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Graphic: Grief
Moderate: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Violence, Medical content, Car accident, Death of parent
Minor: Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Alcohol
Moderate: Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Alcohol
Graphic: Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Death of parent
Moderate: Drug abuse, Death of parent
Graphic: Death, Drug abuse, Grief, Death of parent
Moderate: Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Toxic friendship, Alcohol
Graphic: Drug abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Alcohol
“The event is over, the event has been overcome, and yet the loss is only beginning.”
Intermezzo is the first Sally Rooney book that I have ever read, so I came in with slightly elevated expectations based on the high acclaim achieved in her earlier works.
Rooney’s attention to detail when drawing the reader into the emotions of the protagonists is so interesting to experience. In reading each point of view, my emotions, beliefs and thoughts became seemlessly enmeshed with those of the characters. The Koubek brothers (Peter and Ivan) have gone through the event of losing their father, but that is not where the story ends. Such as in life, the living must go on and in that continuance, come to terms with this grief.
The Koubek grief and shame and anger and depression so easily paralleled my own experiences and that speaks to how well Rooney is able to tap into the human condition. Though none of these feelings or circumstances are unique, she is able to crack them open and allow us all to take a deeper look. To see the other side, realise just as you are done to you equally do unto others, and sit with that as you decide what type of person your actions make you (and them).
For all the complexity and beauty and depth of Rooney’s insight on the relationship between the brothers, as well as their relationships in their separate lives, I found the ending rather rushed. I loved the ending, but while the rest of the book felt like a cinematic experience, the ending felt like a rapid attempt to tie everything up in a near bow.
Graphic: Chronic illness, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, Death of parent
Moderate: Drug abuse
Minor: Cancer, Sexism
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Drug abuse, Drug use, Suicidal thoughts
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Rooney’s descriptions of locations, people, animals, feelings- unmatched. Her style of writing is frustrating (lack of quotation marks, half-formed sentence to symbolize stream of consciousness monologuing of the characters) but also so perfect for the characters she creates. For you to become a tenant in each of their brains, for the fact that life is happening to them so quickly that they cannot even finish a fully formed thought, the sentence just needs to be thought in whatever way it comes out so we can get to the next one, it’s incredible. Impressive honestly. It heightened the urgency and the confusion of their realities. I said this in one of my journal entries early on but I have never read a book where every character thought so much about everything and had such obvious anxiety and again, it was infuriating, but it was also so real!! Because yes that is my brain!!!
Peter, however, pissed me the fuck OFF a lot of the time. He just seemed such a mess that it was hard to feel sympathetic towards him. And maybe I’m not remembering well but I don’t really feel I saw a lot of moments where Peter was taking care of their father. Looking out for Ivan, yes, but I missed understanding more about their relationship.
AND THEN THE END WHERE SYLVIA IS LIKE “we could just have an arrangement, the three of us.” NO HE DOESN’T DESERVE YOU! I understand, the poor guy has been through a lot and by the actual end of the book I was able to negotiate my feelings with it a little bit but I just didn’t think it was fair, to anyone honestly. They both need to move on, and Naomi deserves to be loved by one person and to feel safe enough to love back. I just didn’t feel that was a satisfying end for my poor girl Sylvia. She deserved better.
This was my first Sally Rooney novel and I was entrenched into the world of this book from start to finish. Because of the disjointed sentences and the lack of punctuation, it takes a bit longer to get through than a usual book this length, but it’s still an exquisite read. It has inspired me to maybe take on reading Normal People next…. Oh god help me
Graphic: Drug abuse, Physical abuse, Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Cancer, Death, Death of parent
Minor: Car accident, Pandemic/Epidemic