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3.88 AVERAGE
3.88 AVERAGE
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overall this was an okay read. i don't rate memoirs since these are personal stories to the author. there were definitely some parts i related to which i enjoyed, and i liked the list of references that the author provided at the end. i do feel like this book is a little all over the place in regards to the different essays. i wish they flowed more together/were more coherent. i do appreciate the authors warnings at the beginning of chapters that contained sensitive material. check the TWs for this one.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Biphobia, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Sexual content
Moderate: Racism
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Really enjoyed this essay collection. Interesting exploration of sexuality and gender
funny
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Thinking since we’re both bi, I thought me and Jen had something in common and I would be part of the target audience for this book. Unfortunately I was very wrong. :(
I, a 22-year-old Gen Z, who’s been out for almost 10 years at this point, who’s recently come out as aromantic and who might actually be ace and not bi at all (but who the fuck knows), am apparently not one for half-baked Millenial memoirs.
Say something nice: I really enjoyed section three, especially the part about platonic love!!
Bring your critique: I could barely get through section two and the constant referencing of your typical American „leftie“ self-loathing about being white and cis. (That or the abundance of dated pop culture references)
Finish with a compliment: I gotta give Jen that this was very sincere and honest and vulnerable. I don’t know if I’d shared so much of my inner life tbh and I think it’s kinda cool they did.
If you’re an early thirties millenial who identifies as straight or, like Jen came out late in life, I think you would sincerely enjoy this. It wasn’t for me and that’s probably okay. :)
I, a 22-year-old Gen Z, who’s been out for almost 10 years at this point, who’s recently come out as aromantic and who might actually be ace and not bi at all (but who the fuck knows), am apparently not one for half-baked Millenial memoirs.
Say something nice: I really enjoyed section three, especially the part about platonic love!!
Bring your critique: I could barely get through section two and the constant referencing of your typical American „leftie“ self-loathing about being white and cis. (That or the abundance of dated pop culture references)
Finish with a compliment: I gotta give Jen that this was very sincere and honest and vulnerable. I don’t know if I’d shared so much of my inner life tbh and I think it’s kinda cool they did.
If you’re an early thirties millenial who identifies as straight or, like Jen came out late in life, I think you would sincerely enjoy this. It wasn’t for me and that’s probably okay. :)
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As a bisexual and someone always looking for books with bi-rep or about bisexuality, I am glad I came across this book. I tried reading it as an audiobook at first but then switch over to paperback and boy am I glad I did!! The writing styles vary in some chapters with email correspondence, poetry, text messages and play script. I related to many of the struggles Winston describes and feel seen and heard to see it printed out on paper, knowing I am not alone in my struggle.
I found it witty, funny and a unique essay memoir that explores sexuality, gender, labels, relationships and identity. It is more than just "what is bisexuality" and Winston's sex life and history. She dives into her experimentation with her sexuality and becoming more comfortable in the queer community.
I found it witty, funny and a unique essay memoir that explores sexuality, gender, labels, relationships and identity. It is more than just "what is bisexuality" and Winston's sex life and history. She dives into her experimentation with her sexuality and becoming more comfortable in the queer community.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Biphobia, Cursing, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, Sexual assault, Alcohol
Minor: Ableism, Fatphobia, Sexual content, Gaslighting
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Incredibly witty, vulnerable, self-aware. I can relate to so much of the author’s experience in understanding their own gender and sexuality. Highly recommend!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Biphobia, Sexual content
Moderate: Transphobia
