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Four Eids and a Funeral by Adiba Jaigirdar, Faridah Àbíké-Íyímídé
8 reviews
nickel_books's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
informative
inspiring
sad
tense
medium-paced
4.75
This book was an absolute delight! A friends to enemies to lovers structured by Said and Tiwa's POVs and a third, third person narrative. It's funny, full of heart, and second changes - for the characters and their community.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Religious bigotry, Grief, Child death, Racism, and Car accident
Moderate: Cancer and Islamophobia
aromanticreadsromance's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
Okay. Loved this book as a contemporary young adult coming-of-age. Didn't like it so much as a romance, just because the romance part seemed to come out of nowhere toward the very, very end (imo, it shouldn't be classified as a romance book). Like the title says, it takes place over four Eids and a funeral. The main characters, Said and Tiwa, are former best friends who had a falling out three Eids ago, after Said transferred to boarding school in Virginia. They're initially brought back together at the funeral of their hometown librarian, with whom they both had a special relationship. The same day, there is a fire at the Islamic Center. The two reluctantly team up to save that year's Eid festivities, and the Islamic Center from demolition after they learn of the crooked mayor's nefarious plans to use the land for condos (because of course).
This book is full of Muslim joy and pride! Said and Tiwa are both Muslims from different ethnic backgrounds (like the authors!). Said is Bangladeshi-American, and Tiwa is Nigerian-American. Ironically, Tiwa is much more involved in their faith but gets treated as an outsider by the aunties in their community because she's Black. They don't recognize her as Muslim (it's weird that some of the aunties don't even recognize her from the mosque, considering the Muslim community in their town is small and tight-knit). As a South Asian, Said's Muslim identity is never questioned (which is ironic since he's less involved than Tiwa). I wish the book hadn't glossed over the commentary on anti-Black racism in Muslim communities. Since the issue was raised, I feel it shouldn't have been brushed off or rushed through and should have gone beyond the surface level.
I almost feel like this book suffered from trying to do TOO much that some of the threads were lost. I wanted MORE on so many topics, like Ms. Barnes (the librarian), Timi (Tiwa's little brother), and Tiwa's dad, to name a few. But especially Timi.
My favorite character was Tiwa's best friend/Said's sister Safiyah (we support women's rights AND wrongs). She's so funny AND gay (and you can't tell me those two things aren't related, LOL).
Overall, I liked this book, but I didn't LOVE it. It kinda reminded me of Lark and Kasim Start a Revolution by Kacen Callender (ex-best friends explore their feelings for each other, plus a sprinkle of activism), so if you liked that, you'll probably also like this!
A big thanks to Macmillan for the advanced copy of this book! All thoughts are my own.
This book is full of Muslim joy and pride! Said and Tiwa are both Muslims from different ethnic backgrounds (like the authors!). Said is Bangladeshi-American, and Tiwa is Nigerian-American. Ironically, Tiwa is much more involved in their faith but gets treated as an outsider by the aunties in their community because she's Black. They don't recognize her as Muslim (it's weird that some of the aunties don't even recognize her from the mosque, considering the Muslim community in their town is small and tight-knit). As a South Asian, Said's Muslim identity is never questioned (which is ironic since he's less involved than Tiwa). I wish the book hadn't glossed over the commentary on anti-Black racism in Muslim communities. Since the issue was raised, I feel it shouldn't have been brushed off or rushed through and should have gone beyond the surface level.
I almost feel like this book suffered from trying to do TOO much that some of the threads were lost. I wanted MORE on so many topics, like Ms. Barnes (the librarian), Timi (Tiwa's little brother), and Tiwa's dad, to name a few. But especially Timi.
My favorite character was Tiwa's best friend/Said's sister Safiyah (we support women's rights AND wrongs). She's so funny AND gay (and you can't tell me those two things aren't related, LOL).
Overall, I liked this book, but I didn't LOVE it. It kinda reminded me of Lark and Kasim Start a Revolution by Kacen Callender (ex-best friends explore their feelings for each other, plus a sprinkle of activism), so if you liked that, you'll probably also like this!
A big thanks to Macmillan for the advanced copy of this book! All thoughts are my own.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism, Grief, and Child death
Minor: Fire/Fire injury
skye_era_books's review against another edition
emotional
funny
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
YES. This is one of my most anticipated reads of the year. I love both authors and was so excited to hear that they were writing a book together, I just knew it would be fantastic. It was the perfect mix of how they both write. I loved Said and Tiwa and felt very connected to all of the characters. The narrators did a fantastic job at bringing the characters to life. Thank you to Macmillan Audio for providing me with this ARC.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Fire/Fire injury and Racism
Moderate: Car accident, Child death, Death, and Toxic friendship
bookishspicy's review
funny
lighthearted
reflective
relaxing
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.75
“It seems I can’t help liking his smile. Everyone has their weaknesses, I guess, and Said’s smile is mine.”
⚜
This was a beautiful, comforting read about two friends falling in love, a shared custody of an orange cat named Ladoo and a whole lot of forgiveness.
