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Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender

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bookicornia's review against another edition

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challenging emotional informative inspiring lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0


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alex_johnson_2021's review against another edition

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emotional informative reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

As a character, Felix got on my nerves. He's mad with Declan messing with him and Ezra, but Declan makes good points about him not taking things seriously. He doesn't pay attention in school or takes things seriously, yet he wants to get into Brown, just because his portfolio is good. He constantly criticizes his father, who has probably been the most supportive person in his life, minus Ezra and Leah. He decides to keep talking to Declan, knowing that Ezra and him had a serious relationship and just doesn't give a fuck. He wants people to take what he's going through into consideration, but won't give that same grace to others. The pacing wasn't all the way there because by the time we got to the love triangle, we were 2/3rds done with the book and that felt rushed. The mother who abandons him gets more grace than the father who has been by his side. It just doesn't make sense. The only reason why this book is getting 2.5 stars is because twist of who did the gallery was good, and the parts of him going to the clinic and focusing on himself were the best parts of the book. I don't feel like Ezra or Declan need Felix in their lives and they can do without him, because Felix was so insufferable. I have read other YA books where it makes sense, but this was too much for me personally. 

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oceanebooks's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I don't really know where I should start, so I'll begin with the language.
It's informal, sometimes very informal but at the same time very realistically how people and especially young adults/teenagers speak. I liked that Kacen Kallender were able to capture that so well, even though that meant a lot of "fuck"s and "shit"s. Meanwhile, I wasn't the biggest fan of the narrating style per se, the choice of words just wasn't very poetic but realistic, but this isn't really a critique because we all know I have a bias for poetic language and expression.
Onto the plot: I was surprised how the author was able to cover so many different topics in one book (like yeah, it had 350 pages but still...) and execute them all so well. With Felix, they created a very unique personality, whose thoughts and feelings the reader gets to experience very detailed and non-filtered. The whole thing with the struggle of (gender-)identity was something I personally could really relate to even though I'm not trans. But this kind of questioning yourself and wanting to find out who you are and if you even want to label yourself was beautifully portrayed.
But: Sometimes it was also hard to understand Felix, just because he's so different (from his personality) than I am and therefore acted sometimes like the complete opposite of what I would have done. Kacen Kallender keeps him a very human and realistic character and clearly shows everyone else's flaws, too, so you have to accept their misbehaviour and mistakes in order to love them unconditionally. And again, I loved the realistic aspect of that, especially the conflict between Felix and his father (just because of the portrayal).
I have just one thing to criticise and that is that the ending almost felt too good. Everyone ends up with the person they want to be with, the whole identity struggle is pretty much solved and also the family and school conflicts, too, so yeah - that was the only less realistic aspect maybe. But again this is not entirely negative because of course the book has to bring an end to all these topics when it ends, too.
"Felix ever after" is a book that made me think, that gave me comfort and at the same time discomfort, made me laugh and made me sad - it was a book I sacrificed my sleep for. So yeah, it was pretty good.

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thirdeyeangel23's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective fast-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

A story that truly has my heart. This is the coming of age and self discovery of Felix Love, a young trans boy who is just trying to find his place in the world. A heartbreaking prank leads to a revenge plot that opens up a host of challenging feelings for Felix. This story beautifully chronicles the journey of self worth, love, and understanding one’s identity in a world determined to hold you back. Felix Ever After was a bit of tear jerker and also a story that I’ll always hold close to my heart.

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kerryem's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

This was such a heartwarming story. I picked up this book from a queer library as a way of promoting banned books, and I’m so glad I picked this one. 

But this book was an absolute joy to read. The writing style was simple yet addicting, I found myself saying “just one more chapter” many times. I highly recommend to any queer book lovers of any age but especially to young queer teens of color who are struggling to figure themselves out and where they see themselves in the world. 

Beautiful story and a great book to end pride month with. 

-*small spoilers?*- 

My only reason for not giving it five stars is just because I’m not a personal fan of the ‘catfishing’ trope and just the general YA trend of main characters not being very good friends. It’s not bad at all, as it is the main character’s story and it’s fitting for a young character like Felix to go through this journey to understand who’s important to him. Just my own personal nit-picky opinion with a trend I’ve seen in YA books. Side characters can easily feel like they’ve been written just to further the main characters plot which isn’t necessarily bad, there’s just an extra depth to a story when you can see these side characters and imagine they have their own little life outside the book. But again, not a huge deal, I still completely fell in love with Leah and Ezra.

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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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karla_burbujadeletras's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted reflective fast-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0


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_p0ssum_'s review against another edition

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medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Wow.

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paulineerika's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Wow. This is one of my favorite reads of 2023, possibly one of my favorite reads ever. Within the first few pages, I knew this book had me. It is so amazingly written and you ache right along with Felix as he's going through his journey, trying to figure out not only who he loves, but who he is. Callender conveys the emotions and struggles so beautifully and so authentically. This is a fantastic book and I highly recommend it.

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emotional funny reflective medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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