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drlainie's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Medical trauma, Excrement, Vomit, Child abuse, Classism, Xenophobia, Deportation, and Animal death
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Racism, Body shaming, Animal cruelty, Grief, Sexual harassment, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Abandonment, Cancer, and Racial slurs
Minor: Blood, Suicidal thoughts, Death of parent, Misogyny, Stalking, Abortion, Bullying, and Sexism
adrienne_rennie's review against another edition
4.0
Moderate: Classism, Deportation, Chronic illness, Medical content, Racial slurs, Medical trauma, Vomit, Injury/Injury detail, Xenophobia, Bullying, Racism, and Cancer
Minor: Hate crime, Alcohol, Animal cruelty, Cursing, Adult/minor relationship, and Toxic relationship
maryclaire92's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Racism, Xenophobia, Infidelity, Cancer, and Racial slurs
mrsdarcylynn's review against another edition
3.0
I think this was a pretty middle of the road memoir for me. The author narrates the entirety from the perspective of her childhood self and hits on some important issues with being the child of undocumented immigrants.
For me, the lack of contextualization made this a weaker memoir. There is no hindsight, the author doesn’t bring any of her present understandings to bear on these past memories. You kind of just get the stories. Which is fine, but doesn’t make it a standout for me. I didn’t get a sense that there was a call to action, any insight, just observation.
I also thought she lingered too long on some of the animal violence and excrement pieces of her childhood memories. There wasn’t much of a point to those parts of the stories.
Overall, an okay read.
Graphic: Excrement, Racial slurs, Animal cruelty, and Racism
dreamer626's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Racism, Racial slurs, and Xenophobia
anniover's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Racism and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Body shaming
Minor: Racial slurs, Animal cruelty, and Injury/Injury detail
sprucewillow's review against another edition
4.5
I wish there were more good things that happened but who knows if that was due to the author excluding them or good things really did just rarely happen.
Graphic: Xenophobia, Racism, Medical content, Child abuse, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Sexual harassment, and Animal cruelty
Minor: Genocide
shortstackz's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Racial slurs, Racism, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Medical trauma, Misogyny, and Medical content
keekbeeek's review against another edition
This is an incredibly sad book. Within these pages we relive the trauma that Qian experienced as a child in America. It’s almost as if Qian wrote this book in order to process her childhood trauma— every single page and story was filled with visceral pain and trauma. May you feel grateful for your own childhood after reading this? Possibly. But at what cost?
Graphic: Racial slurs, Racism, Xenophobia, Child abuse, Sexual violence, and Pedophilia
menomica's review against another edition
For all those who remain in the shadows: May you one day have no reason to fear the light.
I guess I’m just not a nonfiction girlie. The prose was also bit 🫤.
Graphic: Racism, Classism, Racial slurs, and Xenophobia