This book was so easy to read, I loved every second of it. All the characters were so loveable and understandable (everyone except the mayor). I loved the sister-like bond between Niwa and Safiyah. The way the town was portrayed was beautiful with all its murals, especially now with Saids mural.
Niwa and Said’s banter made me smile many times. I loved watching them rebuild their friendship while trying to save their towns Islamic centre. The scene in the restaurant together was adorable.
As someone who isn’t familiar with Islamic traditions, I felt it was all explained fairly well for me to understand, although I did sometimes have to look up things like the clothes or food.
The romance was very slow, Niwa and Said only started becoming friends about halfway through the book. I didn’t think we got enough thoughts from them about their hidden love for each other, there's a few times they catch each other's eye, or they get butterflies, but we never get much of their thoughts until the love confession at the end.
I wish we had more about how Tiwa and Said grieved for the loss of their mentor, I felt like it was forgotten about after the funeral at the very beginning. She was very important to both characters, so this part of the story didn’t feel right. I also thought that Timi (Tiwa’s younger brother) wasn’t spoken about enough considering he died only 2 years ago.
I felt that forgiveness was far too easily given at the end of the book, for something that had ruined a very good friendship. I wish there had been more explanation and a little more conflict before it was resolved.
Thank you so much to @NetGalley and @UsborneYA for the eARC of Four Eids and a Funeral by @dibs_j and @Faridahlikestea
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This was a beautiful, comforting read about two friends falling in love, a shared custody of an orange cat named Ladoo and a whole lot of forgiveness.
This book was so easy to read, I loved every second of it. All the characters were so loveable and understandable (everyone except the mayor). I loved the sister-like bond between Niwa and Safiyah. The way the town was portrayed was beautiful with all its murals, especially now with Saids mural.
Niwa and Said’s banter made me smile many times. I loved watching them rebuild their friendship while trying to save their towns Islamic centre. The scene in the restaurant together was adorable.
As someone who isn’t familiar with Islamic traditions, I felt it was all explained fairly well for me to understand, although I did sometimes have to look up things like the clothes or food.
The romance was very slow, Niwa and Said only started becoming friends about halfway through the book. I didn’t think we got enough thoughts from them about their hidden love for each other, there's a few times they catch each other's eye, or they get butterflies, but we never get much of their thoughts until the love confession at the end.
I wish we had more about how Tiwa and Said grieved for the loss of their mentor, I felt like it was forgotten about after the funeral at the very beginning. She was very important to both characters, so this part of the story didn’t feel right. I also thought that Timi (Tiwa’s younger brother) wasn’t spoken about enough considering he died only 2 years ago.
I felt that forgiveness was far too easily given at the end of the book, for something that had ruined a very good friendship. I wish there had been more explanation and a little more conflict before it was resolved.
Thank you so much to @NetGalley and @UsborneYA for the eARC of Four Eids and a Funeral by @dibs_j and @Faridahlikestea
Content Warnings
Minor: Racism
zluvsreading's review
emotional
funny
hopeful
informative
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
sad
tense
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
If an “infinity stars” rating was here, I would put it at that.
Gosh, where do I even start???? I know I say this with almost every book, but
Gosh, where do I even start???? I know I say this with almost every book, but
THIS.
WAS.
AMAZING.
This deserves an infinity rating from me. I truly cannot believe such a great book is (almost) out in the world for everyone to read and enjoy. I can’t believe such talented writers exist and that they are simply not praised for such an amazing thing being published. (What are words, you understand what I mean)
When I read the dedication, I was immediately enamored and knew I was going to love this.
I adored the writing style this was written with. The “acts” and how it’s sometimes narrated made me laugh so hard. (Not in a haha what a joke, but in a genuine aw I love that haha) It felt very Shakespearean (I have never read a word of Shakespeare in my life) and I just cannot help but love it. It was very easy to fly through, and that I did. I started it last night and read through half of it before finishing it this morning.
These characters are great, I connected with them in so many different ways, although I myself am not Muslim. I think that just goes to show the authors’ talent. It was very great to see more of that Muslim culture, especially around Eid and all the celebrations and traditions that go into it. Religion can be a very divisive topic, but I felt very happy reading about it in this novel. I would definitely read it again and again and recommend it to anyone and everyone, no matter what religion you practice. However, I think if you are Muslim, you will enjoy seeing yourself in this just that much more.
Tiwa was very funny, I adored her. Her with Ladoo was amazing. It’s interesting to see her in the flashbacks vs. present time and it just goes to show how much time can change you and how when certain things happen around you, it shapes you in a huge way.
The way grief was written in this packed a punch. My heart feels so heavy for her whole family. The way she deals with the hostility and racism from others just because she is Black and Muslim made me want to give her a hug so badly. Tiwa deserves the world and I will fight anyone who doesn’t think so. Her and Said? I have words! I HAVE WORDS!!! I loved her sister/friendship bond with Safiyah. They are almost like polar opposites, but they mesh together really well. It was funny to see how Tiwa set herself up to becoming a future lawyer with everything that went down in this (no spoilers!).
