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Graphic: Animal cruelty, Death, Dementia, Grief
Moderate: Child abuse, Sexual content
Minor: Infidelity
Loved
- The cat distribution system and dog witness protection
- Realistic depiction of the challenges that come with a long distance relationship
- Dr Hank and the complete circle of support that came with him
- Pooter
- The staff at the vet clinic
- No sugarcoating the struggles of being a full time caregiver for a family member
Meh
- I wanted more about Xavier’s friends/found family
- I wanted more dog in this book. If dog on cover, I expect full on dog, not just occasional dog
Disliked
- The TikTok/booktok references pulled me out of the book. Like I get that Rhysand is so hot right now, but three references in like twenty pages was excessive. Plus realistically I don’t think they will age well and feel like a grab for gen Z attention
Graphic: Death, Sexual content, Dementia
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Child abuse
Graphic: Chronic illness, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Dementia, Grief, Gaslighting, Abandonment
Moderate: Death, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Excrement
Minor: Animal cruelty
Graphic: Sexual content, Dementia
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Infidelity, Mental illness, Terminal illness, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent
Minor: Alcoholism, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Blood, Excrement, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail
Graphic: Cursing, Dementia, Grief
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Medical content, Gaslighting, Alcohol
I think the book had potential, but the pacing was hard for me. The modern day slang thrown in wasn't my type of humor. But I will say it was an eye opening take on long distance relationships and living with those who have health disorders (like dementia)
Moderate: Sexual content, Dementia
Minor: Animal cruelty, Child abuse, Death
And woof, Abby writes about heartbreak like no one else. Samantha and her family coping with and adjusting to their mom's dementia is incredibly intense and sad, and Abby doesn't shy away from what it would really be like - especially in a country where healthcare and care homes are so prohibitively expensive - to make the difficult choices about how best to support a parent who's struggling in that way. Abby also captures the weirdness of the transition from having a parent-child relationship with your parent to sometimes having a relationship of equals, but with all the same feelings as being your parent's child. Some of my favorite parts of the book were when the family had honest conversations about how they were coping - or not coping. I also really appreciated the way Xavier worked through the aftereffects of his abusive childhood, and there are scenes with him towards the end of the book that made me cry.
This has a bit less spice than some of Abby's other books, but I didn't mind because I feel like the romance dial was turned up to 100 (in a good way). The yearning! The longing! I loved this one so, so much.
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Death, Medical content, Dementia, Grief, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Child abuse, Sexual content, Violence
Minor: Alcoholism
1) I'll concede that the ACOTAR references are a bit cringe. But as shorthand for "the hottest, broody man you've ever met" and only appearing a handful of times in the opening 10%, not a big enough deal for me to complain about it.
2) People being put off by the FMC's internet lingo. She's a social media marketer. It suits her character.
Now, onto what I really want to say...
I loved this. Abby Jimenez writes romance that's bigger than the two main characters. Not only is this a beautiful love story about Xavier and Samantha, but it's also about the people they love and the nature of memories and being a witness to the lives of those around you. As always, her green flag MMCs will get me every time and I found Samantha and her struggles so relatable. I thought the way in which caring for a person with Dementia was written was done so well.
I listened to the audiobook and the casting was perfect.
Graphic: Dementia
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Child abuse
Minor: Animal death, Sexual content
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Child abuse, Sexual content, Dementia
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Child abuse, Death, Medical content, Dementia, Grief
Moderate: Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Physical abuse, Sexual content