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Between You & Me: Confessions of a Comma Queen by Mary Norris

_bekah_grace_'s review against another edition

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funny informative fast-paced

4.0

kshiner's review against another edition

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funny informative lighthearted reflective medium-paced

3.5

khornstein1's review

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3.0

I feel like I should have liked this better...I have a real nerdly interest in grammar and the history of the English language. The book starts off well; I was sort of interested in Norris's career at the New Yorker...but we didn't really learn much about it. And I was disappointed to find that all the "rules" of grammar at the New Yorker were way more...fluid? than I thought they would be and, in fact, were sometimes developed at the whim of various staff members.

Pencils...I have obsessions like that as well: ask me about my binder clip collection! But I get the joke--it doesn't need to go on and on. I am also aware that the absurdity of certain "rules" that even the highbrow world of elite magazine publishing cannot even agree on, are things I find myself trying to explain to adults who (whom?) I tutor for the high school equivalency exam. Many times I am telling them, (about commas for instance...) "this is just the way it is on the Hi-Set--there's no reason for it! Just memorize it!" The chapter on gender was good.

hinesight's review

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4.0

How to tell you're going to love the book you're reading when you're only 8 pages in:

"I cannot explain the effect this word [synecdoche] had on me, except to say that it made me ecstatic. I was like that cartoon dog who, when given a biscuit, hugs himself and levitates. In addition to what the word was describing - the wilds of Alaska - it was a window onto the writing itself." ~ paperback edition

OMYGOD, yes!! Done this very thing, preach on, Mary Norris!!!

pwheater's review against another edition

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4.0

Fun and informative read. Part grammar guide, part life story, wholly entertaining.

tara_pikachu's review

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2.0

I expected a fun, light read on grammar but that's where I am fundamentally wrong..aren't I? (Mary Norris would scowl at serial the comma I put in after 'fun'.) Grammar is never fun...no matter how eager I am to perfect mine.

heyallimarie's review

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4.0

The grammar nerd in me loved every bit of this book (even the bits that went over my head or I had to look up). Thankfully, I have two good friends with English degrees who discussed it with me endlessly. I always love memoirs and this was no exception! Four stars.

hannchilada's review against another edition

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funny medium-paced

3.0

I don’t think the audience is editors. There’s just too much explaining of her perspective takes, although when Norris wanted to be, she was very amusing. 

erboe501's review against another edition

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3.0

I wanted this to be slightly more memoir and slightly less instructional, but overall I think it was a good blend of both. I learned about what it's like to be a copy editor (and the fact that I could never be one). I learned a few grammar rules I'll try to keep in my brain: it's between you and ME, not between you and I (as the book's title suggests).

Sometimes when Norris explained why a comma should or shouldn't go somewhere, she made the explanations of minute grammar technicalities sound like beautiful prose. I don't think I've ever read sentences as carefully as she has.

Could be dense because of the detailed explanations of copy editing commas, hyphens, and spelling, but I still enjoyed it.

biscuithead's review against another edition

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was enjoying it sorta but felt neutral about it. I just like her voice I think.