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sjklass's review against another edition
4.0
Watching Canada Reads a couple years ago and being so moved by Wab's impassioned defence of Joseph Boyden's The Orenda, I wondered 'who is this guy!? Then, being so impressed seeing him speak here in Kelowna a few weeks ago I knew I wanted to know more about this polished orator, activist and forthright man. Writing of his childhood, Anishinaabe culture and traditions, the chapter describing the sundance ceremony was especially moving. Even more-so, this is a touching honour-song to his father, Tobasonakwut Kinew. He writes of reconciling with his father and of his views of reconciliation for Canada. This memoir is of his first 40 years. I look forward to seeing what he does next in his life and career.
jaymielee's review against another edition
3.0
While I enjoy listening to Wab Kinew as a wonderful speaker about a vast number of important issues, this book wasn’t for me. There is a lot for us to learn from him, but I prefer his speeches that he makes!
mountie9's review against another edition
4.0
A very powerful memoir and one that really made me think about my own ignorance of my fellow Canadians. This one has been really sticking with me and makes me want to discuss with others. The abuse the Indigenous people of Canada have suffered at the hands of the priests and nuns - both sexual, physical and mental have such long reaching consequences. It sickens me that someone who is supposed to be a messenger of god could do such harm. I know people around the world think of Canada as a place of peace where there is no prejudice. I really wish that was true my friends, but we are not saints here. The fighting just to be done to actually use the term survivor makes me feel deep disgust for my fellow Canadians and our government. This book speaks quite plainly about the abuse, but it also talks about forgiveness, change, and most importantly - hope. This was truly an eye opener for me. I won't lie, its not well written, but that is really not that big of a deal as Wab is truly a storyteller, which is more important to me. Wab is a flawed and human just like the rest of us and I appreciated his self deprecating humour. This book is also a raw, honest look into a father and sons relationship.
Favorite Quotes
"More than any inheritance, more than any sacred item, more than any title, the legacy he left behind is this: as on that day in the sundance circle when he lifted me from the depths, he taught us that during our time on earthy we ought to love one another, and that when our hearts are broke, we ought to work hard to make them whole again."
"The police in Kenora used to come and round us up at two in the morning, if you were standing on the street corner, and take you to the drunk tank. Didn't matter if you were drunk or not. Just if you were Indian."
"The Residential schools were institutions of cultural genocide."
"Whenever Indigenous people stand up to safeguard their hormelands or sacred sites, it seems the prospect of job losses is ueed to whip up opposition to them. It's as if the people cannot have both jobs and spirituality. I would like to think we can make a living and still respect the earth."
"The combined weight of the churches and the Canadian state has been set on crushing children like him when they were just little - barely five, six or seven years old - but they did not break. They survived. They may have lost some of their friends, and may have been damaged along the way, but they did not give up."
"Over a lifetime of internalizing the message that you are "less than", you start to believe some of the lies you hear about yourself. It lowers your sense of self-worth and influences your behaviour. You begin to censor your own thoughts and actions or make choices because of the way you expect to be perceived as an Indigenous person."
"The First Nations youth suicide rate is five to six times the national average, and the rate for Inuit youth - is even higher - about eleven times the national average. Suicide is the leading cause of death for young Indigenous , and no one is able to explain it completely. Part of the cause has to do with learned behaviour and dysfunction, most notably from the residential school experience. I saw that play out in my own family. Generations were raised by strangers, and in some cases abusers. When these generations came home and started families, they treated us, their children, as they had been treated in those institutions."
Favorite Quotes
"More than any inheritance, more than any sacred item, more than any title, the legacy he left behind is this: as on that day in the sundance circle when he lifted me from the depths, he taught us that during our time on earthy we ought to love one another, and that when our hearts are broke, we ought to work hard to make them whole again."
"The police in Kenora used to come and round us up at two in the morning, if you were standing on the street corner, and take you to the drunk tank. Didn't matter if you were drunk or not. Just if you were Indian."
"The Residential schools were institutions of cultural genocide."
"Whenever Indigenous people stand up to safeguard their hormelands or sacred sites, it seems the prospect of job losses is ueed to whip up opposition to them. It's as if the people cannot have both jobs and spirituality. I would like to think we can make a living and still respect the earth."
"The combined weight of the churches and the Canadian state has been set on crushing children like him when they were just little - barely five, six or seven years old - but they did not break. They survived. They may have lost some of their friends, and may have been damaged along the way, but they did not give up."
"Over a lifetime of internalizing the message that you are "less than", you start to believe some of the lies you hear about yourself. It lowers your sense of self-worth and influences your behaviour. You begin to censor your own thoughts and actions or make choices because of the way you expect to be perceived as an Indigenous person."
