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amyreadsstuff's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Misogyny
Minor: Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Infertility, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, Blood, Grief, Death of parent, Murder, and Pregnancy
magicalsocks's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
“Love should require both partners to be their very best at all times. Unconditional love is an undisciplined love, and as we all have seen, undisciplined love is disastrous.”
“You two are the most fucked-up people I have ever met, and I specialize in fucked-up people.”
my god these white people are fucking craaaaaaaaaaaaazy.
devoured this completely within the span of four-ish hours and even with my advance knowledge of all the major plot point and spoilers it fully completely absolutely lived up to and surpassed the hype. 1 star taken off because
that said, maybe the first book i’ve read where i can so viscerally hate these characters for their ego and self-righteousness and inner monologue and simultaneously see some of my own flaws reflected within them so clearly. but maybe that’s just because i’m a virgo.
gillian flynn is a GENIUS.
Moderate: Body shaming, Cancer, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Dementia, Death of parent, Murder, and Pregnancy
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, and Incest
hyejoosupremacist's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Death of parent, and Murder
Minor: Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Sexual violence
sfjf96's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Murder
Moderate: Infidelity, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
kadtide's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Gillian Flynn is a brilliant author and this book is incredibly well-crafted. I think I need to sit with it for a little while before I can fully find the words to describe it: haunting, terrifying, beautiful.
Here are the thoughts I have collected thus far:
The first part of the book, we follow Nick through his gradual discovered of What Happened to Amy, and we follow Amy through the years of their relationship leading up to this point, as told via a diary. Both of them are unreliable narrators. Nick's perspective is full of lies of omission, which he outright admits to, so we know he's hiding things from us. And yet, in spite of that, his fear and confusion surrounding Amy's disappearance does not feel like a lie- if it is, it's too well-crafted. The signs pointing to him are too obvious for him to be that clever of a killer. And even without the knowledge that Amy faked her death, Diary Amy still feels off somehow. Her descriptions of Nick don't quite match up with the Nick we see, and Nick's descriptions of her don't match up with how she presents herself. It's hard to know who to trust- which one of them is telling the truth?
This is brilliant, because of how directly it plays into the underlying narrative of public opinion.
In the second part, we meet the real Amy and she's nothing like I expected- cold, calculating, and cruel. She has a vision of what her life should be, what she believes she deserves, and she will destroy anything that gets in her way. We meet the real Amy at the same moment that Nick discovers he's being framed- which is incredibly clever. The book repeats over and over that in this kind of story everyone wants to blame the husband- and we the reader are encouraged during the first part to agree! Even if it doesn't quite seem like he did it, he does seem like an asshole, the way Diary Amy portrays him, and enough of those flaws are present in his POV that you don't really like him that much. But ultimately he isn't the villain of the story, he's the victim.
During part 2, we get to see just how far Amy went to frame him. Her confession to the readers parallels his search for answers, so when he makes seemingly outlandish claims of her framing him, we know he's right. Dramatic irony at it's finest. This is where it gets tense: we watch as Nick falls further and further, unable to pull himself out of the hole Amy's dug for him. And we watch Amy watch him, following her deepest thoughts as she considers changing her plan. The buildup is excruciating, but by the end of part 2 a hopeful ending is in sight- we know Nick planned to lure Amy back to exonerate himself, and it looks like it's working. We also know by now just how terrifyingly evil Amy is, and it's finally starting to seem like she might not get away with it.
And then part 3 happens. This is the shortest part, but in many ways the cruelest. Just when we the readers are led to believe there is hope, that Amy's plot will be publicized and Nick will be saved, it is twisted on us in the worst way. Amy is too clever for that. Amy will never be caught. The rules of the game have changed, but only because Amy wanted them to. She changed her mind- Nick shouldn't be convicted and killed, he should be free to live as her husband and one true love, now that he knows she can destroy him.
And the worst part is? Everyone believes her. This is ultimately what makes the narrative so torturously clever: in part 1 we don't really like Nick; in part 2 we learn that Amy is the true villain and we start rooting for him instead; and in part 3 we watch as everyone in the world (who doesn't see what we see, what Nick sees) takes Amy's side.
The book tricks you into siding with Amy at the start, just like she tricked Nick (and Hilary, and Tommy, and Desi). But just like she turned on each of them once they weren't what she wanted or got too close, once we see Amy's true face the book turns on us as well.
Amy wins.
Graphic: Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, and Murder
Moderate: Body shaming, Confinement, and Fatphobia
Minor: Bullying, Cancer, Miscarriage, Vomit, Dementia, and Death of parent
This book is very dark. Gaslighting, abuse, violence (physical, emotional, AND sexual) are major parts of the narrative. It does not have a happy ending:lameyloser's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Cancer, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Infidelity, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Stalking, Death of parent, and Murder
Moderate: Rape
Minor: Suicide and Vomit
roseamillerg's review against another edition
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Confinement, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, and Kidnapping
Moderate: Miscarriage, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Vomit
sofiaxaguilar's review
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Moderate: Confinement, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Kidnapping, Grief, and Medical trauma
annabel_lee's review
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Toxic relationship
Moderate: Body horror, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, and Kidnapping
daralexandria's review against another edition
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Kidnapping
Moderate: Miscarriage, Misogyny, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, and Murder