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_meganrose's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Sexism and Infidelity
Moderate: Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, and Mental illness
mikaylachavez's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
vbarsi's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Sexual content and Toxic relationship
Minor: Emotional abuse
ruthypoo2's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
The main character of the story has what many would characterize as an enviable life, being married to a wealthy and successful man and living a posh lifestyle. But I can only take so much of a manic personality that's laced with heavy doses of what seems to be absurdly unhealthy self-recrimination. I stuck with this book and followed the main character down an ugly rabbit hole hoping there would be a destination, or satisfying landing point, that rewarded me with some kind of emotional payoff. I did not feel rewarded when I got to the end of the main character's story arc.
I will admit the twist at the end caught me off guard and it was a nice little sleight of hand by the author. Unfortunately, for me, by the time I turned the last page, metaphorically speaking, I was not a happy camper and could only shake my head. I will concede that many readers have been delighted with the story and resolution contained in this book, it just wasn't my cup of tea. Granted, the writing/translation is well done, but the story just did not do it for me.
I listened to the audiobook and enjoyed the narrator, Kiiri Sandy. The main character does not have an easy or pleasant personality to present to the reader and despite that, Ms. Sandy made the story infinitely more digestible than if I'd read it on the page and had to come up with a voice for this character in my head.
Graphic: Toxic relationship
Moderate: Infidelity and Emotional abuse
Minor: Stalking, Sexual content, Alcohol, and Mental illness
opplecopter's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Pregnancy, Sexual content, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, and Infidelity
Moderate: Toxic friendship and Alcohol
Minor: Self harm and Suicide
likeagilmoregirl's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
The narrator in this novel (the wife/Obsessor) can only be described as unwell and unlikable. I found this stream-of-consciousness narration difficult to get through at times, yet I felt just connected enough to keep reading. The wife is awful, but familiar. She is representative of the contradictory lives that people who identify as women are expected to lead. And because of that, it was easy to relate to her and even easier to hate her.
For a majority of this work, I expected to rate this 3.5 stars. Until the last 30 pages. The final chapter and the epilogue completely change the perspective we have of the wife’s actions with an abrupt, yet not completely unsurprising turn. Was an epilogue really worth treading through the entire novel? For me, absolutely, it was well worth it. This was a 5 star read for me and I can’t wait to read it again.
Graphic: Sexual content, Mental illness, Emotional abuse, Stalking, Toxic relationship, Abandonment, Gaslighting, and Infidelity
Moderate: Self harm
Minor: Pregnancy and Infertility
pookiee's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
the narration was super interesting to me, despite it being mostly just her inner thoughts. she's uniquely unhinged without showing it on the outside. i don't know that all her musings are true (are being the giver or the receiver of love really the only options?), but they all made me stop and think. i did not like the epilogue—it felt like a cheap and easy ending—but even it made me really think.
reading it in a foreign/its original language made it better cuz it forced me to slow down a little to absorb and ponder everything. also, writing always looks better in a foreign language cuz i don't know enough to critique it. i'm proud i was able to get thru it w/o much trouble while learning a bunch of new terms!
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Infidelity, Mental illness, and Emotional abuse
michbrito's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Gaslighting, Infidelity, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Emotional abuse
stellahadz's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
This book is brilliant - the writing is detailed and clever, just toeing the line of satire, and captures the book's premise and the narrator's interiority perfectly. Ventura paints a vivid picture of the most extreme manifestations of the expectations that society places on romantic love and marriage. The unnamed narrator, although not a great person, is an incredibly well-written and complex character. There are aspects of her neurosis that are deeply relatable and make me feel sad for her (anxious attachment, anyone?), but she also behaves in despicable and downright abusive ways. She's a deeply disturbed person who becomes more and more unhinged as the story progresses, but she embodies what so many of us have been conditioned to believe about what it means to be in love.
Personally, I think the book could have been shorter, and I'm not sure why it's labeled as a thriller, but aside from that it's an excellent read. Highly recommend.
Moderate: Infidelity, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
sydresnik's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, and Toxic relationship