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jen_again's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child death, Grief, Medical content, Terminal illness, and Cancer
Moderate: Suicide
Minor: Alcoholism, Blood, and Drug use
theyellowbrickreader's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Cancer, Blood, Medical content, Child death, Alcoholism, Terminal illness, and Mental illness
Moderate: Suicide and Suicidal thoughts
marpaige's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Cancer, Grief, Child death, and Terminal illness
danibailey's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child death, Cancer, and Death
heathengray's review
4.5
It's said the death of a child is the worst possible tragedy to happen to a parent. I didn't know if I believed that until I became a parent myself, to a premature, underweight, slight little goblin of a child, that has grown up to be a beautiful bright eyed, silken haired boy. A boy not unlike Henry in this book. I've often feared my son's death. I remember during the first few months of his life I was wracked with night terrors about keeping this little voiceless baby alive. To this day, I check his breathing about 5 times before I go to sleep myself. I hope I only ever have to imagine what Rob, Leah and the Delaney family and friends went through in losing their beautiful boy.
Delaney is a comedian. I've watched his stand-up and I was a fan of his show Catastrophe. I had no idea his child was ill, and died, during the filming of successive seasons. I think only the mind of a comedian could write something like this. It is a sad, incredibly heart-wrenching book, but there is humour here, often dark. There is also parts of a manifesto on life and the NHS, and grief. And anecdotes of other events and tragedies from his and his family's life.
Misery loves company is the crude premise I would give to this book. And from the tortuous events in his life, and his reaction to them, and taking comfort in them, I would offer this book to anyone who has dealt with a similar grief. At least to know that grief can be respectful, and also fucking monkey shit insane. There are no wrong answers to grief. There are wrong answers in responding to it however, and while Delany offers insight into how you might respond yourself, he judges that response with a cruelty I think excessive, and yet also completely justified. If there was a definitive explanation of the difference between Sympathy and Empathy, it is in his rant about the phrase "If there's anything you need...".
I want to give this a full 5, but I feel something is missing. Maybe he wrote it too soon after his son's death, but he admits there are parts of his grieving process he left out. He couldn't think about them; They were too painful.
I hope, for the sake of others who might learn, and find relief, and companionship in his words, that he revisits this book at a later date.
Graphic: Terminal illness, Child death, and Cancer
Moderate: Death of parent, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide
If you have read the blurb, then you know what this whole book is about. It is incredibly sad. But it's also cathartic. Hopeful even.bella_cavicchi's review against another edition
4.5
Reading it has me wanting to give my parents a hug and thank them for loving me unconditionally. For that is all we can offer!
Graphic: Death of parent, Child death, Cancer, Suicide, Medical content, Grief, and Death
Moderate: Pregnancy
lavenderlemonade's review against another edition
Graphic: Child death, Cancer, Vomit, Terminal illness, Medical trauma, Medical content, Grief, Death, and Chronic illness
Moderate: Pregnancy, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Mental illness
michelarod's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Mental illness, Cancer, Child death, Death, Terminal illness, Grief, and Suicide
thedocument's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Medical content, Suicide, Child death, Medical trauma, Cancer, and Terminal illness
ambersbooks's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child death, Death, Medical content, Cancer, and Grief
Moderate: Pregnancy