Reviews tagging 'Death of parent'

Under the Udala Trees by Chinelo Okparanta

32 reviews

lilystheme's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Loveable characters? Yes

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Lesbophobia, Homophobia, and Violence

Moderate: War, Miscarriage, Emotional abuse, and Death of parent

romynebel's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Death of parent, War, and Religious bigotry

anansi_tales's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

Parts of this book are spectacular, amazing use of dreams both culturally and for plot. You genuinely root for the main character, and continuously feel for her. That being said there are parts of this book I wish the author focused more on and I do think the pacing of book in places drags. All things considered if a sequel or spin off for a side character was made, I would read it in a heart beat.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Hate crime, Lesbophobia, Rape, Sexism, Homophobia, Abandonment, Death of parent, Grief, Miscarriage, Infertility, Injury/Injury detail, Sexual content, War, Pregnancy, Toxic relationship, and Misogyny

wanabees's review against another edition

emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: War, Death of parent, Homophobia, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, and Child death

rionstorm's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.0

Really well written, but very heavy. The story is told in an almost dissociative, hazy, slow way. Gorgeous descriptions of flora that were all unfamiliar to me, so I got to learn about lots of new plants/fruits/etc. There's only very shallow exploration into any character other than the narrator, which is perhaps by design but left me feeling a bit disconnected from the story. Not exactly my cup of tea but a well written book.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Genocide, Grief, Hate crime, Abandonment, Xenophobia, Death of parent, Infidelity, War, Misogyny, Outing, Pregnancy, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Death, Gore, Gun violence, Lesbophobia, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Sexism, and Religious bigotry

Moderate: Fire/Fire injury, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, and Miscarriage

kari_f's review against another edition

4.0

“I suppose it’s the way we are, humans that we are. Always finding it easier to make ourselves the victim in someone else’s tragedy. Though it is true, too, that sometimes it is hard to know to whom the tragedy really belongs.”

I have been struggling with how to write this review, because the book was so well written but is also something I have no intention of ever rereading. I wish I’d known going into it how deep the levels of trauma and tragedy would be so I could prepare myself a bit for it.

There is war, civic unrest, grief, abandonment, religious trauma, poverty, homophobia, sexism, ethnicism, hate crime, depression, repeated sexual assault, and more… and it’s heavy to handle it all. There were several times I had to put the book down because the content was too heavy to continue with it.

That all being said, there are stories in this book that needed to be told and the author told them beautifully. The writing was well done, and each heartbreak the protagonist endured was a heartbreak for the reader as well. 

I have read several books set in Nigeria this year, and this one definitely had a setting and perspective they were different from anything I’ve previously read. It also led me to do some research on topics, events, and laws I didn’t really know much (or anything) about, and I always appreciate when a novels spurs me to learn more about the real world. So all in all, I’m glad I read it, but I won’t likely read it again in the future.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Religious bigotry and Sexual assault

Moderate: Abandonment, Death of parent, Hate crime, Grief, and War

oliii_24's review against another edition

dark emotional hopeful reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Homophobia, Pregnancy, Miscarriage, Lesbophobia, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Religious bigotry

Moderate: Emotional abuse, Blood, War, Suicide, Sexual violence, Domestic abuse, Death of parent, and Suicidal thoughts

Minor: Car accident, Hate crime, Sexism, and Blood

dfrancis's review against another edition

hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death of parent, Homophobia, War, Death, Hate crime, and Lesbophobia

Moderate: Sexual assault, Death, Domestic abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Misogyny, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, and Pregnancy

lindiwe's review

adventurous challenging emotional inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? N/A
• Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A

5.0

During the height of the Biafran conflict in 1968, this tale follows Ijeoma. When her father is killed during the war, her life changes as her mother grieves and is separated from her. She is sent to stay with the grammar school teacher, that's when meets Amina, a girl who lost her family during the war, and they establish a relationship that Ijeoma's mother attempts to destroy by cramming the bible down her throat. The author takes us through Nigeria's biafran conflict and how it impacts Ijeoma's childhood, coming to grips with her sexuality, as she marries and goes through motherhood, and marriage problems. A fantastic novel with a remarkable writing style that touches on civil war, bereavement, mother-daughter relationships, religion, lesbianism, and other topics. There was no need for the epilogue, and the blackness and food description were off putting and the way young women's bodies were describe was also problematic for me. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death of parent, Grief, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Homophobia, War, Body shaming, Death, Lesbophobia, Pregnancy, Self harm, Sexual assault, Hate crime, Sexual content, and Violence

wreathedinviolets's review against another edition

challenging emotional medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Homophobia, Death of parent, Death, and Hate crime