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The Opposite of Butterfly Hunting: The Tragedy and The Glory of Growing Up by Evanna Lynch
9 reviews
holliejoy's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Eating disorder
Moderate: Medical trauma, Body horror, Suicidal thoughts, Body shaming, Bullying, Medical content, Chronic illness, Fatphobia, Forced institutionalization, Abandonment, Mental illness, and Self harm
alexiasophii's review against another edition
4.75
"And I decide, now, in this moment, that I want it; I want this body. I want to inhabit her, enjoy her, care for her, and defend her in this world. And I no longer want to be yet another voice telling her she’s disgusting or embarrassing or inadequate or too much. I want to be one of those arresting voices of love and compassion, to offer her a space where she can go to restore, to feel safe, to grow."
WOW.
This book is profound, gut-wrenching, and transformative. Evanna's warning at the beginning of the book is true, the book focused about 80 or 90% of it on the eating disorder aspects. It is very graphic what Evanna went through. A good part of the book, and that I enjoyed, is that Evanna does not mention weights or calories or any of those things. As she says, eating disorders feed on the "achievements" and on measuring against other people. Learning how much other people weigh, especially at the lowest point of their battle, is not empathic, it is competitive. And it is not helpful to anyone. I particularly enjoyed how Evanna explains her journey and shows that healing is not linear, but a series of battles and fights, up and downs, wins and losses.
This book is definitely not good for people who struggle with eating disorders, especially anorexia or bulimia. Be careful of Evanna's first Author's Note, she is being very sincere and direct in her warnings.
Overall, I loved this book. I truly did. And I think it sparked something transformative in me and I will come back to it several times in the future.
Graphic: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Vomit, Mental illness, Forced institutionalization, Bullying, and Eating disorder
Moderate: Gaslighting, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, and Panic attacks/disorders
puckeverlasting's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders, Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Suicidal thoughts, Fatphobia, Forced institutionalization, Dysphoria, Mental illness, Medical trauma, and Self harm
Minor: Adult/minor relationship
Heed the warnings at the beginning of the book if any of the topics will be triggering, nothing is shied away fromajnagle's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Bullying, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Chronic illness, Medical content, Medical trauma, Body horror, and Forced institutionalization
bookswithlauren's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders, Vomit, Addiction, Eating disorder, Grief, Medical content, Body horror, Fatphobia, Adult/minor relationship, Blood, Body shaming, Mental illness, Bullying, Chronic illness, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, and Medical trauma
azebrareads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Self harm, Fatphobia, Addiction, Confinement, Drug use, Gaslighting, Mental illness, Bullying, Drug abuse, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Forced institutionalization, Injury/Injury detail, Body shaming, Chronic illness, Grief, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Medical trauma, and Toxic friendship
maggiemaryamos's review against another edition
3.25
Graphic: Addiction, Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Mental illness, Rape, Self harm, and Suicidal thoughts
theespressoedition's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Self harm, Body shaming, Rape, Forced institutionalization, and Eating disorder
Moderate: Bullying, Vomit, Suicidal thoughts, Mental illness, and Cursing
saraohneb's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Forced institutionalization, and Mental illness
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Body shaming, Bullying, and Self harm