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Being Lolita: A Memoir by Alisson Wood

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madelinequinne's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad fast-paced

3.75

A hard and heartbreaking memoir to get through, but so important. 

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.0


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dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.0


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emotional reflective fast-paced

5.0


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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

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buxomfloozy's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced

5.0

The author really opens up and allows us to see and feel her trauma alongside her.  She has a way of writing that brings you into her world. It is absolutely a book I recommend. Read and learn from Alisson Wood. 

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vkitoria's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective medium-paced

4.5

very well written and extremely eerie. especially in its similarities to my dark vanessa (a fiction book).

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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

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julietthague's review against another edition

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challenging emotional informative reflective tense medium-paced

5.0

what a book. 

in this raw and vulnerable memoir, alisson wood describes not only her relationship with being groomed by her english-teacher as a highschool student but also the ways he used the reoccurring literary motive of lolita throughout their relationship to manipulate her into thinking that what she indured was a lovestory and not abuse.
she deeply analyses the effects, parallels and dangers of misinterpretation regarding nabokovs 'real' literary  lolita, that more often than not show an uncomfortable parallel to her own history and has too often been misused to shift the blame and justify predatory behavior and abuse instead of acting as the cautionary tale it actually should be read as.

i listened to this on audible once again (i am really getting a little too obsessed) and i loved how the author read the book herself, at times it made me feel like listening to an old friend, sharing her formative past with a cup of coffee on hand.

raw, vulnerable, shocking, eyeopening - an absolute masterpiece and the biggest recommendation!

»that in order to be attractive, irresistible, to be worthy of notice, was to be both beautiful and in open need, to be damaged. the perfect artistry of pretty and pain. nabokov wrote that beauty plus pity is the closest we can get to art.«

»yes, 'lolita' is beautiful. but yes, it's also terrible. we can hold both in our hands.«

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smallcasualbooktok's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful inspiring medium-paced

4.0

I really liked this memoir. I loved how the structure mirrored the structure of lolita until alisson breaks away from her abuser, and the memoir then breaks away with that structure. I also thought the literary criticism was super well done, and the memoir was just overwell beautifully written. I do think it could have gone a bit deeper, but all in all I really liked this one!

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