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oliviacarew's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexism, Violence, Antisemitism, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Car accident and Pregnancy
Minor: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Cancer, and Grief
maddiet425's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Medical trauma, Car accident, Pregnancy, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Racial slurs and Antisemitism
alreads420's review against another edition
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexism, Violence, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Cancer, Child abuse, Gore, Torture, Medical content, Car accident, Pregnancy, and Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Animal death, Genocide, Panic attacks/disorders, Slavery, and Antisemitism
phantomgecko's review against another edition
3.0
People from back home have been asking me about this book, and I was embarrassed. "My husband isn't like that. I'm not like that," I wanted to scream. But I didn't know exactly what the book said, so it was hard to defend.
Though doubtlessly exaggerated or bent in certain places, the gist of this memoir rings true. (I've met her father, and tbh, you can only tell he has burn scars if you look super carefully and closely, for example.) Especially with the extended witness testimony, particularly of her brothers, I believe for sure there was an abusive situation, and Tara is as yet still being gaslighted about the whole thing.
I read an article about the family and their reaction that was published just this year (2023), just to really hear both sides. (I know these people but I'm not tight, ya feel? Second cousins and such.) And legit the things some family members said in the article felt exactly the same as how Tara had written them.
So, still I am embarrassed. Embarrassed that so many people that live in proximity to where I am now legitimately think and act the way of the Westovers in the book. I mean mostly in reference to all the fake medicine and energy healing bs, but also definitely with anti-government sentiment.
I'm glad Tara extricated herself from a garbage situation, and she shouldn't mend ties until they apologize, imho. The writing in engaging, the structure effective, and the musings though provoking.
Though this book isn't about me, I feel it reflects on where I live, so please don't judge Idaho too harshly. And I have to accept some people are stupid and will remain stupid, and there's nothing I can do about it.
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Toxic relationship, Blood, Antisemitism, Religious bigotry, Car accident, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
thekiwibibliophile's review against another edition
4.5
I was hooked from the start & really loved the message. Everyone needs to read this!!!
Graphic: Animal death, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Physical abuse, and Violence
Moderate: Terminal illness and War
Minor: Alcoholism, Antisemitism, and Alcohol
tobiolovebot's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Sexism, Sexual violence, Violence, Medical content, Religious bigotry, Car accident, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Animal death, Body shaming, Cancer, Gun violence, Hate crime, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Blood, Antisemitism, Grief, Murder, and Pregnancy
kemrick19's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Animal death, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Death, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexism, Terminal illness, Violence, Blood, Antisemitism, Medical content, Car accident, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
m4rtt4's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Sexism, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Religious bigotry, Medical trauma, Car accident, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Abandonment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Gun violence, Racial slurs, Racism, Xenophobia, and Antisemitism
pipcorn's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Religious bigotry, Car accident, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, and Antisemitism
vireogirl's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Violence, Antisemitism, Religious bigotry, Car accident, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Abandonment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Death, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Grief, and Pregnancy