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I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy

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5.0

Wow! I’ve just finished this and I loved this book so much, I felt I could relate on so many levels! 
Her mother had cancer from when Jennette was 2yo, she didn’t want to act but did for her mother. Her mother was abusive and a narcissist. She put a lot of pressure on Net and even pushed eating disorders to stunt her growth.. (something Jennette thought was in her favour and not something that was unsafe or wrong) which she still struggles with. Among other things Net’s life wasn’t what she wanted nor did she see a way out but to do it for her mother. She got help after her mother died through trial and error and is now doing well and what she loves and wanted to do all along.. writing. Im so glad she did because this book has opened my eyes and made me realise things I didn’t know before. 
Sad, dark, tense, emotional, heartbreaking, thought provoking, inspiring, challenging and reflective. I applaud Jennette for sharing her truth! 

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4.0

This was overall a really great memoir. Jeannette's childhood was traumatic in so many ways, and the way that she doesn't realize how bad it was until she's older is heartbreaking (but unfortunately common). It was easy to follow and an important story to share, particularly when it comes to showing the effects that emotionally immature and mentally abusive and manipulative parents can have on their children's mental health and wellbeing, both during their childhood and teen years and later as an adult. It's also important to additionally get a transparent account of what child stars often go through, especially those who were a part of Nickelodeon at that time (AKA the ones who were there at the same time as Dan Schneider)...

Some of the things Jeannette's mother did to her are shockingly disturbing to me (*potential spoiler*: teaching her calorie restriction as a kid and consistently showering her until she was 16 years old are just a couple of examples that come to mind...), and I applaud Jeannette for her vulnerability and honesty in talking about these instances. She knew she'd be getting backlash for her title alone, but detailing all of the literal abuse her mother put her through opens the door for the "respect your parents no matter what" crowd to publicly shun and criticize her. Of course, as depicted in the book and as is generally a theme amongst people in the entertainment industry and public eye, the general public giving their unsolicited opinions is something Jeannette is very familiar with. Additionally, it was really intriguing to get an insight into the way she navigated friendships and romantic relationships as she got older and how drastically her experiences with her family affected her interpersonally.

I will say that the ending felt a little rushed or abrupt to me. I'm not really sure why, it just didn't feel like we got full closure. Granted, we are not owed that as an audience nor is Jeannette's story over. Still, it felt like something was missing from my perspective, I just can't quite put my finger on what exactly that could be. It was almost as if some of the points she made in wrapping up the book felt unfinished or not fully explained.

Overall, though, I genuinely really enjoyed this book and it was a quick read for me. It was genuine, vulnerable, and captivating, and I too am glad that her mom died as well as the fact that she was brave enough to tell the whole world about her.

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5.0

Thank you, Jeanette, for sharing your experience and thoughts in such an earnest way. 

The writing is amazing by the way, it completely sucks you in from page one. 

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4.75

Like so many people, I couldn't resist the title.  I didn't love it on audio, as she speaks extremely fast and is somewhat monotone, especially in the book's first part, but I enjoyed finishing it on Kindle.  I had to reduce the speed of the book to 0.80 in order not to feel (more) anxious while listening.  Her story of surviving an extremely abusive childhood and Hollywood broke my heart.  At the same time, I was also entertained.  She's witty and insightful about what happened to her and the situations she encountered.  I hope she continues to recover from her childhood.

Numerous trigger warnings should be noted:  eating disorders, an abusive mother who has cancer, and a dysfunctional family, among others.  

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