Reviews tagging 'Grief'

The Reformatory by Tananarive Due

45 reviews

thehmkane's review against another edition

adventurous dark emotional hopeful informative sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

A very good and important book. While I enjoyed Due's prose, I felt like the pacing took much of the urgency out of the story - the climax moves at a good clip, though.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Murder, Confinement, Genocide, Abandonment, Bullying, Torture, Hate crime, Gore, Racism, Animal death, Classism, Death of parent, Blood, Terminal illness, Grief, Police brutality, Child abuse, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Emotional abuse, Child death, Death, Fire/Fire injury, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail

Moderate: Antisemitism, Medical trauma, Sexual assault, Domestic abuse, Trafficking, Medical content, Rape, Sexism, Animal cruelty, Slavery, Violence, Sexual harassment, and Pedophilia

disguisedposer's review against another edition

challenging dark informative mysterious sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

I thought this book was a horror story, and it was, but not because of the ghosts in it. It's a truly horrible story of the treatment of Black boys incarcerated at a reform school in the American south in the 1950s. It is fiction, but sounded all too real. I did a mix of reading and listening. It was beautifully written, and I absolutely adored the narrator of the audiobook even though I usually detest audiobooks. This is one that's going to stick with me for quite some time.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Fire/Fire injury, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Gaslighting, Hate crime, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Murder, Gun violence, Bullying, Child abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Blood, Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Police brutality, Violence, Racial slurs, Racism, and Suicidal thoughts

tomellibee's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Fire/Fire injury, Racism, Violence, Torture, Confinement, Grief, Racial slurs, Animal death, Body horror, Child abuse, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Blood, Forced institutionalization, Genocide, Kidnapping, Murder, Pedophilia, Death, Slavery, Vomit, Gore, Child death, Hate crime, Sexual violence, Physical abuse, Rape, and Sexual content

eclipse799's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative inspiring sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Classism, Pedophilia, Sexual violence, Animal death, Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Forced institutionalization, Gore, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Sexism, Slavery, Terminal illness, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Torture, Toxic friendship, Abortion, Alcohol, Body horror, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Dementia, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Murder, Violence, Animal cruelty, Blood, Cancer, Racial slurs, Xenophobia, Police brutality, Fire/Fire injury, Gun violence, Kidnapping, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racism, War, and Hate crime

ambroserr's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional mysterious sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

I added this to my list because it was on NYT's best books of 2023 list, and started it because I was looking for something a little scarier after finishing The Haunting of Hill House. It didn't take me long to realize exactly what a Jim Crow-era ghost story might entail (big big big trigger warnings for racism, child abuse, etc), but by then I was invested in Gloria and Robert's story, and had to see things through, no matter what hell Due was planning to show me. (As it was based on the true story of the Dozier School for Boys, I felt I also owed it to those whose lives were destroyed in such places.)

The places she takes us are genuinely terrifying. While there is, of course, a "bad guy" that our young protagonists face, the monster underneath everything, curdling the town around them, is a system. And this novel does an amazing job of communicating just how frightening and oppressive the world can become if the weight of that system turns against you.

While the story is fictional, it feels deeply researched and historical, and reminded me a bit of The Handmaid's Tale; an amalgam of real-world cruelties that is all too realistic. There were also shades of To Kill A Mockingbird in the legal details, but that falls away fairly early on, when the courts of Gracetown seem offended that Gloria would dare contest her brother's "light" sentence. Her side of the story, while still tinged with the supernatural, is about her bravery, determination, and resilience as she navigates the dangers of the Jim Crow South while trying to free her brother. There are ghosts and premonitions for her, too, but it quickly becomes clear to her that the mundane failures of bureaucracy and the prejudices she unwittingly stirs are more immediately threatening.

Robbie's side of things is more classically haunted, as he immediately discovers the reformatory to be awash in spirits. The mechanics of the haints as Due describes them are fascinating, and the stories they reveal are terrible. Robbie manages to find some friends early on, and does his best to dodge trouble from ghosts and the living alike, but soon collides with patently unfair systems and is made to bear the consequences. His ability to communicate with spirits becomes a rickety shield against violence, but entangles him with larger forces who have their own ends.

