Reviews tagging 'Physical abuse'

My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante

36 reviews

quietspectacle's review against another edition

emotional inspiring reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

Visceral and beautiful (at times) storytelling but drags and feels redundant in the middle. The Naples neighbourhood, beach town, and Naples city are all described in such detail that you feel you’re there. I think most would agree the second half is better than the first. The book does a great job at detailing the intricacies of human relationships and I think it’s better read and digested at a slower pace which I wasn’t able to do as I was reading it for my book club. It may have been the high expectations given the sheer number of must read book recommendation lists this is on or the mystery shrouded around the author but there are a lot of tropes it relies on for a coming of an age novel that doesn’t really challenge upon them or present something new. In that way, it feels much like a elevated soap opera with a little more realism. I was left a bit unsatisfied by this novel at the end but I still consider it a decent read and don’t regret picking it up.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Violence, Physical abuse, and Emotional abuse

Moderate: Sexual assault

kaiulanilee's review against another edition

adventurous challenging emotional reflective sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Adult/minor relationship, Classism, Child abuse, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, Infidelity, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Murder, Physical abuse, Sexual harassment, Sexism, Sexual violence, and Stalking

eazurch's review against another edition

adventurous emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

I really liked this book, stayed up multiple evenings to finish it even. I like following Lila and Elena’s friendship over so many years and reading about all the interpersonal dynamics (while having the character list to refer back to).

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Death, Domestic abuse, Toxic relationship, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual assault, Physical abuse, Murder, Injury/Injury detail, and Grief

finleigh's review against another edition

emotional reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Physical abuse, and Sexual assault

ilovedyou's review against another edition

emotional reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Violence

Moderate: Child abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, and Toxic friendship

selenatothemax's review against another edition

mysterious reflective tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Toxic friendship, Physical abuse, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Pedophilia, Violence, and Rape

kgorinshteyn's review against another edition

adventurous dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Toxic friendship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Sexual assault, Child abuse, and Physical abuse

klor's review against another edition

adventurous emotional reflective fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

The perspective of class, female friendships, and girlhood was so on point and portrayed as honest as they can be. It's sometimes violent, and petty, and vicious but it's also full of pent up emotion, and love, and devotion that makes it dynamic and complex. Ferrante's writing and imagery was gorgeous despite the very melodramatic plotline. This reminded me a lot of the telenovelas I've read growing up. While this book is highly regarded as one of the best novels/series of all time, I can't quite find anything too special in the plotline other than the instances I've mentioned. I got annoyed with like, 90% of the characters the more I progressed through the book, especially with our narrator. The pace picked back up again as the book came into a close. I'd love to check out Ferrante's other works but might take a bit before I come back to the series.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Gun violence, Classism, Physical abuse, Violence, and Sexual assault

lindsaccount's review

medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Violence, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, and Death

Moderate: Alcohol, Blood, Bullying, Child abuse, Classism, Sexual content, Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Death, Emotional abuse, and Grief

Minor: Death of parent, Sexual harassment, Homophobia, and Gore

hippolyta_vi's review against another edition

emotional reflective slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

For anyone who's ever had a best friend that they love with all their heart and would do anything for, but ultimately is the same person you compare yourself to, possibly in an unhealthy way, this book is for you. 

This story is episodic, driven by characters vignettes not a grand adventure. Many people have said it's boring, but it's anything but. Ferrante pulls the reader into the lives of Lenù and Lila and their home town. You are an onlooker, rooting for characters while simultaneously hating them. Every character and their relationships to one another are complex and real. 

I can't wait to see what the rest of the series has in store. 

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Physical abuse, Violence, Sexual violence, Cursing, Domestic abuse, and Child abuse