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Motherhood

Sheila Heti

3.69 AVERAGE

challenging reflective fast-paced
medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
informative inspiring reflective slow-paced
emotional reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

I found the narrator annoying. The book contains some interesting and insightful reflections, for instance on how having a grandparent who spent time in concentration camps can create a sense of obligation to procreate. Other parts were filled with overblown and self-important philosophical ramblings that I'd rather not have wasted my time on.
emotional reflective slow-paced

In awe of seeing the full spectrum of feeling and nuance and pressure and comparison that is being a woman in your late 30s without a child, being reckoned with, wrangled with in cutting prose. Some parts of this is I did disassociate a little. But for the most I was the opposite, so over associated it hurt. Stealing this for when people ask me the kid question: “I love the people who exist already, and there are so many books to read, and so much silence to inhabit.” Grateful to see ambivalence towards having children not reconciled simply by having children.
reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: N/A
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

I started out loving it and pulling out a lot of quotes but it felt insufferable by the end. Could’ve used 100 fewer pages
challenging emotional hopeful reflective slow-paced
challenging emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional reflective medium-paced