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Intermezzo by Sally Rooney

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Trots att det ofta var mörkt, ville jag hänga länge i Ivans och Peters Dublin. Tur då att boken är lång och låter oss göra det! Jag uppskattar karaktärernas komplexitet och att alla tydligt har bra och dåliga sidor. Margarets perspektiv var behövligt, om inte annat för att hon är en kvinna och inte är lika självcentrerad.  

Jag vet inte helt vad jag tycker om stream of consciousness-stilen; ibland var jag lite förvirrad över om det jag läste var en del av en dialog eller monolog, men det gjorde också de vardagliga händelserna och tankarna mer relaterbara. 

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Sally Rooney’s writing style choices feel more extreme and unconventional here. I almost put it back on the library shelf after the first chapter. I would have really missed out. It is a wonderful novel about characters navigating grief (mainly, the death of a parent; but also, the loss the life they almost had; and the loss of a marriage) while struggling between their desires and what society deems appropriate.  Each POV felt very distinct to me, and contributed largely to understanding Peter, Ivan and Margaret. 

The stream of consciousness writing is unleashed compared to her other work that I’ve read (Normal People). Combining a rationing of paragraph breaks with her consistent boycott on quotation marks, the narrating voice is a distinct experience. There are many sections that are a first hand account of a character experiencing a memory. The details all blurred together but the feelings, especially uncomfortable ones, coming through in sharp pangs. Absolutely anxiety inducing at times, particularly when following Peter in third-person POV. 

Let's talk about the characters. Peter. I hate him and also find him the most relatable. I wanted to scream into the void reading about him continuously walk down self-destructive paths. Two eyes wide open, but blinded by grief. Grief exacerbated by anxiety, self-loathing, depression. Completely hypocritical in the judgements he makes of others, but slightly redeemed by judging and hating himself the most. It was always Peter that had me putting down the book to go touch some grass.

Ivan. Intensely awkward but also hyper-aware of social norms as though he has studied them as a non-participant. Ivan is not the only character steadfastly aware of social norms, but does seem the character least concerned with them. Peter, on the other hand, ties himself up in knots according to what is socially accepted. I only recall four scenes where Peter and Ivan directly interact, yet the characters are so intertwined. 

Then the women characters. Naomi, Sylvia, Margaret. We only ever see the POV of one, Margaret, but they are all beautifully fleshed out. There are beautiful snapshots of all of them, in different ways, reckoning with how to survive, and attempt to thrive, within patriarchal conditioning, despite being  people who lead very dissimilar lives. 

This is in the running for my favorite read this year. Rooney did not give me the character events, ending, or number of paragraph breaks that I wanted. If she had, I probably wouldn't have liked it as much.

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I wish I could read this for the first time again and again!!!! 

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

What a crushing way to explain that relationships of any kind are not in fact always easy.

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Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
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I loved previous books of Sally Rooney but this one was a flop. Somehow in this narrative I couldn’t get to know the characters, and the only thing I can say, they are all very messed up, most of them are bad people with terrible communication skills. The book hyperbolizes the public perception of a relationship with a large age gap but somehow living in a three person relationship or dating an adult photos model/illegal substances dealer is completely normal. 

It was very weird and unpleasant to read about all the people hating each other, somehow loving but hurting each other. 

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This is hard to put into words if I am being honest. This book is so far out of the realm of what I would normally read, but I truly loved listening to this book. I am very glad I chose to listen instead of trying to read, and I feel like I got a deeper understanding this way. 

"Help, my girlfriend's are unionizing!" - Peter Kubeck

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Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Sally Rooney brings in something new for me: thoughts of the main characters to be finished by the readers themselves. To me that means a good chance of taking sides with the two quite different brothers.

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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