A review by katrinia17
Empathy: Why It Matters, and How to Get It by Roman Krznaric

4.0

I'm doing a lot of reading as of late and moments ago finished On Writing by Stephen King and yesterday I finished Everyone Helps, Everyone Wins by David Levinson. Both are non-fiction but on different subjects from each other. On Writing is a book on writing and Levinson was all about volunteering. Empathy is about Empathy. All good books with a lot of information, a lot of resources, and a lot of stories about others and the authors experience.

I bring this up because Empathy actually talks about writing and how reading can help us with empathy. King brings you into his world and how he became a writer, the challenges and fears that he faced and in the end the near death experience. I spent my time laughing, crying, and at times feeling very, very afraid. Levinson on the other had did the samething minus the fear. Replace the fear with OMG and WTF? Both of these guys can tell a story. They made me feel as if I was just chatting with them over BBQ and maybe a beer. Rootbeer, I don't drink beer.

Roman Krznaric, not so much on the bonding experience.

The book is a quick read but it is full of references and tons of info with little notes and numbers all over the place. There were times that the onion ninjas wanted to come out but I never actually was moved, moved. Not to cry or laugh. Not in fear or disbelief. Not to sit down and chat up the author over some drinks.

But I was moved. I was inspired. I was able to empathize with the author and rejoice with him. I was left with hope and uplifted spirits. This didn't come throughout the book, not like with the others, but when I read the last page, closed the book, and sat back for a moment, that is when it came.

I listened to King and Levinson. I put myself into their shoes and came out understanding them and their lives because I empathized with them. I didn't realize I was putting the habits Krznaric explains in his book to use. I didn't realize it until after I reflected on it all. I think that when I put myself into Krznaric's shoes that is what he would want; for me to reflect on his words and carry them with me.

Because of that I've bumped the rating from a 3 to a 4 star.