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The Vegetarian by Han Kang

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

The Vegetarian is probably one of the most haunting books I've read (and I've read my fair share of horror books). It's a slim novel but each page weighs heavy on the reader. 

The book follows Yeong-hye, a very ordinary South Korean woman who decides she must stop eating meat following a series of disturbing dreams. This decision creates a domino effect that begins with rebellion, societal rejection, and ultimately, mental collapse.

Kang shares Yeong-hye's story from the perspectives of three people - her husband, her brother-in-law, and her sister. She never shares Yeong-hye's own thoughts on her situation which, in my opinion, makes her even more of an enigma. The ambiguity surrounding her only deepens as the book progresses. The more I read the book, the more I felt like Yeong-hye’s vegetarianism was less about food and more about rejecting the norms that she was always forced to accept.  It is her act of defiance that leads to a chain reaction of horrors inflicted by those around her, as if society needed to punish her rebellion whilst absolving itself of responsibility for her suffering 

At times, the book can be hard to read, especially when her husband and brother-in-law objectify Yeong-hye and subject her to cruelty. However, it is those tough parts of the book that force you to acknowledge the harsh reality of a society that dehumanizes anyone who dares to deviate from its rules. Through Yeong-hye’s story, Kang paints a damning portrait of a world where those who don’t conform are cast aside, stripped of dignity, and treated as less than human. 

This book is a powerful allegory, open to different interpretations. I interpreted it as a piece on autonomy, the oppressive nature of societal expectations, and the cost of nonconformity. I’m also curious to read more reviews and see how others interpret the story.

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“Why, is it such a bad thing to die?”

Told through the perspective of her husband, brother-in-law, and older sister, we follow Yeong-hye as her mental health worsens while going against the societal pressure of how to be a woman. It is a grueling narrative, told exclusively through the eyes of people who fail to understand her. Yeong-hye’s motives are unclear to even the reader, which doesn’t matter because those closest to her–who are supposed to do their best in supporting her–see her resistance to societal norms as moral failings. 

While I do recommend this book for anyone who wants to get into grittier feminist literature, I would not say this is a great introduction to Kang’s work because it is so out-there in terms of subject. It’s a heavy read that I will definitely come back to time and time again 


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I don’t often like reading the perspectives of abusive men, but Kang does an excellent job with contrasting the emotionally unavailable (now ex-) husband in Mr. Cheong with the obsessive and entitled brother in law-turned-rapist. In-hye’s husband laments about Mr. Cheong being unappreciative of the kind of woman that he has married, when he himself acts the same towards his wife. They both view Yeong-hye as something to be won and shown-off, but neither consider her personhood as something to be respected. I find the brother in law's perspective to be the most astounding in his belief that he is doing everything just for art. He lies, blatantly, and simply assumes that people will go along with his plans because he is such a great visionary. He thinks so highly of himself that the only person he refers to by name is Mr. Cheong, who he viewed as a competitor. 

Kang took a pretty interesting direction with In-hye that I personally hadn’t seen much when I first read this book in 2022. Often, the “perfect older sister” trope falls into the chracter admonishing her siblings and parents for forcing her into the role while she remains dependent on societal norms, and while In-hye does hold resentment she also holds an understanding of her sister and the life that <i>she</i> was forced to live. They are a lot more similar than realized throughout the first two parts. In-hye recounting her own dreams that have begun plaguing her and how she finds more comfort in the mental wards than she does outside bring her closer to her sister in what is presumably her final moments. I greatly appreciate that her reliance on her son is not framed as motherhood bringing her happiness, but instead that the familiarity of parenting (which she was conditioned into from a young age) brings her comfort when everything around her has become uncertain.

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The Vegetarian- 3.5/5 

I don't even know what to say about this one. the wife definitely has a mental illness, but with her husband and her family I'm not surprised she ended up this way? You kinda of have to infere what caused her to spiral, but if you have any idea what's it's like to be a woman in Korea I'm afraid it's not that difficult to imagine. I was absolutely shocked and disgusted when her husband (the narrator) described her as a comfort woman and him, and Japanese soldier.

Mongolian Mark 2/5 

oh this one was sicker than the previous one

Flaming Trees 4/5 

As an eldest daughter, I thought Inhye's perspective was enlightening. I don't know really what to feel except my chest feels stuffy? This entire work was unsettling, but the 3rd short resonated with me the most and I thought it was a fitting conclusion to wrap the entire message of the collection. 

When a person undergoes such a drastic transformation, there's simply nothing anyone else can do but sit back and let them get on with it.

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I thought this was a horror book, and it definitely is not. It's just a sad, mildly boring story about
a lady with schizophrenia who goes vegetarian, is taken advantage of by her brother-in-law, and then starves herself to death (or nearly so).
Not my cup of tea.

And I can only assume that the reviewer on the book jacket who compared this to Kafka doesn't understand that cultural norms vary between cultures. This wasn't Kafkaeqsue at all....

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Upon finishing this book I had no idea what to think of it. I thought the writing was skilled, the metaphors were artful and poignant, and I was interested the way Kang revoked autonomy from the main character throughout. 

However, I don’t think I ‘enjoyed’ it. But was this book written to be enjoyed? 

I found it difficult to connect to any of the characters, but I think this was purposeful. I found the pacing quite off and confusing, which dampened my reading experience. 

Overall, I have no idea what to rate this book, but I’m glad that I read it, and have a lot to chew on…

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