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A Tale for the Time Being by Ruth Ozeki

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jameslyons's review against another edition

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adventurous funny mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0


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rachaele's review against another edition

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emotional informative reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated

3.75

This book weaves magical realism, quantum mechanics, Buddhist teachings, and Japanese culture to tell a story of a young Japanese girl grapple with suicidal thoughts. I can see why this book can be profound, but I think I took too long to read it for it to truly impact me.

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mateoj's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes

4.75

I'm gnashing my teeth bouncing off the walls hollering screeching et cetera. 
I hesitate to compare this to Murakami because I don't want to fall into the "Japanese authors is the same" trap, but fuck it. A Tale for the Time Being is what I wanted and did not get from Murakami: strange, metaphysical, and surreal without sacrificing coherency and humanity. All too often fiction like this forgeos the beating heart of the story in favor of being as mindfucky as possible, and one of my favorite things about A Tale for the Time Being is how it refuses to let go of the human feelings and needs at its core. The meta-narrative is extremely well done, and manages to make as much sense as it possibly can, without losing any of its surreality or weirdness. What a masterpiece. 

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zw_books's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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eleven_hummingbird's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful mysterious reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

 A story of crossing the boundaries of time to connect past with present, and encouraging the reader to reformulate their conceptions of the future and possibility. 

The novel is split between two perspectives. Roughly half the narrative follows Ruth (author's stand-in?) and her husband in a rural, westcoast village, reading the washed-up diary of Nao, a Tokyo teenager. Although seemingly distant in both space and time, the stories of these two women progressively entangle about each other.
I found Ruth's narrative less interesting as it largely consists of her reflecting on Nao's diary with her husband. Unfortunately, Ruth is a bit slow witted and misses obvious points, while her husband is often reduced to mansplaining. 
In contrast, Nao's narrative is dark and gritty, but also full of humor. From depression, suicide, bullying, loneliness, and sexual violence, Nao's diary entries recount her daily struggles, alongside her attempts to find peace and happiness despite her crummy life. 
The stories of these two characters gradually converge until a sudden, down-the-rabbit-hole spiral that thrusts them together. The magical realism is alluded to throughout the novel prior, but this moment felt rather sudden, even jarring.
 
A slow-burn, and well worth the read. 

That said, I listened to the audiobook, read by the author. Hearing an author read their work can really help it to shine, and Ozeki's reading is delightful. Apparently, the printed text has illustrations and footnotes that cannot translate to audio format, so I may revisit this book later.

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amelianotthepilot's review against another edition

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mysterious sad slow-paced
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

strange surrealist story about a woman in Canada reading a Japanese girl’s diary she found washed up on the beach 

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deannamullican's review against another edition

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dark sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

0.25

Throughout the whole book all kinds of abuse was described, sometimes in great detail. It was horrifying and way too much for me. It ranged from suicidal thoughts, to bullying in school, to 9/11 and the 2011 tsunami. 

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m4rtt4's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring mysterious reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

Not quite what I expected, yet somehow the book was deeper than I could ever imagine on every aspect. Magical realism has always been my favourite genre, and although I think the story didn't need it nor was its outcome my utmost favourite, one just can't say no to some good magical realism. Ozeki's way of writing was both confusing and mesmerizing, and as Naoko's story intertwined with the fictional Ruth and Oliver's, it only confused me more (in a good way) when I stumbled upon Ruth Ozeki's Wikipedia page and realised the fictional island with its inhabitants may not have been so fictional after all. Time is a human-made concept and messes up with several realities, of which we are only able to experience one at a time, and not even that properly enough. Nao, are you still there, ~now~, in the fleeting moment we like to call our present? The present is a present, and old Jiko may have made me a bit more grateful for it as well.

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chalkletters's review against another edition

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challenging dark mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

2.5

A Tale for the Time Being was a birthday or Christmas present many years, and at least one address, ago. It was chosen for me, not something I picked up myself, and so I had no expectations. The blurb gave very little away, but the book was shortlisted for the Man Book Prize, and I always try to read the books people give me (…eventually).

When I actually started reading, A Tale for the Time Being didn’t captivate me immediately. Nao’s schoolgirl philosophical ramblings weren’t particularly charming and it was hard to get a grip on where the story was going. It wasn’t until Ruth decided to try reading Nao’s diary ‘in real time’ (one of Nao’s entries for each of Ruth’s days) that I started to get interested, though the plot was still murky. 

The structure, going back and forth between Nao’s story and Ruth researching Nao’s story, worked surprisingly well, and I liked the conceit of Ruth’s footnotes explaining Nao’s specifically Japanese references. I did find the Appendices a bit troublesome, because I think I missed the instruction to go read some of them, but they also weren’t that engaging to read, even though the information was relevant. 

Like The Gallows Pole, A Tale for the Time Being ended up being much darker than I anticipated, though I found Ruth Ozeki’s descriptions more visceral and thus more disturbing. It wasn’t an easy read, and the uncertain line between reality and fiction added its own sense of confusion, which made the magical elements less delightful than they might have been. 

This is the second book I’ve reviewed to heavily feature meditation techniques; the sections of A Tale for the Time Being that Nao spent in her grandmother’s temple were what I most enjoyed reading. (And I did appreciate that Ruth also tried sitting zazen but kept falling asleep.) 

A Tale for the Time Being
was an interesting book, and I think I’ll keep hold of it for at least a little while, but I don’t know if it’s a book I’d want to return to often.

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franklola's review against another edition

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dark reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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