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lettuce_read's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Suicide attempt, and Mental illness
Moderate: Racism, Bullying, and Fatphobia
literarybookishness's review against another edition
5.0
Wow, this book got me really emotional. That's how impressed I am. I usually read fiction, so reading non-fiction is always a very different experience. Whenever I see the words 'Graphic Memoir', I always feel like it's gonna be good. Many illustrators are just so skilled at making memoirs and Deb was no different. It had every element you need to tell a good round story. It was an impactful read and I'm sure that a lot of folks will feel very seen reading this story.
I finished the book feeling so proud of Deb and how far they've come. At the end you get a short update on how they're currently doing, which I thought was a really nice addition.
Thank you Deb for being so open with sharing your story.
I highly recommend reading this book, but I do encourage you to look at the content warning, because the book does discuss heavy subjects.
CW: racism, bullying, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempt and domestic abuse
Graphic: Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, and Domestic abuse
Moderate: Racism and Bullying
fareehareads's review against another edition
5.0
After reading this, I know that I have to get my hands on a physical copy once it's out! I have followed along with Deb JJ Lee's art for a few years now, she's one of my favorite illustrators so I just knew this would be the type of comic for me. This story follows Deb's life as a Korean American attempting to fit in and juggle the real stressors of school life, friendships, immigrant parent trauma, and her own self image. So many of the experiences in this memoir mirror my own as I'm sure a lot of diaspora kids will feel reading her story. In her author notes she mentions how a few of the experiences were included out of order or compressed to help with the narrative flow. This definitely doesn't take away from the story at all, in fact, I think the way she decided to ultimately tell the story gives more room for readers to really sit with and understand the way these events effect kids and follow them in their life. The therapy scenes genuinely made me tear up, this whole memoir felt like a hug and healing session. Aside from the story itself, my favorite aspect was the drawing style. I love when graphic memoirs include photography into the panels and follow it with a sensory description. Each panel had unique shading paired with precise linework for each character. The one and two page spreads were stunning and I'm sure they look even more amazing in print. If you're looking for a new memoir to add to your shelf, I highly recommend picking this up!
Graphic: Self harm, Domestic abuse, Bullying, and Xenophobia
Moderate: Toxic friendship and Body shaming
inkdrinkeranonymous's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Child abuse, Racism, Self harm, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Body shaming, Bullying, Fatphobia, Physical abuse, Cursing, Suicide attempt, Grief, Racial slurs, and Suicidal thoughts
betweentheshelves's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Suicide attempt, Child abuse, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Bullying, Fatphobia, and Racism
Minor: Racial slurs
bargainandbooks's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Bullying, Mental illness, Fatphobia, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide attempt