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Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender

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caramelie's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

Merci Felix de m’encourager, dans les mots d’Alok Vaid Menon, à avoir le courage de me briser le cœur moi-même.

J’ai retiré 0,25 pour les quelques répétitions qui n’ont en rien changé le fait que ce livre va rester avec moi très longtemps.

Ce livre m’a fait ressentir des émotions similaires à, voire plus intenses que, I Wish All the Best. Je recommande donc aux personnes qui ont aimé I Wish You All the Best de lire Felix Ever After et aux personnes qui ont aimé Felix Ever After de lire I Wish You All The Best.

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tinysierra's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Tale of self discovery
Flawed messy characters
Trans/

demiboy

main character
Discussions of privilege and classism
Abandonment
Transphobia

Tropes:
Love triangle

Friends to lovers

Personally not a fan of the underage drinking

The audiobook narrator worked well for Felix. But the audiobook version I listened to still had Harry Potter references which could be triggering.

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happysoullovesyou's review against another edition

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Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I will love this book to the day my life ends <3

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melist6's review against another edition

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emotional inspiring lighthearted tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

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arielwip's review against another edition

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Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5

Overall, I enjoyed parts of the book and, while the characters annoyed me, I did still appreciate the craft and the journey and the occasional emotional connection.

Content Warnings

Graphic: Abandonment, Toxic friendship, Toxic relationship, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Deadnaming, Gaslighting, Bullying, Homophobia, Outing, and Transphobia

Moderate: Alcohol, Cursing, Dysphoria, Sexual content, and Panic attacks/disorders

Minor: Drug use and Classism

I found Felix a bit

repetitive and contradictory towards the beginning of the book. If I wasn’t on a buddy-read I might’ve given up at some point in the first third of the book. But since the book is written in the present tense exclusively from Felix’s perspective in the first person, I wasn’t sure if it was bad writing or just a terribly good representation of a 17-year-old’s trauma brain, so I gave it the benefit of the doubt. As the character developed, the repetition subsided and he became aware of his contradictions. There were different phases of the book in which the writing kinda changed because of Felix’s growing self-understanding.

The groups of teens chatting

were obviously used as a vehicle to address many tropes and present the generally accepted opinions and ongoing discussion in the community at the moment. It was obvious, but the topics being discussed fitted into the different parts of story, which now makes me realise that a lot of effort must have gone into crafting that aspect of the book. While I recognised all of these themes and the details, a 17-year-old reading this might not be aware of it all, and so I feel this is all quite valuable. There are other aspects of the book that aim to make the book seem real and relatable, and that’s obviously especially true of intersectional folk. All-in-all that makes the book a great resource for younger intersectional folk, and younger folk in general. I’m not sure what a younger hetero-cis person would make of this… maybe it could shape how they see trans and queer folks, and maybe their own place in relation to us.

Felix thought that

all older trans folk have it all figured out. It may not be important to the target audience, I don’t know, but the author missed a trick in Bex’s gender discussion group where all the older folks really did have it all figured out. This is such a shame, as it’s really not like this in real life. If one of the older folks in the group had been there with some of Felix’s questions, then I might’ve seen myself represented in this book. I was also frustrated that Felix had so many more questions than the one they asked, and not all of these were answered by rest of the group’s discussions.

But then Felix was in general

a frustrating character in so many ways. For somebody who started the book with way more self-awareness and self-assurance than I had at even twice his age, he was just so annoyingly dense! That fact that in early chapters he was literally spooning with his best friend, and Ezra was almost like an overprotective parent or husband, and he was excited by the train experience… I mean, c’mon Felix ffs!

The whole journey with

Declan was very nicely crafted, and I really felt the excitement, awkwardness, and dismay as this storyline progressed. That Declan’s grandad with the dude on the train was a nice touch. And that Declan couldn’t talk to Felix afterward was one of many, many decisions by the author that made the book so real. And that we only see that from Felix’s perspective made me ache.

The only other parts that I felt

truly emotionally connected to were his Pride march experience and his entering the zone when painting (though for me it's music) There was also maybe a hint of being okay with the attention of the gallery, but also that not being the point and not really wanting to stick around for the fuss, which I feel.

There were was some very

black-and-white thinking in the book, typifying teen thinking (also bringing up the argument of who is b/w… NDs or NTs?) though Felix clearly wasn’t guilty of this (ND? was hinted at!) Felix started the book with thing going around and around in his head, and also basically gaslighting himself. Later in the book he let’s go a little and learns that experience is what it is, but you can’t learn and grow without it. Other lessons the book offers are: it’s okay to cut people off if they cross a line; you should take other people’s advice; art is a great medium for self-expression, especially if you’re struggling to find yourself; honesty is the best policy; and more… and I think that all of these are delivered with that black-and-white thinking – and I disagree with that now, but when I was 17 I could have done with reading that.

