A review by deepbutdazzlingdarkness
But How Are You, Really by Ella Dawson

5.0

This was so good!! Idk if it’s a new trend or just happens to be a theme in the books I’ve picked up lately, but it’s interesting reading so many stories about people dealing with the way their families react to them being queer in disappointing (and worse) ways. It’s sadly realistic but I enjoy seeing such a strong focus on found family.

Charlotte’s journey was rough to read, cw for emotional abuse, depression, panic attacks, suicidal ideation, etc., but seeing her finally break free from that and realize her worth and that she has people who love her and care about her was so satisfying. And Charlotte and Reese’s relationship was great. The way they’re so comfortable around each other, in contrast to the stress that was her and her ex, the way he helps her lighten up, that he’s able to open up to him about her past and her trauma, the laughing during sex! <3

Oh and I love the cover! Thank you to Dutton Books and NetGalley for the digital copy in exchange for a honest review..