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lizziaha's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Grief and Racism
Moderate: Addiction, Classism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Dementia, Death, and Death of parent
Minor: Fatphobia
heartofhorrors's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Moderate: Alcohol, Bullying, Car accident, Suicidal thoughts, Dementia, Mental illness, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Grief, Drug abuse, Racism, Addiction, and Death
m_liz's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.25
Graphic: Grief and Racism
Moderate: Dementia
spaghettireads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Death of parent, Racism, Pregnancy, Infidelity, Death, Grief, Mental illness, and Dementia
Moderate: Suicide, Suicidal thoughts, and Car accident
Minor: Infertility
amandadelbrocco's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Racism, Xenophobia, and Grief
Moderate: Addiction
ashenlar's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Moderate: Dementia, Addiction, Mental illness, Racism, Grief, Racial slurs, Drug abuse, Alcoholism, Death, and Drug use
alexisgarcia's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.0
Graphic: Addiction, Car accident, Chronic illness, Grief, Toxic friendship, Alcohol, Child death, Classism, Cursing, Mental illness, Racism, Terminal illness, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Sexism, and Suicidal thoughts
nordicat's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Grief and Death
Moderate: Dementia, Racism, and Racial slurs
okiecozyreader's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
4.5
Like the title implies, this book is about a lonely, old man named Hubert Bird, an immigrant from Jamaica to London. I didn’t realize that in the 1950s, the British government encouraged West Indian people to move there because of a labor shortage. But, at the same time, people didn’t welcome them into their communities.
Such is the case with Hubert, who after he arrives is treated unfairly at his job and meeting someone is difficult until he meets Joyce. We get to know Hubert from being this young man until older age, with alternating chapters in the current Now of his life. We know his wife is not there, and his daughter Rose calls every week to check on him. For the last five years, he hasn’t kept up with any friends, but he has a journal with made up activities he does with friends, so she doesn’t think he is alone. When she tells him she is coming to visit in a few months, he considers what it would be like to have friends again and if he could make himself available in those ways again, especially after a friendly neighbor with a young daughter move in next door and need a friend.
I loved this book until the very end. I stayed up until 12:30 last night reading and couldn’t put it down until I was finished. I just felt like the last chapters rushed the ending and there were a couple parts I wondered more about . But it is such a lovely story of friendship and loneliness.
This one reminded me of: The Brilliant Life of Eudora Honeysett, Iona Iverson’s Rules for Commuting and Meredith, Alone.
“And in that moment, as he attempted to stem his tears, Hubert realized something he hadn’t quite understood before now: he was lonely, really lonely, and most likely had been for a very long time.” P84
“After all, it was always easier to meet new people if there were two of you. It gave you confidence and made you feel at ease. Look, it said to the world, I already have one friend so I can’t be all that bad.” P51
“I know sometimes the world’s a horrible place, but not always. Sometimes it’s a lovely place where nice things happen for no reason and I’d much rather… live in that world than the other one.” P54
P98 making new friends “become more Ashleigh.”
“Rose watched the dilemma play out across her father’s features. The desire to protect her from the truth matched with the relief of no longer having to hide it.” P243
“And that’s the funny thing about life. Extraordinary things can happen to ordinary people like you and me, but only if we open ourselves up enough to let them be.” P359
“…one of the central questions of the book is, do you resign yourself to the fact that one day your life might be empty or try to fill it up with new friends and “family?” Q&A with author
“I wanted to examine a character’s story from beginning to end as a way of thinking about how people become lonely.”
Understanding history to write a modern day novel
Recommends watching BBC documentary Windrush
Graphic: Death, Addiction, Grief, Racism, and Hate crime
Moderate: Pregnancy
withlivjones's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
What I got: an absolutely gutpunchingly sad (but still heartwarming) book that deals with themes of grief, life as an immigrant in the 20th century and today, racism, isolation, and both blood and found family.
The diverse range of colourful characters clearly demonstrates the book’s message that anyone of any age, race, or background can experience loneliness, and all it takes is a little effort to discover that we aren’t so different from each other after all. Although the “present day” in this book is set in 2018, this message is particularly poignant after the pandemic, which left so many people literally isolated from a community. Hubert is an extremely likeable protagonist, and his journey throughout the book, both in the present day and in the flashbacks to his younger years, is told in a genuine and heartfelt way that makes the reader sympathise with him even though he has his flaws. I’d be interested in what people who live or have lived in Bromley might say about the setting, and whether it is as much of a love letter to the area (both the good and bad parts of it) as it appears to be to someone who has only ever been there once.
I felt that the pacing of the second half of the book could have been drawn out more as so many major events happen in such a short space of time that it is quite overwhelming. The speed at which the campaign grows, in particular, could have definitely been slower for it to have been more realistic. The twist fully came out of left field for me, and I’m still slightly conflicted as to whether or not I liked it, but I think it would have been great to have had a little more space to process it before moving on.
Overall, this was not the book I was expecting but I am nonetheless very glad I read it.
Graphic: Grief and Racism
Moderate: Car accident, Death, Mental illness, Xenophobia, Addiction, Dementia, and Racial slurs
Minor: Suicide, Infidelity, and Vomit