The later chapters of this book featured some of the most tense, thrilling, dread-filled fiction I can remember reading. Unlike most ghost stories, the terror is human, and just behind, enabled and tacitly approved by structures of racial and political power. It's frankly terrifying, and the stakes feel incredibly high due to this real world grounding. Robbie and Gloria go through many harrowing things, and rise to the occasion largely because there is no one there to help, so they must become their own heroes. They rely on each other, and on the spiritual support of those who went before them, and all of it is barely enough to keep going. The overall effect of it is almost tangible, and feels like a vivid and realistic emotional portrayal of the profoundly brave things done by Black Americans to survive and escape racial violence. I won't forget that feeling anytime soon.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Racism, Racial slurs, Murder, Physical abuse, Grief, and Hate crime

Moderate: Injury/Injury detail, Death of parent, Child death, Fire/Fire injury, Gore, and Violence

Minor: Sexual assault and Pedophilia

zyxtasaurus's review against another edition

adventurous dark emotional tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Physical abuse, Death, Torture, Racism, Child death, Fire/Fire injury, Murder, Racial slurs, and Hate crime

Moderate: Rape, Pedophilia, Injury/Injury detail, Gun violence, Confinement, Toxic friendship, Gore, Bullying, Abandonment, Cancer, Slavery, and Cursing

Minor: Gaslighting, Grief, Animal death, Antisemitism, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, and Vomit

melchncookies's review against another edition

adventurous challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring mysterious sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

This book is devastating and hopeful. It’s so well written. The narrator was amazing. 

Yes, this novel explores the horrors of the schools for boys, especially in the Deep South, but it also explores the lengths that Black families had to go to remain intact. While fiction, the author notes that Robbie is based on a relative that died at a boy’s school and other aspects of this book were based on truth. 

I couldn’t put this down. I’ll be thinking about it for years I think. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Torture, Child abuse, Forced institutionalization, Confinement, Kidnapping, Racial slurs, Grief, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Blood, Hate crime, Death, Violence, Murder, Physical abuse, and Child death

Moderate: Cancer, Pedophilia, and Death of parent

Minor: Rape and Animal cruelty

rorikae's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Tananarive Due continues to be one of the best horror writers and that continues in her standout novel, 'The Reformatory.' 
When he kicks the son of a prominent landowner while defending his sister, Robert Stevens Jr. is sentenced to six months at the local reformatory school for boys. When he arrives at the school, he finds it is a place of terror where the head of the school rules over the boys with fear and intimidation. Robbie finds two friends, Redbone and Blue, who help him better understand the school and the truth of his situation. While his sister Gloria tries to get him freed from the school, Robbie searches for a way to escape while dealing with the terrors that haunt the grounds. 
Due does an exceptional job of creating slowly creeping horror that is centered on the characters and their personal situations. She instantly makes you care for Robbie and his family and then puts him in a harrowing situation that slowly ramps up and grows more distressing. Based loosely on a relative who attended a reformatory school, Due mixes the real history of the horrors committed at these institutions with Robbie’s fictionalized story. What results is a deeply moving story that demonstrates the cruelty and racism that permeated these types of institutions. Due also does a great job of only hinting at some of the worst things that happen at the institution while still bringing the hairs up on the back of your neck. A horrifying story with a deeply heartfelt core, please read the Reformatory. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Hate crime, Racism, Torture, Violence, Body horror, Racial slurs, Blood, Child abuse, Gore, Murder, Bullying, Death, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Confinement, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, and Miscarriage

Moderate: Rape and Sexual violence

caseythereader's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Racism, Child death, Racial slurs, Violence, Confinement, Child abuse, Forced institutionalization, Gore, Medical content, Alcohol, Blood, Bullying, Fire/Fire injury, Abandonment, Murder, Death of parent, Grief, Gun violence, and Islamophobia

Moderate: Rape and Slavery

Minor: Antisemitism

caidyn's review against another edition

dark emotional mysterious reflective tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

SUCH a good book. I wasn't sure what to expect and ended up blown away by it. I loved the characters and the story. Not to mention the suggestions about books to read to know the real history.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Police brutality, Child abuse, Child death, Racial slurs, Confinement, Racism, and Grief

Moderate: Fire/Fire injury and Death of parent