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marcirenee1974's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
dark
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
mysterious
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
This book was so sad and rage-inducing! So much shame and blaming of the girls/women this happened to back then - but really it isn't that much different today except now we are trying to FORCE them to keep babies they don't want. We really haven't come that far regarding this issue, sadly. This book was really well written and sucked you right into Lorraine's world. This was my 1st book by Megan Church but will not be my last!
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applejacksbooks's review against another edition
dark
emotional
sad
tense
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
4.0
caitiep92's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
reflective
medium-paced
3.25
booked_with_meg's review against another edition
challenging
dark
informative
tense
medium-paced
3.5
berrywellread's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I enjoyed this book. This is a good medium-fast paced book/audiobook.
Quick plot: Smart and slightly naive aspiring astronaut girl is forced to grow up as a secret grows and changes her whole life forever.
I appreciated the strength of the FMC, Lorraine.
The very clear and quick setting of the scene (North Carolina suburbs) and time period (1960’s) made me feel like I was there.
The different points of view and flashback scenes were intriguing and enjoyable.
I liked the narrator. Her American accents helped the story. It took a few chapters to get used to Susan doing the guys’ voices but then it was good after that. Very talented to manage so many different characters so quickly. Her voice helped you empathise with the characters.
bookmarkedbybecky's review against another edition
adventurous
dark
informative
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Heartbreaking yet riveting! I couldn't put this down, even though many of the adults in this book angered me - these poor girls!!!
Church pens the untold stories of teen pregnancy in the 1960s. Parents and society, at this time, viewed teenage pregnancy as shameful and should be hidden at all costs. Consequently, parents sent their daughters to a home for unwed pregnant teens, where they were often coerced into giving up their babies for adoption. Church examines the experiences of these young girls from diverse backgrounds who had limited choices and autonomy over their bodies, leading to psychological scars. Their stories I found upsetting, challenging, and heartbreaking to read, but I believe that's the exact emotions Church hoped to elicit as she unfolded this unsavory history.
Susan Bennett's narration is excellent! She performs the multiple POVs seamlessly. Her tone and inflection add to the innocence of our teenage girls while also adding to the southern feel of the story.
If you're looking to read about women's history this month, be sure to add The Girl We Sent Away to your reading list.
theoverbookedbibliophile's review against another edition
emotional
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
4.25
Set in 1960s North Carolina, this story revolves around seventeen-year-old Lorraine Delford. An only child of dutiful parents who take pride in her accomplishments, Lorraine has a good life at home, is top of her class and has ambitions beyond being a wife and mother as is traditionally expected of women. When an unplanned pregnancy threatens to change everything for her, Lorraine is resilient and makes an effort to accept how her life will change, but her boyfriend abandons her and her parents offer no support instead sending her away to a maternity home for unwed mothers to hide their shame and protect their reputation in their community. Hoping that she would be able to continue her education while there, she is shocked to see the indifferent, uncaring attitude of the housemother and doctors in whose care she has been entrusted realizing that she is expected to return to her former life after she gives birth and gives up her child. She meets others- both like and unlike herself - a reality check that compels her to take stock of her life and reflect on her priorities, the difficult choices she needs to make and the choices that have been made for her fully aware that her life will never be the same even though she is expected to go on as if this episode in her life never happened.
"Strength isn't in the loud and obvious. Strength is often camouflaged in the quiet, reserved places where most people wouldn't think to look. It's grown in the moments when we give up things along the way."
The Girls We Sent Away by Meagan Church is an incredibly moving story. Beautifully written, heart wrenching yet thought-provoking, this novel captures the social landscape of the Baby Scoop Era and the plight of unwed young girls who were forced to succumb to familial and societal pressure to relinquish their rights to their children. Lorraine’s journey is a painful one as she evolves from a sheltered young girl to a young mother forced to face the reality of her situation and the society in which she lives. It was heartbreaking to witness the challenges faced by these young girls, alone with no guidance or emotional support, their choices taken away from them and let down by everyone they should have been able to trust. The author is brutally honest in her depiction of the psychological toll of her experiences and the emotional scars she carries into her adulthood. Granted those were different times, but it is sad to read stories about women who are judged for mistakes for which they alone were not responsible and how easy it was for society, community and their families to shame them into submission. The author has presented us with a powerful story that will stay with you long after you have finished reading this book.
This was my first time reading this author and I'm eager to explore more of her work.
I paired my reading with audio narration by Susan Bennett, who breathes life into the characters and this story, for an absorbing immersion reading experience.
Many thanks to SOURCEBOOKS Landmark for the digital review copy and RB Media for the ALC via NetGalley. All opinions expressed in this review are my own.