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Such a Pretty Smile by Kristi DeMeester

9 reviews

c0rpsekat's review against another edition

dark emotional mysterious reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

MORE QUEER FOCUSED HORROR PLEASE !! this book is so dark , gorgeous , and cherishable !!! the most beautifully written experience i've had the pleasure to read . i truly felt anxious and scared as i lived DEEP in this universe Kristi DeMeester created , but i also felt such sadness , love , and sympathy for the characters and their stories . Lila and Caroline are not only my favorite characters i've read , but ones that will stick with me in every day of my life . as a queer , afab trans person who came out at around Lila's age raised by a single mother who recently passed away ... wow . this book spoke to me in ways i never knew a horror novel could . an absolutely chilling , sorrowful , and astounding ride .

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Blood, Cannibalism, Death of parent, Grief, Lesbophobia, Body shaming, Death, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Body horror, Bullying, Sexism, Self harm, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Pregnancy, Panic attacks/disorders, Kidnapping, and Suicidal thoughts

Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Pedophilia, Drug use, and Drug abuse

oliviavm8's review against another edition

adventurous dark emotional mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Beautifully written. I felt the grief and sadness radiating through this book. As a woman who has been subjected to abuse by a man- this book hit me deeply in places I tend to keep hidden. It took a while for me to fully understand and grasp the concept of the book but when I did it hit so deep within me. Ugh, so raw and emotional- absolutely loved it. Five star book for me- any woman should read this.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Blood, Child death, Death, Pedophilia, Sexism, Sexual assault, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Grief, Physical abuse, Body horror, Mental illness, and Panic attacks/disorders

kabrown28's review against another edition

dark mysterious medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Gaslighting, Eating disorder, Adult/minor relationship, Pregnancy, Sexual assault, Misogyny, Toxic friendship, Sexism, Murder, Lesbophobia, Animal death, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment

szyca's review against another edition

dark emotional tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Terminal illness, Toxic friendship, Blood, Gaslighting, Sexism, Animal death, Mental illness, Gore, Kidnapping, Misogyny, Murder, Body horror, Child death, and Death

Moderate: Cancer, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Alcohol, Bullying, and Grief

kateapatton's review

challenging dark emotional mysterious sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Animal death, Mental illness, Sexism, Toxic friendship, Toxic relationship, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Misogyny, and Gore

Moderate: Death of parent, Gaslighting, Medical trauma, Panic attacks/disorders, and Mental illness

graveyard_witch's review against another edition

dark mysterious slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

This book is really hard for me to review and rate. I really enjoyed the novel. Demeester is great at crafting an ominous background with tension that left me sitting on the edge of my seat. However, I must say that I didn't quite understand the ending. I felt like a lot of questions were left unanswered. I understand what Demeester was trying to say in this book. Commenting on social norms, sexism, and gender roles. I understand that the antagonist of the book is meant to reflect those themes, however it feels like there was something left to be explored. In the end, I enjoyed the book, and am very glad that I Read it. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Murder and Sexism

Moderate: Violence, Animal death, and Animal cruelty

raychelbennet's review

challenging dark emotional tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

This was a difficult book to read and it’s a difficult one to review. I have a feeling it’s going to be very polarizing. The idea is a great one. In 2019, Lila is thirteen years old and she has a lot of secrets. She has an immense amount of anger rising up, she might be seeing things, and the dark thoughts she’s having are starting to sound very appealing. Alongside this plot is the narration of Caroline from 2004. Caroline is Lila’s mother and she is a struggling artist under a lot of familial stress. She has started to hear dogs barking and to see a man with a dog’s face in the shadows. In both 2004 and 2019, girls have started going disappearing. The killer has the same MO: a young preteen girl goes missing and their bodies are later found with ravaged inner thighs. Police believe it is a serial killer who has started taking girls again that they simply call The Cur. Is the same thing hunting girls? Are Lila and Caroline both being hunted by something or are they just “crazy” unreliable narrators? 

The plot and the message of this book are really powerful. Kristi DeMeester really masterfully handles feminine horror in a patriarchal society. Every event is related to what a woman should do, how they should act, and their position in society. It focuses heavily on both the internal thoughts of girls/women and how they are forced to project themselves to the world. The use of the almost omnipresent Cur can be read as a physical manifestation of the patriarchy that wants to consume the inappropriate behaviors found in young girls. All of this is amazing, 5 stars, incredible.

Where things get difficult for me is the books' use of imagery depicting violence against animals and sexual violence. I am never a fan of violence against animals but I can skip over a scene if I feel it furthers the plot. The violence here I felt was *extremely* heavy-handed and drawn out longer than necessary. I get its purpose in the narrative but it made my stomach churn.

The discussion and depiction of sexual violence can be important—especially in books that deal with feminist themes. As someone who identifies as a radical feminist and who 100% agrees with the message that I feel this book was trying to portray already, maybe I just was not the target audience for this. I cannot comfortably read books with scenes of sexual violence where I cannot skip them. In Such A Pretty Smile, the sexual violence that occurs is fully entwined in other events that would leave important plot points out if it is not read. This put me in an uncomfortable and potentially unsafe situation and I think that could be true for other readers. Additionally, the language described—while not the worst or the most graphic I’ve ever read—is almost overbearing. Again, maybe I was not the target audience because I did not need to see anything in a different light to understand DeMeester’s point. 

Overall, I think this is an important book. I think it is a really important addition to the horror genre and Kristi DeMeester is going to definitely be an author to look out for. I just think this might benefit from a few content warnings, which I am trying to explain here. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Animal death, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexism, Ableism, Animal cruelty, and Kidnapping

Moderate: Child abuse, Child death, and Violence

enchantressreads's review

dark emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Wow. I loved this book. My first five star of the year!

Lila Sawyer is an awkward 13-year-old girl who lives alone with her mother, sculptor Caroline Sawyer. She’s recently been taken under the wing of extrovert Macie Kemper. She’s soft, shy, and quiet, until something starts to grow within her. She becomes defiant, loud, no longer going to her mother for comfort, but to hurt her.

Such a Pretty Smile deals with so many topics in a cohesive way. There are family secrets, repressed memories, grief, and overall it’s a coming of age story. As Mother Horror stated previously, girls grow up too. It was lovely to see a coming of age story focusing on a young girl.

This story is so layered, and some of the twists had me reeling, clinging to my Kindle so I wouldn’t toss it across the room. Just read it.

Thank you to Net Galley and St. Martin’s Press for the chance to read this advanced review copy. Such a Pretty Smile releases on January 18th. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Mental illness, and Violence

Moderate: Animal death, Cancer, and Sexual harassment

Minor: Death of parent and Sexism

kaylaramoutar's review against another edition

dark sad tense medium-paced

• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Animal death, Death of parent, Death, Dementia, Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Grief, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Murder, Pedophilia, Rape, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Sexism, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Toxic friendship, Toxic relationship, and Violence