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Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us by Kate Bornstein

akihitoreads2312's review

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adventurous challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted mysterious reflective relaxing sad tense slow-paced

5.0

Aaah so good, definitely a changeling book took me a long time to finish it- but that's because I few so much. It feels like finding a new part of myself. Kate let me know I wasn't alone. What's more important then that? I am thinking about producing Hidden Agender! 

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emath98's review

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.5

jayraams's review

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5.0

Read this book it will make you think and perhaps understand yourself.

pleasant_39's review

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

5.0

jenny_bean_reads's review against another edition

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challenging informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

I learned so much listening to this book. The questions that Kate Bornstein asks about gender, sex, and sexuality are provocative as well as kind. I have never thought of my own bisexuality in this way.

If you are questioning yourself, trying to understand someone you love, or just looking to be a supportive person in general, read this book at least once. I will be reading it again.

mermaxie's review

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funny hopeful informative inspiring fast-paced

4.0

morrisem90's review

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fast-paced

3.5

domestikwoof's review

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3.5

A decent book on gender theory presented in a way that wains to not offend anyone (regardless of how successful it actually is at achieving this goal)

eternallytouchstarved's review

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challenging funny hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted fast-paced

5.0

sidewriter's review

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3.0

I love it when writers mess with form, and Kate Bornstein definitely does that. Gender Outlaw is a rag-tag collage of vignettes, marginalia, poetry, and academic-ish analysis; not so much a narrative thread as a narrative array. She calls it a trans style of writing and most of the time it works well, a clever trick that nudges the mind a little off balance and more open to ideas it may not have encountered before. She doesn’t always anticipate the readers’ counterarguments so her own sometimes fall apart, and the book has a dated feel now (thankfully we’ve made some progress since 1992), but her voice is strong, relatable, funny, and definitely deserving of more attention.