A review by profadenine
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex: Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers by Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Ronald Gregoire

4.0

This was a weird one. I read the Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex a while ago, and I appreciated it's honesty and frankness. This book seemed a lot more regressive. For example, the GGG2GS (shoot, I can't use that) the GUYS version focused on a commitment to female pleasure, and how it's kinda shitty that woman don't orgasm often with "good guys," and how to combat that. They explicitly mention the orgasm gap. The GIRLS version started included that orgasms weren't that important, and they shouldn't be pursued that much. That's just one example, but I felt like it encapsulates so much of the difference. This may be because they came out 10 years apart (2012 and 2022 for Girls and Guys respectivell) or the fact that they have different audiences, or that the Guy version was written with help for her husband, so more perspectives. But the Girl's version seems more conservative, more regressive. Some of the language around being a good girl as opposed to a good guy seems more of a dichotomy in the former one between good and evil, where's the latter almost felt as a confrontation of the, "nice guy," architype. The latter also felt less preachy and conservative.