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mdavis26's review
3.75
Graphic: Chronic illness, Classism, Death of parent, Incest, Suicidal thoughts, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Infidelity, Mental illness, Abandonment, and Alcoholism
julia_89's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Moderate: Sexism and Mental illness
Minor: Death of parent, Drug abuse, Fatphobia, Suicidal thoughts, Body shaming, Child abuse, and Incest
taylorfield's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Anne Bogel (Modern Mrs. Darcy), a go-to when I'm in need of a recommendation, named this one of her favorite audiobooks of 2023, so I'm disappointed to say I was not impressed. I don't rate books lower because of unlikable characters, but to review this without mentioning how absolutely insufferable the characters are would be an injustice. The novel starts with Adam - unreliable narrator at best, chauvinistic and pretentious Boomer at worst. Then there's Ken, the "rich, white man with anger issues and political aspirations" trope. Abby is the opposite side of the spectrum but no better, as she stands on her feminist soapbox while simultaneously sleeping with another woman's husband (her non-belief in marriage/"traditional relationships" is the reason they aren't together, of course). Jenny was a rebel in college but vowed to be the submissive good girl when her mother died. Finally there's Steph, who may be the only redeeming main character of the bunch (possibly because she's the only one with a real problem, but I digress), yet is still somehow a stereotype. Every character is a caricature, including the secondary players. Steph's wife doesn't say anything that isn't about astrology. Tessa (one of Ken and Jenny's twins), is a brazen tomboy, while her sister Franny is more "developed" and ladylike. David only cares about sex; Jenny's dad only cares about money. George, the only overweight character, is constantly described by what he's eating and what crumbs are on his belly. Even in the out-of-character moments - Ken caring about beach erosion, for example - the conclusion finds its way back to the trope - e.g. Ken screaming at a tourist couple because he "owns the beach" and thinks he's better than them.
Character flaws aside, this novel is aggressively 2016. The Clinton v Trump presidential election starts as a talking point for the men to mention their hatred of women (both Adam and Ken would prefer Bernie Sanders despite not appearing to have any of the same ideals as the failed candidate). Focus on the election reaches a crescendo by the final meeting of the characters - a new family member's birth is scheduled early so that it will occur on election day. Peppered throughout are the smaller pop culture references, like the paraphrased, "Ew, anything but Taylor Swift," comment from one of the twins (probably Tessa). Considering the summer of 2016 is when #TaylorSwiftIsOverParty was trending, this seemingly throwaway line would have been incredibly relevant at the time. That a group of women-supporting-women characters would not support Taylor Swift while singing the praises of Hilary Clinton is an odd choice, especially since any pop star could have been used in place of Swift. The author's forceful nature to Make Sure You Know This Is 2016 is overdone in these and other moments.
All the while, what you really need to know as a reader is left to vague acknowledgments and fade-to-black scenes that reveal nothing and leave everything to the imagination. No one comes out of the other side having resolved anything, nor have they really tried. I can concede this is the nature of life, but what a cop out for a novel that supposedly "simmers with tension as secrets explode out into the open."
One final grievance (though I have many more): Tessa and Franny are not written like 12-year-olds. If there wasn't constant mention of their age, you'd think they were closer to 14/15.
Enjoyment: 2/5
Craft: 3/5
Overall: 2.5/5
Moderate: Alcoholism, Classism, Death of parent, and Mental illness
Child-on-child sexual abuseacresofclams's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Pregnancy, Alcoholism, Mental illness, and Alcohol
Moderate: Grief, Sexism, Death of parent, and Incest
Minor: Miscarriage and Suicidal thoughts
demanda's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Mental illness
Moderate: Alcoholism, Grief, Incest, and Death of parent
Minor: Miscarriage
amberjackonski's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Death of parent and Sexism
Moderate: Sexual assault, Gaslighting, and Suicidal thoughts
astoriareader's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
- This story is about the Gardner family in Cape Cod. Adam, Ken, & Abby are a family of three, as Emily unexpectedly passed when Abby was born.
- Adam, the father, is nearing his 70th birthday. He is a well-known scientist / oceanographer, and he loves humpback whales. As he nears retirement, he is trying to have one final “breakthrough” to feel relevant and useful again. He, however, has bipolar disorder, and he has purposefully been messing with his dosages in his pursuit to achieve the perfect mania state to make a breakthrough.
- Ken and Abby, the siblings, are adults now. Ken is married to Abby’s best friend, and he had two twin girls. He only cares about money and success, and he is a jerk. He has done well in business, and he hopes to get into politics. On the flip side, Abby is an artist, and she is very talented. She has a dog, and she lives in her art studio.
- Another main character is Steph, who believes she may be Adam’s daughter, and she is there for the summer to learn more about her new family members .
- Well-written story + good character development
- Family drama with complex relationships set in Cape Cod
- Medium pacing
- Ahhh, I couldn’t handle Ken’s character. He was awful, but the author did write the character well. In fact, the author did a great job portraying many male characters in the book. Many have troubling attitudes toward women.
- One of my favorite things about the book was the contrast between the men and the women. The men act entitled, emotionally stunted, misogynistic, and lacking. The women, particularly Abby & Steph, act capable, emotionally mature, smart, & resilient.
- The exploration of an aging father’s inability to emotionally connect with his kids was fascinating, too.
- There are some triggering topics that are revealed in the plot, so I would recommend looking up triggers if you are trying to avoid anything in particular.
- I enjoyed the vivid descriptions, and I was able to picture the setting.
- The ending was pretty abrupt, and I was disappointed that some things were left unresolved. I would have liked more of a resolution with Adam’s mental health & a confrontation between Ken and Abby. For that reason, I am giving this one 4 stars, instead of 5.
Graphic: Pregnancy and Mental illness
Moderate: Incest, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, and Death of parent
Minor: Child abuse
laurenabeth's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Pregnancy, Child abuse, and Mental illness
Moderate: Infidelity, Death of parent, Incest, and Alcoholism
Minor: Drug use and Grief
kellimartin22's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Moderate: Death of parent and Sexual assault
gondorgirl's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Moderate: Mental illness, Misogyny, Pregnancy, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Medical content, Bullying, Child abuse, Death of parent, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Emotional abuse, and Grief