emmyjames's review

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4.5

whatsemmyreading's review

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4.0

First half of the book talks a lot about the crime, second half goes into what could’ve led Chris Watts to commit it. I was expecting it to be largely around the crime, and was a bit surprised by the second half, but it was pretty interesting.

danacanterino's review

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4.0

El libro se divide entre los hechos del caso (que tienen mucho detalle) y la parte psicológica que la autora opina como profesional, y también, la opinión de otros expertos que entrevistó con respecto al caso. Tal vez, sabiendo cómo termina la historia, hubiera estado bueno que no fuera tan dividido el libro, sino que más bien, se combinen ambas partes de principio a fin. Esa es mi crítica más grande.
Pero después, me gustó mucho cómo narró los hechos Derhally. En principio, es super detallista con respecto a días, horarios y una recopilación extensa de mensajes y posteos en facebook, que te van armando la historia de Shannon, Bella, Cece y su victimario, Chris.
Otro punto a destacar, y creo que en esta clase de libros es de lo más importante, es la empatía y el respeto con el que Lena escribe sobre el caso, y cómo, al ser un femicidio e infanticidio (más por lo primero), se tiende a culpar a la víctima por ciertas actitudes que tuvo. En el caso de Shannon, era muy dominante, hasta el punto de que su marido la tomaba por mandona. Y que, nosotros como lectores, no sabemos si esto es así o no, pero aunque lo fuera, no es una excusa para asesinarla a ella y a las niñas.
Y eso es algo que la autora marca a cada rato, lo que me gustó de leer, ya que, cuando leo true crimes donde ponen el ojo en las víctimas (y no en victimología, sino en simplemente echarles la culpa de lo que les pasó), tiendo a pasar un muy mal rato.
Es el primer libro de Lena Derhally, por lo que espero que saque otro pronto, porque tiene una manera sencilla de explicar y a la vez muy detallada.

sabrina_lindsay's review against another edition

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4.0

Know going in that this book is told in two distinct segments. The first 60% is about the murders, and if you’re familiar with the story, I don’t think you’ll find much new here. It did organize everything happening into a linear timeline between all the key players, which painted a clear picture, but overall, this part of the book was repetitive and an average read for me. (The book as a whole was repetitive throughout.) The author is a psychotherapist and the final 40% of the books focuses on her thoughts about the crime. For me, this is what set the book apart and I found her professional observations fascinating and ended this book with a different perspective than when I started. 

lillimoore's review

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4.0

There is a special place in hell for people like Chris Watts.

In August 2018, Shanann Watts was raising two daughters, pregnant with a son on the way, and wondering where exactly in the last 5 weeks she had gone wrong in what, up until that point, had seemed like her perfect 6-year marriage to her husband Chris. The normally bright, bubbly, cheerful and outgoing work-from-home mom had been under extreme emotional duress in the months leading up to this point, but she was determined to make it work. She loved her family and the life she had worked hard to build in Colorado with her husband and she knew Chris did too. Or she thought she knew. But so much of what she didn't know ended up killing her and her children.

In the early hours of August 13th, 2018, Chris violently ended the lives of his wife, two daughters, and unborn baby in unspeakable crimes. The case quickly became a national sensation and Americans were collectively outraged that this seemingly normal, easygoing family man could snap and murder his entire family. It would be some time before the truth of the premeditation of these murders came to light along with many other disturbing details, but it took far less time for Chris Watts to become one of the most speculated about and hated men in America.

Lena Derhally unpacks the events leading up to and following these shocking family murders, and goes beyond that to consider the mental state of Chris Watts. Is he a psychopath? A narcissist? What could have happened in his brain to lead to such a devastating outcome?

I appreciate Derhally's handling of such a sensitive topic and murder case. She gives Shanann and her daughters a voice they so deserve and handles their perspectives with great compassion. She analyzes this case from every possible angle, and she does it with compelling storytelling. Living in Colorado and generally in this country I knew about this case and some of the surface level details, but there were so many more sinister text messages, behaviors, and events than I had realized. It was both fascinating and viscerally upsetting to learn about these murders. I don't condone violence, but if the other prisoners incarcerated alongside Chris Watts are interested in beating the life out of him, I would condone that. He is a sick and horrible human being, as evidenced by Derhally's careful analysis of his psychology. This portion of the book dragged on a bit too much for my tastes and was at times slightly too clinical, but I still appreciated the learning experience it provided.

Recommended for fans of true crime, criminal psychology, and those who followed this case closely. Rest in peace to the beautiful Shanann, Bella, Cece, and Nico Watts. Burn in hell to Chris.

missrhinnan's review against another edition

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4.0

beccastaley's review against another edition

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4.0

Definitely an interesting read and take on the Chris Watts case. The last few chapters were textbook heavy and this is coming from a psychology major that finds psychopathy truly interesting to study. It took more effort to read these chapters until she started to incorporate how she applied them to Chris.

Nevertheless, it's a heartbreaking story for those little girls and their momma who was pregnant with their little brother. My heart goes out to their family who will suffer for the rest of their lives with what happened to their daughter/grandchildren.

el_mai's review against another edition

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5.0

bibliotreasures's review

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5.0

"Sometimes the most dangerous people are the ones we least expect."

My Daddy is a Hero tells the devastating story of the murder of Shannan, Bella and Celeste Watts at the hands of the man they should have been able to trust most. It immediately feels victim-centric, opening with Shannan, who was 15 weeks pregnant, arriving home after a work trip to Arizona in the early hours of August 13th, 2018. Within a few short hours she and her daughters were dead, their bodies discarded in one of the oil fields where Chris worked. 

Heartbreaking, moving and enraging, this was not an easy book to read but it was an important one. This shocking crime has haunted me ever since I first heard about it and I’ve read many online articles and watched a number of documentaries about the case in an attempt to fathom how a seemingly perfect husband and father can murder his entire family. In this in-depth exploration of the crime and investigation, Lena Durhally attempts to answer this and many other questions, crafting a wonderfully victim-centric account of this tragedy, skillfully balancing respect for Shannan, Bella, and Celeste with an honest discussion about the crime. Durhally examines the whole Watts family and delves into the psychology of psychopaths, narcissists and family annihilators in a more general way, asking how we can spot the signs and try to prevent these tragedies before they happen. But I think what is so terrifying about this particular case is the lack of red flags beforehand. Chris Watts appeared to be a model father and husband, betraying very few outward signs of his inner rage or sinister plans. It really is the stuff of nightmares and it is part of the reason he remains a danger, despite his current claims of redemption. 

I’d recommend this book to anyone with an interest in true crime or the psychology of psychopaths and narcissists. 

haileymariexo's review

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4.0