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I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer by Michelle McNamara
41 reviews
notlikethebeer's review
3.25
Something I've heard about this book, and part of the reason I wanted to read it, is that it's meant to be very victim-centric, in a way that true crime often is not. There definitely was a lot of space given to the victims, including narratives of their life before they became victims. However, I don't know whether I'd describe the victims as being centered as such. McNamara was definitely eager to talk about gory details. And that has made me question, even more, whether victims CAN be centered within the true crime genre.
I think, as well, I would have liked some more reflexivity. McNamara was so caught up in this "mystery", and at times she talked a little about the desire to know, the urge to solve a puzzle. I also appreciated that she thought a little about her own experiences, and their relevance. However I never really understood why this "story" in particular, or why to such an intensity.
On that note, it's hard not to read IBGITD and wonder a little about McNamara's life, and the others in her life. I wonder what her daughter's autobiography might read like: whether she feels she even got to share her mother with this obsession. It IS an obsession, that clearly infiltrated every part of her life. Of course, I'm an outsider, but it does seem that it wasn't to a healthy degree. I'm struck by the knowledge that McNamara is believed to have died from an accidental overdose from various drugs. I wonder how much of her obsessive drive to solve a mystery she initially had no stake in lead to that. It's easy, in reading IBGITD, to wonder whether there is any harm in 'civilians' becoming involved in investigations, if they have the skills and can genuinely provide a benefit. Thinking about McNamara's lack of boundaries is just one example of the harms this can bring (note, just one!).
I will allow that we don't know whether this was the book McNamara wanted to write. We can hope, and trust, that it was. But we don't know. And that makes it difficult to critique. However, I came to this hoping for something that might humanize the true crime genre a little more: that might provide me with some of the understanding I seek in myself, as well as more broadly. I came away largely empty-handed.
Graphic: Murder, Rape, Sexual violence, Gun violence, Violence, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Blood, Death, Kidnapping, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Stalking, and Torture
laestaci's review
3.0
Graphic: Death, Stalking, Rape, Torture, Gun violence, and Murder
booksandmarvel's review against another edition
Graphic: Murder, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Gun violence, Death, Rape, Violence, Injury/Injury detail, Torture, Stalking, and Physical abuse
probablytoolate's review
3.5
Graphic: Sexual violence, Murder, Animal cruelty, Blood, Death, Gun violence, Rape, Sexual assault, Violence, and Stalking
bethboo's review against another edition
2.0
This book kind of solidifies my opinion about weird true crime junkies. Look man, I get it. It's morbidly interesting and makes you feel a little adrenaline. It's all so mysterious and violent that it feels separate from real life. I've been there, I've listened to true crime podcasts and watched the youtube videos. But at some point you have to realize that this is weird and those events truly happened to someone and that you, a random person, is not the "key to the case". You're just consuming trauma-porn of the worst day of someone's life. Like if you can't be self aware, then wtf. This lady let it take over her entire life.
I thought the book was well written and I thought the case was well laid out, thought I wish we hadn't focused on the lady obsessed with this guy rather than the victims. I feel like we really skipped over a lot of women, like they were just pins on a map. I'd never heard of this guy before and I hate to think that all those women had to live through such a horrid experience. Their safety had to be shattered so thoroughly. And I can't imagine you being married to one of those women and having to see someone you love so much be hurt like that. It's horrible.
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Confinement, Sexual violence, Violence, Gun violence, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Blood, Rape, and Murder
lakinlindsey's review
4.25
Graphic: Misogyny, Murder, Sexual assault, Violence, Death, Rape, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Gun violence, Stalking, and Injury/Injury detail
perfectcupoftea's review
3.75
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Murder, Rape, Torture, Gun violence, Drug use, Death, and Kidnapping
alisonfaith426's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Death of parent, Torture, Violence, Vomit, Death, Grief, Gun violence, Blood, Body horror, Cursing, Gore, Sexual violence, Injury/Injury detail, Misogyny, Murder, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, and Stalking
Moderate: Classism, Mental illness, and Sexual content
anjasshelf's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Blood, Death, Gun violence, Murder, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Stalking, and Violence
74percentgood's review
4.5
Graphic: Sexual violence, Death, Physical abuse, Rape, Gun violence, Sexual assault, Blood, Murder, and Violence