Reviews tagging 'Suicide'

Wave by Sonali Deraniyagala

3 reviews

melodyseestrees's review

dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced

4.0

It is difficult to rate such a personal book. Any criticism one could hope to give could very easily be likened to a personal attack by way of tone policing. Readers who already struggle with nonfiction and who do not hold a similar vein of personal loss will likely have trouble sympathizing with the author on the deeply personal tragedy. There are multiple moments where the author takes the reader back in time with memories of their lost family and many are well done. Some distracted from what the author was going through in that present moment- which is likely realistic as the memories were written about as the author distracting herself from her loss.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Grief, Blood, and Car accident

Moderate: Child death, Suicidal thoughts, Death, Alcohol, Self harm, Death of parent, Suicide, and Alcoholism

Minor: Stalking and Fatphobia

There is a moment where the author is very fat phobic towards a child survivor, it is understandable that a lot was happening and the author was truthfully reporting her thoughts and feelings but it was not nice to read.

You only survived because you are fat. That's why you didn't die. You stayed alive in that water because you are so fucking fat.

foxgallagher's review

dark emotional sad slow-paced

2.0

I enjoyed the first part of the book, but expected the wallowing to ease up some as we continued. It didn't, and I had to make myself finish it. I'm not sure what I expected, but it wasn't that. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Grief, Death, and Death of parent

Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt

onegirlandtheworld's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional inspiring reflective sad slow-paced

5.0

This book will stay with me for a long time. It was not what I expected but it was a great read. The fractured writing style really captured the fracture and fragility of Deraniyagala's experience and coming to terms with her losses and new life. You really feel like you've been on the journey with her. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Grief, and Death

Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt