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clairehambo's review against another edition
challenging
reflective
medium-paced
4.75
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Graphic: Sexual assault
sxndaze's review against another edition
challenging
reflective
tense
medium-paced
3.0
Which leads me to ask if this is what writing is. Writing is the collision of thoughts with events, translated into a material form and then back again into the whisper of a feeling.
But when the action is happening elsewhere
-for example, when your world is puny because you are in love-perhaps the writing is happening elsewhere. The writing is the urgency to translate and contain what is happening, when what is happening demands to be contained.
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Graphic: Rape, Abortion, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Sexual content and Sexism
yurty's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
funny
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
4.0
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Moderate: Sexual assault
ahrya's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
slow-paced
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Moderate: Sexual assault and Rape
ella1212's review against another edition
I might give it another go but even from just reading the first essay it’s a bit heavy and I just need something more light at the moment
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Moderate: Sexual assault
rabzia_'s review against another edition
emotional
funny
reflective
medium-paced
3.5
The best essays were ‘Yellow City’ ‘Blueberries’ and ‘A Museum of Rape’ as they were reflective and written really well. The others I was not as impressed with, mostly because they seemed almost repetitive - reflecting on her travels, ex lovers, and moving, with the some moments of critical reflection on her privilege or status within the world. I’ve recommended my favorite three essays to many people but wouldn’t recommend the whole book.
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Graphic: Abortion, Rape, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Toxic relationship
mads_jpg's review
challenging
dark
mysterious
reflective
tense
medium-paced
3.75
A really interesting read but a difficult one, some essays left me feeling not intellectual enough to appreciate this book. That being said, I adored the essay 'Notes to Unlived Time' and many others.
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Graphic: Classism
Moderate: Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Misogyny, and Sexual content
madicarus's review against another edition
emotional
medium-paced
3.5
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Graphic: Rape and Sexual assault
savvylit's review
reflective
medium-paced
5.0
Ellena Savage is absolutely brilliant. She's astute, wry, and persuasive. Like with other titles in the memoir genre, it's difficult to find the words to review these essays. Why try and summarize this work when the author writes their own stories so well? Thus, I'll leave you with some quotes to see for yourself.
"Sadness is not always a terrible illness. Sadness is, perhaps, the most honest response to living."
"Politics is not removed from the way the sun kisses your neck at the hour before sunset. Politics is the pleasure in the body and the imagination, too."
"This idea, that the normative domain of 'politics' is just suffering without style (or humor), comes, I suspect, from the notion that exposing 'the truth' of injustice will go some way to correcting it. And that the truth will be immediately discernible: it will be the ugliest thing; the thing we most want to turn away from. As though the individuals who make up a society are only complicit in any given injustice because 'the truth' has been hidden from them."
"Because this is what agency is: it is doing what you can do with the circumstances you are dealt. It is choosing to do, even and especially when your parents or your superego or the law disapproves."
"Love shows us that the certainties we accept are arbitrary, flimsy paper bits. An entanglement of love-struck, horny auras interrupts the sense of urgency otherwise governing a person's existence in the world."
"Is 'self-care' a neoliberal scam promoting individualistic coping strategies in the absence of broader social obligations or the possibility of radical structural change? (Well, yes, I say to myself as I slip into my fourth late-night bath of the week, thinking about my next semester of unemployment.)"
"Sadness is not always a terrible illness. Sadness is, perhaps, the most honest response to living."
"Politics is not removed from the way the sun kisses your neck at the hour before sunset. Politics is the pleasure in the body and the imagination, too."
"This idea, that the normative domain of 'politics' is just suffering without style (or humor), comes, I suspect, from the notion that exposing 'the truth' of injustice will go some way to correcting it. And that the truth will be immediately discernible: it will be the ugliest thing; the thing we most want to turn away from. As though the individuals who make up a society are only complicit in any given injustice because 'the truth' has been hidden from them."
"Because this is what agency is: it is doing what you can do with the circumstances you are dealt. It is choosing to do, even and especially when your parents or your superego or the law disapproves."
"Love shows us that the certainties we accept are arbitrary, flimsy paper bits. An entanglement of love-struck, horny auras interrupts the sense of urgency otherwise governing a person's existence in the world."
"Is 'self-care' a neoliberal scam promoting individualistic coping strategies in the absence of broader social obligations or the possibility of radical structural change? (Well, yes, I say to myself as I slip into my fourth late-night bath of the week, thinking about my next semester of unemployment.)"
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Graphic: Sexual assault and Abortion
ingridtanum's review against another edition
emotional
funny
reflective
slow-paced
3.25
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Graphic: Rape, Sexual violence, and Sexual assault