A review by lauren_endnotes
Tearing the Silence: On Being German in America by Ursula Hegi

3.0

Ursula Hegi moved to the US from Germany at the age of 18. She was born one year after the war ended, and she remembers vividly what her elders told her about those years. In her Introduction to the book, she states why she wrote this book, and how it helped her identify with her cultural heritage. With the title Tearing the Silence she makes her point very clear: Post-war German immigrants have stories to tell.

Hegi conducted interviews with post-war German immigrants in the US. Most of the stories were similar to her own: born and raised in Germany during, or after, World War II, and immigration to the United States before age 20. Some are children of SS officers, others are children of privates. Some live happy lives and do not focus on the past, others are haunted by what happened.
There are some great stories in the book--very thought-provoking. I was amazed at how some of the same phrases were repeated in all of the stories--even though the interviewees never met each other. Many were told that there parents "...never knew about the Holocaust", and others said "Germans suffered too..."

ETA: Read in grad school (ca. 2004) for an oral history project