncomfortable. And Nesta gives up her power too. HEAVEN FORBID a woman be powerful, keep her power, and learn to live alongside it - and screw anyone else’s discomfort with it!

Phew. Okay. I think I’m done now. I have always felt a little uneasy with this series but this book has really tipped the balance. I literally want to get rid of the whole series so I don’t have to look at it on my shelf.

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