Scan barcode
kale_lr's review against another edition
3.5
Minor: Racial slurs and Racism
sarahweyand's review against another edition
2.25
I don't doubt that Jeannette is a good journalist because that's exactly how this memoir comes across - cold, objective, and distant. That's not what was needed; I wanted reflection, feelings, insights, not a retelling of her childhood framed as some fairytale novel. It felt like half the story was missing without Jeannette including her emotions at the time or how the events of her childhood made her feel. I was fuming the whole time and she did a good job of retelling her life to elicit those emotions, but I felt like I was more upset than she was writing it.
Speaking of, I think Walls did too good a job of retelling her life to the point where I started to consider her an unreliable narrator. There was too much anecdotal detail; no one remembers stories from when they were three or four, let alone with the descriptions she provides. I don't want to start doubting an author for telling her clearly traumatic life story.
This is a long review but I'm almost done. The nail in the coffin for this whole memoir is the ending. There is zero catharsis. It feels like Walls refuses to fully acknowledge the harm her parents did to her. Hell, the synopsis of this book ends with the phrase " the intense love of a peculiar but loyal family". I'm sorry. Have you seen the trigger warnings I'm adding to this book??? There is no love. This family is not "peculiar", it was abusive. I'm left feeling empty and frustrated with the author, who should not be the target of those kind of emotions after reading a story like this one.
Read Educated instead.
Graphic: Alcoholism, Bullying, and Child abuse
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Sexual assault, and Racial slurs
rainerasnic's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Sexism, Death of parent, Drug abuse, Alcoholism, Physical abuse, Rape, Alcohol, Addiction, Domestic abuse, Blood, Bullying, Child abuse, Death, Injury/Injury detail, Drug use, Racism, Fire/Fire injury, Gun violence, Pedophilia, Mental illness, Racial slurs, and Sexual harassment
alexisgarcia's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcohol, Pedophilia, Sexual harassment, Sexual content, Child death, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Death, Death of parent, Mental illness, Gaslighting, Medical content, Grief, Addiction, Alcoholism, Blood, Cursing, Animal cruelty, Pregnancy, Racial slurs, Sexism, Bullying, Classism, Fire/Fire injury, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Miscarriage, Racism, and Sexual assault
thehmkane's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcohol, Toxic relationship, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcoholism
Moderate: Child abuse, Racial slurs, Mental illness, Incest, Gun violence, Gaslighting, Forced institutionalization, and Racism
chaoticnostalgia's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, Child abuse, and Death of parent
Moderate: Gaslighting and Racial slurs
Minor: Fire/Fire injury
jessicagill's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Sexual assault, Child abuse, and Alcoholism
Moderate: Racial slurs
machenn's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Fire/Fire injury, Racial slurs, Death, Alcohol, and Alcoholism
tomnoor's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Abandonment, Racial slurs, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Fire/Fire injury, and Sexual assault
Minor: Death of parent, Child death, and Medical content
mirajuliee's review against another edition
4.0
(also, and i don’t know if this was just my version of the book but it had tons of spelling mistakes/random misplaced letters which distracted a lot while reading)
Graphic: Ableism, Alcohol, Blood, Bullying, Cursing, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Medical content, Sexual harassment, Addiction, Injury/Injury detail, and Racial slurs
Minor: Animal death