Throughout much of the book,

Brown is the goal. At some point, the gallery and internship becomes a possibility, and I even thought that if Felix does that, then Declan could get the scholarship and they could remain friends. In the end, Felix gets the gallery, but we don’t go beyond. The success is in love and self-discovery and recognising he was already brave enough to take chances and tell his story and have those conversations. Felix was literally lying to himself earlier in the book! I cried so much in the last few chapters, and I wish I had had this experience at 17. In the end, we don’t learn what Felix does next, because that’s not the point… and maybe the target audience benefits from living with that uncertainty, while I just appreciate that it was a good place to stop.

Ultimately,

while I kinda dislike all the characters or aspects of them, I think it was an honest showcase of a broad-spectrum of LGBTQIA+ issues, attitudes, and how different personalities interact within that environment and beyond. I felt it would be a very relatable, affirming and informative read for a young trans person who was out to their folks already. Since everything was told from the perspective of the teen, even the parental grief, that was troubling Felix so much throughout the book, is told from a perspective of gradual understanding and acceptance. I feel this part is like a microcosm for the whole narrative, in which Felix does a 180 from the start to the end of the book and comes to relate to a person in a whole new way, even though his fundamental/practical relationship with them hasn’t really changed in reality. With the obvious exception of Leah, who was the net gain in friends from beginning to end… again, a pretty realistic representation of college life.

In the end, Felix was

trans, queer, from a poor background, confused, and potentially ND but definitely traumatized. In these ways I related to him. I just wish I was as smart and self-aware as him at that age, and had grown up in a time with any trans/queer representation. I definitely related to the gender group chat about how easy the young’uns have it these days… even though it’s demonstrably still very hard. Another thing that was familiar to me was the (very normalized) drinking and drugs and partying and not wanting the loud parties.

Issues I noticed and still remember now: • Transphobia in general • Transphobia from within queer community • Transphobia at home • Broken families and childhood guilt • Socio-economic privilege • Homophobia • Misogyny and feminism wrt trans • Cis-heteronormativity + white privilege • Intersectionality • Self-image vs image • Gender expression and its relation to identity • Self-esteem and self-worth, and (our choice in?) their origins of derivation • Bodily autonomy and its compromise • Choice generally, and its freedom or not • Bullying and gaslighting • Personal safety • Coallescence of queer peers • Emotoinal independence and codependence • Cyber bullying/hacking • Trust and layers/Venn diagrams thereof • Pride, self-love and community-love • Personal vulnerability and risk assessment • Allyship • Parental grief • Obsessive coping/pathology • Overwhelming experiences, good, bad and otherwise • Gender being behind a paywall They were mostly obvious, which suits an audience that isn't already aware, or maybe benefits from modelling the ideas. A couple I think the audience would already be familiar with and were probably added to make the book more relatable, but also to make it a book about issues and to make the reader feel that it wasn't all new.

yvo_about_books's review

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4.0

Finished reading: October 3rd 2023

"It's easier to accept hurt and pain, sometimes, than love and acceptance."

I've been meaning to read Felix Ever After for quite some time now... When I needed a banned book for the POPSUGAR challenge, I decided to give in and finally read it. I know that I don't read a lot of YA anymore, but I would recommend this book for both teenagers and adults alike. The topic is such an important one, and it's an own voices story at that; there is no doubt that Felix Ever After has a big impact, and it really is an eye-opener. That said, I do have to say that there were certain aspects about the main character Felix that I didn't like as much. I get his struggles and they are both portrayed realistically and basically heartbreaking. BUT. He is also pretty selfish and vindictive, and the fact that others are hurting him is no excuse to do the same. I can't say that I was a fan of the whole love triangle vibe either, which kind of put a damper on things for me... In fact, I wasn't really a fan of the romance nor how it was developed and incorporated in general. I'm still giving this story four stars though just for its impact and how it can help people discover their identity and tribe.

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bookishperseus's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted mysterious reflective relaxing sad tense slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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ecn's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

Very sweet but also so heavy and difficult at times

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quinnpjd930's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A wonderful coming-of-age dealing with real, important topics like finding yourself and your identity, the intricate layers of blossoming queer identities, standing up to discrimination, the importance of love, acceptance, and friendship, and more. The growth of the characters is a journey that takes you along with it.

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kitty_may12's review against another edition

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Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.75

Well this was a rollercoaster, wasn’t it? A unique and thoughtful story about what it means to grow up and come into your own. The character of Felix Love is definitely a complex one; not unlike that of Simon Spier. Only Felix is slightly too vindictive and narrow minded for me to get on board with some of the actions he takes throughout his journey of self-discovery and acceptance. All of the relationships are messy and full of raging teenage hormones, angst and mystery that are explored and utilized well. However, I do wish that the love triangle, if you could even call it that and some of the other important subplots were explored in depth or just given the time each needed to make a significant impact...

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