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parasolcrafter's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.25
Graphic: Death, Ableism, Car accident, Confinement, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Sexual harassment, and Medical content
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Alcohol and Body shaming
this is gonna be a book i remember for a long time. fucked me upbrucethegirl's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
But at the end of the day, the translation was excellent, the main reason this is 2 not 1 star. The way the translator was able to convey subtle aspects of Korean culture so brilliantly was honestly masterful. With only a single hiccup where they had to explain the relation between the different meanings of the word chagi.
I'll also admit that there were certainly aspects of this book that I really enjoyed, and that could have made me really love it- the things that kept me from DNFing in the face of the disgusting ablism. Most notably was the way the sexism and also the disintegration of their marriage was portrayed. It was clear if you read between the lines, but subtle enough I could see how it would be missed. But even from the first few pages, the hints are already there. It's how we're led to empathize with Ogi through the terrors he faces when he doesn't even recognize himself as the monster of his story.
But then that brings us to the real issue with the book. The way the real horror is so reliant on the ableism, not in the horror of how another could treat someone this way, but in the horror of losing control of his own body and being at the whims of another. Too often ableism is used as a means of horror, the way a reader can find themself in a state of horror without a monster having to be present. A different level of body horror that I just can't stand. Yes, the way his mother in law treats him is messed up, but its the lack of him being able to do anything as she forces his condition to worsen that makes the reader want him to triumph even as the horrors of his own actions are revealed.
There was so much promise in this book, ruined by the need to make disability horrific. That easy way out used to force a reader to observe a body at not fully functioning capacity in order to make them uncomfortable. That aspect was too much for me.
Graphic: Confinement, Medical content, Ableism, Death, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Sexism and Sexual assault
Minor: Adult/minor relationship
dalmavatai's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Car accident, Child death, Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Grief, Infidelity, Medical content, and Terminal illness
Moderate: Ableism, Excrement, and Suicidal thoughts
moraofthestory's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
Moderate: Car accident, Confinement, Death, Medical trauma, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Bullying, Excrement, Infertility, and Suicidal thoughts
bookedrightmeow's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Some scattered thoughts:
- First, an unreliable narrator: geography professor Oghi wakes from a coma after surviving a car crash that killed his wife.
- Oghi is now disfigured and paralyzed from the crash, with no one to care for him except his mother-in-law, who's understandably destroyed by the death of her only child.
- I don't think Oghi is intended to be likeable at all, but I also found myself rooting for him at times? It’s complicated, especially when we flash back to moments from the marriage.
- Since the narrative is from Oghi’s point of view, we have a limited, biased sense of who his wife truly was, which is frustrating.
- The novel is on the short side but it’s concise and packs a punch. It's an interesting study of grief, revenge, consequence, and acceptance.
Graphic: Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Car accident, Confinement, Death, and Grief
swinsword's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
Moderate: Ableism, Car accident, Confinement, Death, Infidelity, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Physical abuse
brgntteva's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.5
Graphic: Ableism
Moderate: Body shaming, Car accident, Death, and Domestic abuse
brinoverbooked's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Ableism, Emotional abuse, and Physical abuse
Minor: Death
jjosh_h's review against another edition
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Ableism, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Death, and Mental illness
Minor: Suicidal thoughts