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Moderate: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, Alcohol
Minor: Vomit
Moderate: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Medical content
Minor: Cursing, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Death of parent, Pregnancy
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Classism
It might be a silly thing to like, but I found it refreshing that, in the beginning, Stassi has a “friends with benefits” relationship that is actually well communicated, satisfying to both parties,
I also liked that Stassi is in therapy, that it is portrayed in a realistic way, and that she references what she learned there and how it helped her several times, including by communicating her needs and worries openly with Nate, without the book acting like it solved all of her problems forever.
As for the more romance-typical things, I am an absolute sucker for the found family trope, so the way
I like that the book is generally sex-positive, with open discussions of consent and protection, neither of the main characters freaking out about the other person’s previous sexual experiences, and both of them recognising both their own and the other’s sexual attraction relatively early on. I don’t think there’s too much sex in this book, or that sex is the only thing that connects the characters, as some reviewers seem to think, but it’s definitely something readers should be aware of going in because it won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
I will say though, Icebreaker made me realise that praise kinks* and possessive language like
Speaking of possessiveness, I was honestly not always a huge fan of Nate. He doesn’t outright cross lines as some truly problematic romance protagonists do, but I didn’t like that, even before he realises Stassi likes him, he already likes the challenge of pursuing her when she avoids him. (And even if he was sure that she found him physically attractive, doesn’t mean she wants to be chased.) Of course, this later becomes a deliberate dynamic between them that she enjoys and encourages, so it’s hard to argue why it didn’t sit right with me, but I feel like the author is blurring the lines between mutual kink and potentially uncomfortable behaviour here.
Given the importance the author clearly places on therapy, I wish Nate had also considered giving it a try at some point, be it to talk about his dad, or to work on his possessiveness and control issues. There are several instances, up to the very end, where Stassi calls out his behaviour towards her as disrespectful, but she seems to forgive him many things because she knows he hasn’t been in therapy for years as she has, so he doesn’t always have the tools to express his feelings the way she does. That doesn't mean that he can’t learn that though! It doesn’t help that the plot usually proves him right.
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual assault
Minor: Terminal illness, Vomit, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Injury/Injury detail
While I am a fan of Nate, my affinity for Anastasia waned in the last 10-ish chapters. I hated her behavior and the superiority complex because she’d been to therapy so clearly she knew what she was doing. That felt gross. Especially considering the way Nate was written in those same chapters for no reason other than “plot”.
Still an enjoyable read if you don’t think about any of it too hard.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship
Moderate: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Alcohol
Minor: Panic attacks/disorders, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Vomit, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship
Moderate: Bullying, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, Alcohol
Minor: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Sexual assault, Violence, Pregnancy
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Sexual content
Moderate: Eating disorder
Minor: Pregnancy
Graphic: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse
Moderate: Pregnancy
Minor: Abandonment
Moderate: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse