This is a very helpful book when dealing with relationships. It provides great descriptions on the various forms of abuse you can encounter and warning signs you should watch out for.
Unlike other books it is not so much about dealing with abuse when you are already there: it's about prevention, and in that way it is very useful (in an entertaining kind of way). I think everyone, men or woman, should read it, because it makes conscious what we often try to forget.
I would like to clarify that no one should abuse another person, but sadly it is an everyday occurrence and a very real danger when dating, so you should be prepared to recognize the signs and draw the line before it's too late; or being prepared to help and support your friends and family. So go ahead, take a look around. You have nothing to lose and a hell of a lot to gain.