The way grief was written in this packed a punch. My heart feels so heavy for her whole family. The way she deals with the hostility and racism from others just because she is Black and Muslim made me want to give her a hug so badly. Tiwa deserves the world and I will fight anyone who doesn’t think so. Her and Said? I have words! I HAVE WORDS!!! I loved her sister/friendship bond with Safiyah. They are almost like polar opposites, but they mesh together really well. It was funny to see how Tiwa set herself up to becoming a future lawyer with everything that went down in this (no spoilers!).
Said was so sassy, I loved him. His sense of humor and goofiness that came out around certain people (wink wink) was just so fun to read about. I liked that he pursued his art passion and we got to read about how he really gets swept up into it and feel the love he has for art. His friendship with Julian was interesting to see, in contrast to his (former) friendship with Tiwa that we see a little bit of in the flashbacks. Julian was a huge goofball, I couldn’t take him serious. (Except for THAT part). But alas, no spoilers! Find out for yourself!
Said and Tiwas friendship was very complicated and delicate, but I liked to see how they navigated it as older teens as opposed to when they were just kids, in a way, when they had a fall out. I’ve always said all great relationships have to start with a friendship and this book holds firmly to that belief. It’s more of a childhood best friends to enemies (ish) to friends to lovers. Maybe just skip some friends parts? It’s very complicated to explain but when y’all read it, y’all will understand. Remember, this is a love story.
DAMN this book has one of my favorite microtropes ever, that’s also very heartbreaking but saying it would essentially spoil one of the main plot lines so I will refrain. But, feel free to ask me after the book comes out or if you have read it, so we can discuss. Hehe.
I love to see all the representation in this!! We have the main characters of course, Tiwa and Said who are both Muslim. Tiwa is Nigerian and Said is Bangladeshi. We have lesbian rep from Saf and Ishra. There’s all kinds of South Asian Rep in general that I think we get from the Muslim community in New Crosshaven in general. It doesn’t go into detail about any particular person in the community but it is mentioned, which I liked! Julian is Puerto Rican which we find out later in the book.
Overall, I think this book is for anyone and everyone. You can find yourself in the pages and quickly block out the world in this immersive writing. I’d recommend it to anyone and everyone. I have to preorder now, even though I have a physical arc, I need more.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child death and Grief
Minor: Fire/Fire injury, Racism, and Cursing
bloodmaarked's review against another edition
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
didn't live up to expectations, and i'm not sure what's going on with faridah's writing these days... massive thanks to Usborne and NetGalley for providing me with an advanced digital copy in exchange for an honest review
✧ full review on my tumblr ✧
✧ full review on my tumblr ✧
Content Warnings
Graphic: Fire/Fire injury
Moderate: Toxic friendship, Animal death, Child death, and Cursing
Minor: Car accident, Grief, and Racism
onthesamepage's review against another edition
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.0
ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Just a heads up that even though both main characters are Muslim, this is not a halal romance.
I really appreciated the ease of the Muslim representation. There are frequent mentions of praying, or asking Allah for help, in that casual way that Muslims perform these regular acts of worship. It was also really easy to read, with POVs from both main characters. Both of them are compelling people to follow, but the romance felt lackluster to me. When we first meet Said and Tiwa, we find out that they used to be friends but aren't anymore, and of course it takes a while before we find out why. It's not that the reason doesn't make sense, it's how it came about that left me scratching my head. This next part is full on spoilers for the eventual reveal of the origin of their conflict: (view spoiler)
There was a moment in this book where I thought I'd be getting some very important commentary on racism within Muslim communities. Tiwa is going door to door to gather signatures for a petition, and came in contact with people she recognized from the Islamic center, but who didn't recognize her. Her being Muslim is called into question, and there's an implication that it's because she's Black. But the book falls short of really digging into this topic, which is a shame in my opinion.
Just a heads up that even though both main characters are Muslim, this is not a halal romance.
I really appreciated the ease of the Muslim representation. There are frequent mentions of praying, or asking Allah for help, in that casual way that Muslims perform these regular acts of worship. It was also really easy to read, with POVs from both main characters. Both of them are compelling people to follow, but the romance felt lackluster to me. When we first meet Said and Tiwa, we find out that they used to be friends but aren't anymore, and of course it takes a while before we find out why. It's not that the reason doesn't make sense, it's how it came about that left me scratching my head. This next part is full on spoilers for the eventual reveal of the origin of their conflict: (view spoiler)
There was a moment in this book where I thought I'd be getting some very important commentary on racism within Muslim communities. Tiwa is going door to door to gather signatures for a petition, and came in contact with people she recognized from the Islamic center, but who didn't recognize her. Her being Muslim is called into question, and there's an implication that it's because she's Black. But the book falls short of really digging into this topic, which is a shame in my opinion.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism
lprongs's review
funny
hopeful
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
Content Warnings
Moderate: Grief
Minor: Car accident, Racism, and Child death
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