"The First Nations youth suicide rate is five to six times the national average, and the rate for Inuit youth - is even higher - about eleven times the national average. Suicide is the leading cause of death for young Indigenous , and no one is able to explain it completely. Part of the cause has to do with learned behaviour and dysfunction, most notably from the residential school experience. I saw that play out in my own family. Generations were raised by strangers, and in some cases abusers. When these generations came home and started families, they treated us, their children, as they had been treated in those institutions."
kt42reads's review against another edition
4.0
It seems appropriate that I have been reading this book at this time. Wab Kinew shares his story with honesty and thoughtfulness. I would recommend it to anyone who finds themself where the roads diverge.
entropydoc's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
sad
slow-paced
5.0
libraryvee's review against another edition
4.0
Four stars because I'm rating the book, not the man, whom I now have changed my mind about since I've learned about his past domestic assault cases. (But that does colour my opinion, so I have a note at the bottom.)
So! The Reason You Walk is an uneven, but beautiful book. It begins with the story of Tobasonakwut Kinew, an Anishinaabe First Nations man, whose story is one that is just beginning to be recognized: that of a little boy being taken away from his family and culture, and enduring the brutality of a residential school. This is Wab's father, and it gives us context, not just for Wab, but for thousands of First Nations families. The residential school experience had a lasting, negative effect on generations to come. As Wab says, "Children were raised by strangers." So the cycle continues.
But this book isn't about that (although it gives important context, like I said.) It's about forgiveness, and reconciliation, and the path that we all walk together. Wab talks about his childhood spent with an angry, alcoholic father, who eventually cleaned up his life and came full circle. His legacy changed Wab - who chronicles his angry, alcoholic youth as well.
There were some frustratingly vague descriptions of moments where Wab would separate from his partner, or become a father, or have a career change, where he would only use a sentence to describe what happened. I thought these life-changing moments would come with more introspection, to match the tone of the rest of the book. This felt jarring, and distant to me, and accounts for the uneven-ness I felt.
However, there are some truly beautiful moments. There is a chapter dedicated to a vision quest, and another to a Sundance ceremony, which I found mesmerizing and wonderful. Also enlightening. The book really starts to come together in the last third, where we follow Wab's father "Ndede," on the last part of his journey with cancer, and Wab reflects on the lessons and legacy of reconciliation his father leaves behind.
I also really admire Wab's view on his own people's culture and history. He is genuine about wanting to share his culture not only with the next generation of Indigenous people, but also with Canadians across the country. His attitude is to move forward, to build bridges, and to act with understanding. It's beautiful, refreshing, and honest, all at once. I learned a lot reading this book, and felt inspired, actually.
So...the last thing I want to say is that, in light of the sexual assault charges against him, I'm not sure how I feel about Wab Kinew. I cannot support violence against women in any context. I don't blame Wab Kinew for his alcoholism, which kudos to him, he has fought against and won, but after learning about his sexual assault charges, as well as his racist and misogynistic comments, I don't feel comfortable endorsing this book.
So! The Reason You Walk is an uneven, but beautiful book. It begins with the story of Tobasonakwut Kinew, an Anishinaabe First Nations man, whose story is one that is just beginning to be recognized: that of a little boy being taken away from his family and culture, and enduring the brutality of a residential school. This is Wab's father, and it gives us context, not just for Wab, but for thousands of First Nations families. The residential school experience had a lasting, negative effect on generations to come. As Wab says, "Children were raised by strangers." So the cycle continues.
But this book isn't about that (although it gives important context, like I said.) It's about forgiveness, and reconciliation, and the path that we all walk together. Wab talks about his childhood spent with an angry, alcoholic father, who eventually cleaned up his life and came full circle. His legacy changed Wab - who chronicles his angry, alcoholic youth as well.
There were some frustratingly vague descriptions of moments where Wab would separate from his partner, or become a father, or have a career change, where he would only use a sentence to describe what happened. I thought these life-changing moments would come with more introspection, to match the tone of the rest of the book. This felt jarring, and distant to me, and accounts for the uneven-ness I felt.
However, there are some truly beautiful moments. There is a chapter dedicated to a vision quest, and another to a Sundance ceremony, which I found mesmerizing and wonderful. Also enlightening. The book really starts to come together in the last third, where we follow Wab's father "Ndede," on the last part of his journey with cancer, and Wab reflects on the lessons and legacy of reconciliation his father leaves behind.
I also really admire Wab's view on his own people's culture and history. He is genuine about wanting to share his culture not only with the next generation of Indigenous people, but also with Canadians across the country. His attitude is to move forward, to build bridges, and to act with understanding. It's beautiful, refreshing, and honest, all at once. I learned a lot reading this book, and felt inspired, actually.
So...the last thing I want to say is that, in light of the sexual assault charges against him, I'm not sure how I feel about Wab Kinew. I cannot support violence against women in any context. I don't blame Wab Kinew for his alcoholism, which kudos to him, he has fought against and won, but after learning about his sexual assault charges, as well as his racist and misogynistic comments, I don't feel comfortable endorsing this book.