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The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake by Aimee Bender

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emotional mysterious reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Over a decade ago I looked up books to read and made a long list from several articles of books to convince my mom to buy. She didn't buy a single one. I remember this being on the list. And now I'm like, why? Thank goodness I found this at a used bookstore shop in Pasadena. It was a cute read, very creative, very fun. Beautiful gowns. I have the opinion that white people can't / shouldn't write magical realism because they never quite get it right. This book is only more evidence toward my theory, but it was a good effort, Miss Bender. I'll give you that. I had fun but I wasn't blown away.

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emotional mysterious reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

A really, beautifully bittersweet book. As someone who has both issues around eating and a mother who had an affair, it's possible this hit me much harder than it might hit another reader. Even then, I'd recommend trying it, with the caveat that this is much less about Rose's powers, and much more of a classic Bildungsroman.

The "powers" that arise in the book are intriguing and odd. Often in contemporary literature it feels like the characters are just an assembly of quirks—here we have, for instance, a fear of hospitals so bad it keeps Rose's father from attending either of their births—with nothing truly human or relatable layered underneath. Aimee Bender avoids that neatly, carefully capturing realistic emotions, responses and relationship subtleties which flesh all the characters out well beyond those token quirky traits.  

I found the writing engaging and easy to read, with a simple beauty to it without turning to purple prose, and the stylistic choice not to use quotation marks (which I've seen before occasionally in other works) fits well here. I also felt that the ending worked well, and I'm surprised to read in other reviews that people found it came out of nowhere or ruined things. Rose's journey from being a child overwhelmed by the information her ability reveals to her to an adult who's found her own way to survive is the main emotional arc of the book, and it closes well.


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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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dark emotional hopeful mysterious reflective sad slow-paced
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Honestly, it's been a few months since I read this, but it made a huge impression on me, but I saw there are a lot of negative reviews of this book I have to leave my thoughts here. I'm guessing you've read the summary, so I won't go into the premise. So, a few things: this is not a super-hero story. It's not about a girl who gets a superpower and then fixes everything. The gift of tasting peoples emotions in food (and not just that, she can taste the entire production chain, really) is treated much more as a disability most of the time. Which it is, if you think about it. She has to eat. But every time she does she has to deal with someone else's pain. A nice detail of a subtle coping mechanism is her love of vending-machines. This is a story of someone having to deal with acute involuntary empathy, isolation and a very complicated relationship with everyone in her family. 

I personally spent this book just getting gradually more heartbroken for it's characters. I usually hate depressing books, but it's beautifully written, with great empathy and though the premise might invite cynicism, it never becomes the tone of the story. It has whimsy, but it's not a light read. Not for me at least. I bawled my eyes out towards the end of it, and there were a few moments that I found quite horrifying. Also, the magical realism is a bigger part of the story than you expect it to be in the beginning. But there's no radio-active spiders, magical theory or science-stuff explaining it, there's almost no testing the limits, no training-montages, there's no fighting some great evil. It's mostly just dealing with whatever it is this gift demands from you. 

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